Monga mukudziwira, oyandikana nawo sali osankhidwa, choncho tikuyenera kupirira ndi omwe amakhala kumbuyo kwa khoma kapena kumbuyo kwa mpanda, ndi zizoloŵezi zawo. Nthaŵi zina, maubwenzi apamtima amakula kukhala mabwenzi apamtima, ndipo nthawi zina amakhala udani woopsa. Kodi simungalole nkhondo yowopsya pakati pa nyumba, ngakhale nyumba, ndi kukhazikitsa mtendere woyembekezeredwa? Ufulu ndi maudindo a oyandikana nawo - okhala panyumba, komanso njira zamtendere zowatsogolera zili pansipa.
KUKONDA ANA ANU
Malinga ndi ziwerengero za Ministry of Internal Affairs of Russia, milandu yoposa 5 peresenti yachitidwa pakhomo la nyumba ndi oyandikana nawo. Inde, mu sayansi yamakono pali chinthu chonga "psychology wa oyandikana nawo". Kumbali imodzi, mumawoneka kuti simunali alendo, ndipo kwa zaka zambiri mwakhala mukukhala pa malo amodzi, ndipo pamzake - simuli achibale apamtima, choncho muli ndi ufulu wokondana wina ndi mzake ndikuwonetsa zachiwawa. Mukhoza kukhala ndi maganizo osiyana kwambiri ndi moyo, ukhondo, njira zosangulutsa - palibe cholakwika ndi zimenezo. Kuonjezera apo, simukusowa kusangalala ndi kupambana kwa wina ndi mzake. Komabe, pakadali pano, zosakondweretsa zidzasintha ndipo mosakayikira zidzakula ndikukhala udani ngati simudzasiya nthawi ndipo musakumbukire lamulo loyandikana nalo - muzikonda mnansi wanu momwe mumadzikondera nokha! Lamulo likuwonjezera: Dziwani ufulu wanu ndi maudindo anu.
Palibe amene akunena kuti panthawi imodzi mwadzidzidzi muyenera kukonda ana a Petrovs ndi mwana wawo wovuta, mwana wamasiye, yemwe amakonda kumwa mphwake wake komanso akuwomba galu mwachidule, oyandikana nawo onse - okhalamo nthawi yomweyo. M'malo mochita mantha ndikudandaula za nthawi iliyonse, sintha maganizo anu pazochitikazo. Yesani kukhazikitsa malamulo anu pakumalo. Chinsinsi cha kupambana kwanu ndi ulemu komanso khalidwe lanu lolondola. Ngati mukufuna kukhala chete pambuyo pa 23.00, kumbukirani kuti posachedwa mudzabadwa tsiku lobadwa. Ndipo chifukwa chake, mmalo moika patsogolo chiwonetsero, perekani kukonzekera misonkhano yamadzulo, mwachitsanzo, kamodzi pamwezi, kuchenjezana za iwo pasadakhale. Ngati mwatopa kukukumbutsani anansi anu za kukhala oyera, lembani kalata yolemekezeka ndikuikani pamakonzedwe kapena kukwera. Sikofunika kugwiritsa ntchito mawu amwano ndi zofunikira, chidziwitso monga "Ife sitiri nkhumba! Lekani kutsitsa pa masitepe ndikuponyera paliponse ng'ombe! ", Zoonadi, zowoneka bwino, koma zopanda ntchito. M'malo mwake, kalata yololera, yotanthawuza kuyamikira nyumbayo ndi kuigwiritsa ntchito mwachikondi, idzachititsa kuti anthu osanyalanyaza ayambe kuganiza. Pamapeto pake, ikani ashtray kapena tinini pa masitepe ndipo lembani pa izi: "Ikani zipsera za ndudu mkati mwanga" - ndikuika smiley kumapeto. Anthu oyandikana nawo adzalandira kuyamikira kwanu komweko ndipo adzasangalala kugwiritsa ntchito njira yanu.
Chinthu china cha ubale wabwino ndi anzako ndikumvetsa! Yesetsani kulowa mmalo mwa omwe amakhala kumbuyo kwa khoma lanu. Iwo sali ndi mlandu wonse kuti mwana wawo wa miyezi isanu sanagone usiku, ndipo agogo aamuna amafuula mokweza ndipo amayenda pamagulu. Mavuto ena sangathe kusintha, choncho njira yoti mutulukemo ndiyo kuvomereza ndikukumana ndi mavuto osakhalitsa.
KODI SUNGAKUTHANDIZE BWANJI?
Wokonda kunja sangakukondeni inu mu chirichonse, ngakhale chipewa chanu. Komabe, pali zinthu zomwe zimapweteketsa mtima pafupifupi aliyense!
♦ Chuma. Zipangizo zabwino, nyumba yamtengo wapatali, nyumba yosungiramo nyumba yomwe ili ndizitali, mawindo akunja pansi pazenera - zonsezi zidzachititsa nsanje anthu omwe akusowa zinthu zabwino. Palibe chodabwitsa apa - akatswiri a maganizo amaganiza kuti nsanje "kumverera kwachirengedwe, kamangidwe kamene kamaphatikizapo mpikisano, ndikukumana ndi lingaliro lakuti winayo ali ndi chokhumba chomwe ine ndiribe, ndi chidani chimene chimayambitsa."
Zomwe mungachite: kuyang'ana mabwenzi ndi anzanu pazochita zawo ndi anthu, ndipo okhala ndi abwenzi olemera omwe sakhala nawo pakati, musawaitane kuti azipita, musafunse kuti awone zachilendo zina.
• Ngozi zapanyumba. Ngati nthawi zambiri mumadzaza anthu oyandikana nawo madzi ndipo nthawi zonse mumakonzekera kusowa kwa wiring, kuyembekezera mavuto. Izi sizosangalatsa kwa wina aliyense ndipo sizimatero! Malingana ndi lamulo, wovulazidwayo ali ndi ufulu wopempha malipiro a kuwonongeka kwa makhalidwe ndi kuwonongeka kwabwino (ngakhale mosadziwa).
Chochita: ndi bwino kupanga kukonzekera koyenera pasadakhale. Musati mulindire mpaka chitoliro chanu chitaphulika ndi madzi athamangire pansi, kuyitanitsa plumber pa chizindikiro choyamba chadzidzidzi. Kuonjezera apo, kuyitana kulikonse chifukwa cha kukanika kumalembedwera m'mabuku olamulira, ndipo ngati ngoziyi ichitika, mudzakhala ndi chifukwa chabwino pamlandu.
Kukonzekera. Kuwombera anthu oyandikana nawo nthawi zonse kungapangitse ngakhale Asitikiti omwe sagonjetsedwa kwambiri.
Zomwe mungachite: Musanayambe kukonza, onetsetsani kuti mumapempha anansi anu, kodi sizimatetezedwa ndi phokoso ndipo nthawi yabwino ndi yani? Pambuyo pake, funsani chikhululukiro cha zovuta - chilolezo chimasula manja anu.
DZIWANI
Anthu onse ndi osiyana, koma mitundu ina pakati pa anansi akukumanabe.
♦ Wotsutsa. Posakhalitsa adapuma pantchito, choncho sangathe kusiya chigwirizano cha ntchito yoopsa. Mkazi wotereyu akungoyamba kutsogolera mavuto a anthu ndipo nthawi yomweyo amakhala mutu wa nyumba yonse - nthawi zambiri amathamanga kwa inu kuti asonkhanitse zizindikiro zazing'ono kusintha pakhomo ndikudandaula kwa Ivanovs kuyambira pachisanu chachisanu chomwe sichiwonetsa zosangalatsa .
Njira yolankhulana: musapereke ndalama zonse ndipo musatsutsane. Mulungu sayenera kukangana ndi wolimbikitsa.
• Wodala wachikulire. M'nyengo yotentha chisanu ndi kutentha kwakukulu, iye ndi abwenzi ake akhala pa benchi ndipo akuyang'anitsitsa aliyense yemwe alowa ndi kutuluka pakhomo. Adzawona chovala chanu chachifupi ndikufotokozera momveka bwino za khalidwe lanu losavomerezeka, adzakuuzani kuti osati atsikana okha, komanso anyamata anabwera kwa mwana wanu wamkazi, ndipo mwamuna wake amasuta nthawi yayitali ndi Svetlana Petrovna wosungulumwa kuchokera ku nyumba ya 45.
Njira yolankhulirana: tulukani pa makutu ndipo musakhulupirire chirichonse. Musamamvetsetse mawu achisokonezo. Ndipotu akazi achikulirewa nthawi zambiri amakhala othandiza. Ngati panyumba panu, Mulungu sakuletsa, padzakhala mavuto ena, iwo adzakhala oyamba kuwauza apolisi za zizindikiro zonse za wolanda, ndipo adzachenjeza akuba.
♦ Moyo wachifundo. Angakhale nambala iliyonse - kuyambira 13 mpaka 90. Nthawi zonse amapita kukadya, amakhala ndi mwanayo, amakongoletsa, amayenda galu, amamwe maluwa ndikungokuthandizani nthawi iliyonse.
Njira yolankhulirana: khalani mabwenzi, pangani anzanu ndikupanganso anzanu! Osangokhala pamutu pake, yesetsani kuthandizana.
• Kukongola kwachinyamata. Iye anakulira kutsogolo kwa nyumba yonse ndipo pang'onopang'ono iye anatembenuka kuchoka ku bakha wonyansa kupita ku nymphet yokongola yopusa. Komanso, mkazi wachikulire yemwe amakukondani nthawi zonse amakuuzani kuti mwamuna wanu akuyang'ana ubwino wachinyamata uyu.
Njira yolankhulana: Ndipotu, nkokayikitsa kuti mnzanuyo akusintha ndi mnansi wanu. Komabe, ngati muli ndi nsanje, ndi bwino kulankhula naye ndikuthetsa mavuto onse.
• Womanga-oyandikana nawo. Kukonzekera ndi chithunzi cha moyo wake. Kuchokera m'mawa mpaka usiku amakoola chinachake, kudula ndi misomali. Akudzutsa iwe Lamlungu m'mawa ndipo salola kuti ugone tulo usiku.
Njira yolankhulirana: pasadakhale imatanthawuza maola olandirika okonzekera. Musazengereze kunena kuti simunakonzeke mlungu uliwonse kuti muzimvetsera osati phokoso losangalatsa kwambiri padziko lapansi ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, kudzuka kwa iwo pa 6-7 kapena ngakhale 9 koloko.
• Woledzera. Zili choncho m'nyumba iliyonse. Adzakuuzani za tsoka lake losautsa ndipo sadzazengereza kupempha zana kwa mowa, vodka kapena mkate. Musaganize kuti adzawabwezera kapena kumvetsera malangizo anu ndi kusiya kumwa.
Njira yolankhulirana: muzoona, chisoni ndi chisamaliro cholondola. Musaope kukana mnzako woledzera. Ndi bwino kulidyetsa kunyumba kusiyana ndi kubwereketsa chakudya ndi mkaka.
MALAMULO ACHITATU "OSATI" NDI ANTHU OKWENZI
• Musalole kulankhulana kwapafupi, kotero kuti, Mulungu asalole, musatengere maganizo anu pa ubwenzi. Nthawi zonse khalani patali! Izi ndi zofunika kwambiri, chifukwa simungathe kufika pafupi ndi anthu otere ndipo posachedwa mudzafuna kusiya nawo, chiyanjano chilichonse. Ndi pamene kukumbukira ubwenzi wotaika kudzawapatsa mphamvu kuti amenyane nanu.
• Musayese kuwapezera ziphuphu - nthawi zambiri ndi zopanda phindu. Iwo amatha kutenga mphatso ngati zopereka, ndipo zolinga zanu zabwino ndi chizindikiro cha kufooka.
• Musayankhe mafunso monga "Ndani anabwera kwa inu dzulo?" Ndi mawu ochokera ku gulu "Simusamala". Ndibwino kutanthauzira zokambiranazo mosakayika pa zokambirana za TV, ma TV kapena china chilichonse chomwe chiri chokondweretsa kwambiri kuposa moyo wanu wachinsinsi. Musati muzinena kanthu za inu nokha, koma musayese kubisa chirichonse - kukhalapo kwa nkhani zoletsedwa kudzangopangitsa chidwi chanu. Aloleni iwo aziwonera TV bwino ndikumvetsera pa wailesi!
MALAMULO OYERA OKHALA
/ Mutatha kusamukira ku nyumba yatsopano ndikukonzekera kukonza, kuphika mapepala kapena kugula ku sitolo yapafupi ndikupita kwa oyandikana nawo. Ulendo umenewu uzisonyeza kuyamikira kwanu chifukwa cha kuleza mtima kwawo pa ntchito yokonza ndi yomanga m'nyumba yanu.
/ Yesetsani kupereka moni kwa alimi onse mnyumba - pamapeto, khalani chete mu elevator ndikudziyerekezera kuti simunayambe mwawonana, ndizosavomerezeka.
Musakane oyandikana nawo muzitsamba: mchere, shuga, masewera angathe kukudzidzimutsa mwadzidzidzi. Nthawi zina si zabwino kukhala ndi mwana wa mnzako, ndikuyenda galu la odwala Maria Petrovna. Kuwonjezera apo, kumbukirani kuti mwa kuvomereza kuthirira maluwa pa holide ya Smirnov, muli ndi ufulu wowalangiza kuti azidyetsa amphaka anu paulendo wanu wopita ku nyanja. Komabe, kuthandizana ndi chinthu chabwino, komabe, ngati oyandikana nawo akhala pansi ndi inu; khosi, usawope kukana.
/ Musatenge nawo mbali pa moyo wa anzako. N'zosatheka kuti mukhale okondwa ngati anthu achifundo amakuuzani kuti mwamuna wanu amabweretsa mkazi mnyumbamo. Koma kuchenjeza kuti mwana wamkazi wa mnzakoyo adatengedwera ndi mowa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo, nkofunikira.
/ Musaiwale kuti muyanjanitse ndi anansi anu malo opangira nyumba yanu ndi kukhazikitsa galasi pabwalo - ali ndi ufulu wochita zimenezo. Kunyalanyaza ufulu ndi maudindo a oyandikana nawo - okhala mnyumbamo sanatsogolere aliyense kuntchito yabwino.
Zochitika pawekha: Irina Belkina, wazaka 29.
Titasamukira ku nyumba yatsopano, ndinazindikira kuti anansi anga sangandipatse moyo. Pambuyo pa khomali panali banja lalikulu lomwe likulira ana a sukulu, achinyamata ovuta komanso anzawo a m'kalasi. Ndinali ndi pakati ndipo ndikufunitsitsa kwambiri pa chilichonse. Komabe, pamene Vanya anabadwira, ndinazindikira kuti, ndili ndi mwayi ndi anzako. Choyamba, ndimatha kuwapempha malangizo, ndipo kachiwiri, ndimatha kuchoka panyumba nthawi iliyonse ndikufunsa mmodzi wa ana kapena akulu kuti akhale ndi mwana wanga, chabwino, ndichitatu, ndikudziwa ndithu , kuti palibe amene angadandaule za mwana wanga wamtendere. Ndimasangalala kuti ndili ndi anzanga apamtima!