Lingaliro lalikulu ndi lakuti pambuyo pa zaka makumi atatu sichitheka kukhala wogwira ntchito mwakhama. Komabe, zenizeni zikuwonetsa zosiyana: zaka 30-35 ndi nthawi yofunikira kwambiri pa ntchito. Muzaka 30, mosasamala kanthu kuti mwakhala mukufika pazitali zapamwamba za ntchito kapena mutangoyamba kugwiritsa ntchito lamuloli, ndi bwino kutenga zotsatira zenizeni ndi kuganiza: koma kuti ndiyendetsedwe pati? Ndi pamene chilakolako chochita ntchito, kukwaniritsa kupindula kwa munthu kumabwera bwino. Ndipo muzichita izo, ndikhulupirireni ine, sizakhalanso mochedwa kwambiri ...
Zochitikazo "mpaka 30" zikuwoneka kuti zikudziwika kale. Kawirikawiri zaka pafupifupi 22 timalandira diploma. Tikagwira ntchito zaka ziwiri kapena zitatu, timamvetsa kuti maphunziro apamwamba sali okwanira. Kuwonjezera pa ichi nthawi ya moyo waumwini, kukwatirana ndi kubadwa kwa ana, ndipo pakutha zaka 30-35 tikhoza kutenga malo a "chokoleti" ndi malipiro apamwamba. Izi zimatchedwa "kukula kokwera" ...
Mwamba ndi apamwamba ...
Tatyana, ataphunzira sukuluyi, anapita kukagwira ntchito monga msilikali ku banki yaikulu. Zikuwoneka kuti udindowu sunalonjeze kukula kwake kwa ntchito, koma patadutsa miyezi itatu Tatiana adauka kwa mlembi, ndipo adakhala wothandizira mutu, patatha zaka zinayi - wotsogoleli wamkulu, ndipo patapita zaka khumi iye adatsogolera ntchito yothandizira.
Kuti achoke "kuti achoke", komatu sikuti ali wamng'ono. Tsopano palibe amene amadabwa ndi kuti pazaka 30 za ntchito, makamaka mwazimayi, zikuyamba. Eugene anakwatira pa 19, m'chaka chachiwiri cha Faculty ya Economics ya Moscow State University, ndipo zaka 7 zoyambirira za moyo wa banja zinkagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa ana, pokhala akugwira ntchito nthawi yochepa pa ntchito yosawerengeka. Pamene ana onse amapita ku sukulu, ndi nthawi yofufuza zomwe mwakumana nazo. "Pomwe ndinayambiranso panalibe konkire - ntchito yopanda ntchito. Koma, nditatha kuganiza, ndinazindikira kuti chinthu chabwino chomwe ndakhala ndikuchita ndi anthu, - akuti Eugene. - Ndili ndi maphunziro apamwamba komanso ndili ndi zaka 29, ndinakhazikika ntchito yanga yoyamba muzochita zapadera. Tsopano ndili ndi zaka 32, ndakhazikika kale mu kampaniyo, ndipo otsogolera amandiwona ine mwayi waukulu wa manejala. "
"Ndimakumbukira nkhani zambirimbiri," anatero Elena Salina, katswiri wothandiza anthu. - Ndikofunika kuti pa nthawi ino amai amawoneka kuti akukula mwachitukuko, kuzindikira ulemu wawo, kufotokoza cholinga ndi kupanga zolakwika zochepa kuti athe kuzikwaniritsa. Ndikosavuta kuti iwo apambane. "
Osasintha malo
Si onse omwe akufuna kukhala azidindo ndizoona. Bwanji ngati mukukonda ntchito yanu ndipo simungaigulitse pa udindo uliwonse wa utsogoleri? Kuti mukhale okhumudwa ndi nthawi, nthawi zonse muzikhala ndi chidwi ndi maphunziro atsopano ndi maphunziro pa phunziro lanu, yonjezerani ntchito zanu mwachidule, mukukula "pang'onopang'ono". Pakukulitsa chidziwitso chanu ndi luso lanu pamlingo wapamwamba, mudzakhala antchito ofunikira, olemba ntchito adzayendetsa mmwamba, ndipo inu mukhoza kulamula anu malingaliro a kampaniyo, osati mosiyana. "Ogwira ntchito omwe amawadziwa bwino nthawi zambiri amayamikira kwambiri anthu atsopano, ngakhale kuti ntchito zawo sizikuphatikizapo kuthetsa mavuto aakulu," anatero Elena Salina. - Bwana amatha kumvetsetsa: achinyamata sanakhazikitse maluso omwe amadziwika kuti ndi akatswiri. Iwo adzaphunziranso kuchokera ku zolakwa, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimapereka malire pa kampani. Komanso, ali wamng'ono (zaka 20-26) mavuto aumwini ali ndi chidwi chachikulu kwa munthu kuposa ntchito. Ogwira ntchito a zaka 29-35, m'malo mwake, ali odalirika, osamala za ntchito ndipo amayesetsa kupeza bwino kuti athandize banja, monga lamulo, lokhazikitsidwa kale. "
Alina, mkonzi wamkulu wa mlungu ndi mlungu, ali ndi zaka 34, akutsimikiza kuti sakufuna kusintha ntchito yake: "Bwana wanga adandiuza mobwerezabwereza kuti ndikuthandizira kuti ndikhale mkonzi wa mkonzi wamkulu wa magaziniyi, koma ndinakana. Ndimakonda kulemba, ndipo sindikufuna kutenga maudindo ena ... Ndizosautsa! "Alina amasangalala ndi ubwino wake weniweni wa luso lake: amatumizidwa kudziko lina kuti akaphunzitse, nthawi zonse amadzutsa malipiro ndi kukula kwa mabhonasi. Alina anati: "Ngati ndimasintha chilichonse, ndizolemba, osati zolembazo."
Yambani kuchokera pachiyambi!
Lamulo lagoli ndilo: kupanga ntchito, muyenera kukhulupirira nokha. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kaya muli ndi zaka zingati. Musawope ntchito yatsopano, ngakhale ntchito yapitayo sinali yogwirizana ndi zomwe munaganiza kuti muchite tsopano. Akatswiri a zachikhalidwe cha anthu amakhulupirira kuti masiku ano anthu ayenera kukhala okonzekera kusintha kwakukulu kwa zisanu kapena kasanu ndi chimodzi mu ntchito zawo panthawi ya moyo wawo wonse. "Chiwerengero cha kusintha kwa malo akunja chawonjezeka kangapo pazaka 15 zapitazo, kumvetsetsa kwathu mwayi wodzidzimitsa kwawonjezeranso," akulongosola Elena Salina, katswiri wothandiza anthu. - Lero, funso lakuti "Kodi mumagwira ntchito ndani?" Anthu akuyankha mobwerezabwereza kuti: "Pawekha." Amasankha malo ogwira ntchito malingana ndi zochitika zaumwini komanso mavuto azachuma ndipo akudziwiratu kuti ntchitoyi si ya moyo. "
Chitsanzo cha kudzoza ndi nkhani ya Olga Lakhtina, yemwe sanachite mantha kusintha ntchito yake zaka 35: "Nthawi zonse ndinkafuna kukhala katswiri wa zamaganizo, koma m'zaka zimenezo pamene ndinalowa koyunivesite, maganizo a ku Russia sanafunikire, ndipo makolo anga ananditsutsa sitepe yopanda nzeru. Ndinamaliza maphunziro anga ku Academy. Plekhanov adagwira ntchito zaka zambiri monga wofufuza zachuma, panthawi imodzimodziyo akuphunzira ntchito za maganizo. Pa 35, ndikupitiriza kugwira ntchito, ndinalowa ku Institute of Psychology ya Russian Academy of Sciences. Kwa zaka zitatu tsopano ndakhala katswiri wa zamaganizo pakati pa zokhudzana ndi maganizo ndi chitukuko cha achinyamata "Perekrestok". Ndimagwira ntchito ndi ana, ndikulangiza mabanja omwe ali m'mavuto, ntchito zothandizira kusukulu, kuchita masewera ena, m'mawu, kuchita zomwe ndakhala ndikulakalaka ndikuchita. "
Zoonadi, kusintha kwathunthu mu gawo la ntchito ndi njira yothandiza koma yowonjezereka njira zowonjezera. M'makampani ambiri, mutha kusintha ndondomekoyi, ndikukhalabe ndi makampani omwe mukudziwika kale.
Chinthu chachikulu sikuthamangira!
Kumbukirani, mu kanema "Moscow sakukhulupirira misozi," heroine wa Vera Alentova adati: "Pazaka makumi anai, moyo ukuyamba - tsopano ndikudziwa ndithu!" Kutanthauzira izi m'chinenero cha ntchito, tikhoza kunena motsimikiza kuti: pa makumi atatu tikungopanga maziko a moyo wabwino. Musayese kuthamanga patsogolo pa injini, kugwira ntchito maola 24 pa tsiku. Pofuna kupanga ntchito, kuti munthu apindule yekha ndizofunika kuti asaphonye moyo wokha. Pamapeto pake, timapereka ntchito kumoyo wathu wonse, ndipo sitiyenera kubweretsa ndalama zokha, komanso kukhala okhutira ndi makhalidwe. Musachite mantha kusintha kaganizidwe kanu kachitidwe kanu ndi zolakalaka zanu. Ngakhale mutatayika zomwe mwapeza kale, mobwerezabwereza mudzalandira zambiri - kusangalala ndi ntchitoyi.