Amzanga kuntchito: ubwino ndi chiwonongeko

Amanena kuti mabwenzi amachokera paubwana. Mwapita kusukulu pamodzi, konzani maphunziro, ndiyeno muziyenda, pamodzi mukupita ku sukuluyi, pamodzi mukuyang'ana ntchito yoyamba. Zaka zapita, ndipo moyo umakubala iwe mosiyana. Wina amakhala wopambana, wina wosachepera. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti pakhomo la anzanu wina amasiyidwa popanda ntchito kapena mwachikhumbo loto loti asinthe malo ake apamwamba. Bwanji ngati muli bwana ndipo mukufuna kutenga chibwenzi kuti akugwiritseni ntchito. Kodi zimagwirizana ndi ntchito ndi abwenzi?

Nthawi zabwino

Zowonjezera ndikutenga kukagwira ntchito mnzanu wodalirika, zambiri. Mumudziwa bwino munthu, mumudalire, mumadziwa zonse zomwe zimapindulitsa, komanso ndikudziwa kuti mungavomereze.

- Mnzanu nthawi zonse adzakhala kumbali yako.
Si chinsinsi kuti pali mikangano pa ntchito ndipo nthawi zonse kumbali yanu ndi ambiri. Ngati ntchito yanu ikugwirizanitsa ndi kupsinjika maganizo, ndiye kuti yodalirika pambali pake ndi thandizo. Mulimonsemo, inu simudzakhala nokha mwa kulingalira kwanu, chifukwa chibwenzi, makamaka, chidzaima pambali panu.

- Mnzanu nthawi zonse amavomereza kugwirizana.
Ngakhale mutapempha zosatheka, ngakhale mutalakwitsa, nthawizonse zimakhala zosavuta kuvomereza ndi mnzanu. Zimakhala zovuta kufunsa kuti mutengereni mnzako ngati muli pachibwenzi cholakwika. Mnzanu sadzakana konse thandizo.

- Mnzanu ndi wodalirika.
Mu ntchito palibe choipa kuposa mavuto osayembekezereka. Mumadziwa mnzanu kuyambira ubwana. Mukudziwa zomwe amatha, kumene kuli mphamvu zake ndi pamene pali zofooka. Pamapeto pake, ndi kosavuta kulamulira mnzanu, chifukwa mumamulimbikitsa kwambiri kuposa munthu wina aliyense amene simukumuchita koma mumagwira ntchito.

- Mnzanuyo ndi wodalirika.
Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito bwenzi lanu, ndiye kuti muli otsimikiza kuti munthu uyu sadzakuperekani. Choncho, musaope miseche kumbuyo kwanu, ndikuyesera kukhala pansi, kuyamba kuyambitsa.

Zili choncho kuti ntchito ndi abwenzi zimangopangidwira wina ndi mnzake. Ngati muli bwana, ndi mnzanu amene angakhale dzanja lanu lamanja. Mukhoza kumudalira nthawi zonse, ndikosavuta kuti mutseke maso anu ku zolakwika zina muntchito. Pamapeto pake, zimakhala zosavuta kuti muzilankhulana ndi mnzanu, ndipo mumakhala omasuka ndi kampani yake, ngakhale pali mavuto ena kuntchito.
Koma ngati zonse zili zovuta, ndiye chifukwa chiyani ambiri amakana kugwirizanitsa ntchito ndi abwenzi? Kodi pali vuto lililonse pankhaniyi?

Kuipa kogwira ntchito ndi abwenzi

-Discipline.
Chinthu choyamba chomwe chimakhalapo nthawi zonse chifukwa chakuti bwenzi la bwana amabwera kudzagwira ntchito. Mulole mtsikana azichedwa, chifukwa mumadziwa kuti amakhala kutali ndi ntchito, kuti amathawa m'mawa kwambiri, kuti akusowa nthawi yambiri yopangira tsitsi lake. Maso anu, izi zikuwoneka ngati chirengedwe chachilengedwe chophwanya chizoloƔezi cha mkati. Mtsikanayo adzasangalale mwamsanga ndipo sadzayesetsa kuti aziwonekera paofesi, afotokoze nthawi.

-Magulu.
Palibe chomwe chimakhala chonde champhamvu cha miseche monga kugwirizana pakati pa bwana ndi oyang'anira. Kaya ndi ubale wapamtima kapena bwenzi basi, mwamsanga onse pamodzi adzadziwa za izo. N'zachidziwikire kuti ubale ndi wogwira ntchito wotere, wolembedwa ndi munthu wodziwa bwino, sungakhale wabwino kwambiri? Ngakhale mnzanuyo ali ndi luso komanso munthu wodalirika, ayenera kutsimikizira kwa nthawi yayitali kuti adatengedwa pa positiyi, osati chifukwa cha manyazi.

-Ukulu.
Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti abwenzi, omwe timatenga nawo kuntchito yovuta mu miyoyo yawo, mwamsanga amazoloƔera kukhazikika ndikuyamba kufunafuna zambiri. Ndichilengedwe - kufunafuna kukwezedwa. Koma bwenzi sangathe kukhala, choncho akhoza kukhala wodekha. Chimene, ndithudi, sichibweretsa mgwirizano mu ubalewu.

-Ndalama.
Ndipo, potsiriza, chinthu choipa kwambiri ndi chosasangalatsa chomwe chingachitike pakati pa inu mukuperekedwa. Ngati munthu wakunja akuchita ntchito yolakwika, ndizosasangalatsa, koma amalekerera komanso amayembekezera. Koma mnzanu akamapereka ndalama, ndizovuta kwambiri. Chifukwa chake chingatumikire chirichonse - ndi kaduka, ndi zokopa za anzako, ndi zochita zolakwika, koma zoona zakhalabe - pa abwenzi akuntchito musakhale mabwenzi nthawi zonse.

Mwachiwonekere, ntchito ndi abwenzi ndizofuna kuti muziphatikiza zambiri, koma izi ndizosavuta kuphatikiza. Mukhoza kubwereka chibwenzi ngati simukukayikira za makhalidwe ake komanso ngati mumamupeza malo oti akulire popanda kumuvulaza. Ngati izi zatha, ubwenzi wanu sungagwire ntchito. Ngati mphindi iliyonse iphonya, ndiye mutha kukhala wotsimikiza, nthawi idzafika pamene chibwenzicho chidzasiya kukhala iye. Choncho, ndibwino kuganizira mosamala musanayambe kuyesedwa ndikutsegula zitseko za ofesi yanu kwa anzanu.