Poyamba, moyo wa mkazi unali wochepa kwa otchedwa "k": Kinder, Kirche, Kü chen, kutanthauza ana, khitchini ndi tchalitchi. Ndipo kawirikawiri omaliza anachita chimodzi mwa maudindo ofunika kwambiri. Mkazi wamakono ndi wokhulupirira wopatulika, akuzunguliridwa ndi mayesero ambiri, ntchito, ufulu, komanso nthawi yomweyo kusunga malamulo achipembedzo, ndi kutumikira moona mtima chikhulupiriro chake.
Pali mafunso ambiri omwe iye ali wamakono a Orthodox mkazi? Kodi akukhala kuti, kodi angapite kuntchito, ndipo ngati ndi choncho, ndikuti akagwira ntchito kwa mkazi wa Orthodox? Kodi amawoneka bwanji mu moyo wamba, kaya amavala mpango, kapena amadzilola kupanga zokongoletsera, komanso momwe angadziwire pakati pa anthu omwe ali owonadi wa Orthodox?
Mkaziyo.
Mwamwayi, m'masiku amasiku ano, akazi ambiri a Orthodox amakhala mumthunzi. Zolinga zawo sizili ndi malipiro, sizinalembedwe ndi tabloids, sizichotsa zenizeni zawonetsero. Ndipo mwinamwake chifukwa cha kudzichepetsa kotero ndi chikhumbo chokhalabe mumthunzi, chithunzi cha mkazi wa Orthodox, chimakhala cha anthu ambiri chinsinsi ndipo nthawi zambiri chimakhala ndi tsankho ndi nthano. Ndipotu, akaziwa si osiyana ndi amayi wamba. Kupatula ngati iwo ali olekerera kwambiri mu khalidwe, akukhulupirira moona, ndi kulimbitsa chikhulupiriro chawo mwa kusunga malamulo a mpingo. Zimakhala zofanana ndi zomwe akazi onse akufuna kukhala okongola, koma amakopeka ndi kukongola kwauzimu kusiyana ndi thupi, chifukwa simukuwona zovala zobvala zotere kapena zozizwitsa, koma sizikutanthauza kuti sadzavala bwino kapena osakonzekera bwino . Pakati pa amayi a Orthodox mumatha kuona akazi okongola kwambiri, zovala zowonongeka komanso zokongola, zomwe atsikana ang'onoang'ono ayenera kuzikweza.
Kawirikawiri, mkazi wamakono wa Orthodox amatha kuyanjana bwino ndi uzimu komanso uphunzitsi, osati kuwononga yekha, chikhulupiriro chake ndi banja lake.
Ndi mkazi wanji wa Orthodox wamakono? Zili zofanana ndi zonse, zasungidwa mmenemo, chinachake chowala ndi chosagwedezeka, chotchedwa anthu - mwa chikhulupiriro. Ndipo mkazi wina yense adzakhalabe mkazi, ndipo palibe chimene chingasinthe.
Chipembedzo ndi ntchito.
Moyo wokha, kapena osaganizira kwambiri kunyumba ndi banja, ndikupita kuntchito? Kawirikawiri mafunso ngati amenewa amachititsa kuti munthu asaganizire amayi okhaokha a Orthodox. Koma malinga ndi malamulo achipembedzo, mkazi wa Orthodox ayenera kudzipereka yekha kunyumba ndi chikhulupiriro chake. Koma kwa amayi amakono pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti azipita kuntchito tsiku ndi tsiku kuti apeze ndalama. Zomwezo zimakhudza zokonda za amuna amakono. Kaŵirikaŵiri amafuna kuwona mkazi wokhwima bwino yemwe ali wokondweretsa kulankhulana ndi chikhumbo chachikulu chokulitsa umunthu wake ndi kupindula bwino ndi apamwamba.
Mkazi wa Orthodox, kuchokera ku tchalitchi, ntchito ndilovomerezeka, koma ngati zimalepheretsa mkazi kugwira ntchito zapakhomo, kugwiritsa ntchito ntchito za amayi ndi abambo, ndiye kuti ntchito zotere ndizoopsa kuti banja likhale lolimba. Mofananamo, malingana ndi masomphenya a tchalitchi, chikhalidwe chonse, chikhalidwe, ndale za amayi ndi abambo zimaganiziridwa bwino, koma amayi a Orthodox amangofunikira kusankha: kudzipereka nokha ku banja, kapena kuyesa kusiya pakati pa nyumba ndi ntchito, ndi kukhala ndi nthawi yochita ntchito zonse zofunika. Chimene chimapangitsa moyo kukhala wovuta nthawi zambiri. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ntchitoyi sizotsutsana ndi nyumbayo.
M'dziko lamakono, mkazi wa orthodox amayesa kugwirizanitsa ntchito ya mkazi ndi kusamalira nyumba ndi banja ndi ntchito yolenga ndi yosangalatsa. Komabe, pali zitsanzo zambiri za amene angayende. Zomwe zikuchitika, anthu ambiri otchuka amaphatikizapo ntchito zawo ndi zikhulupiriro za Orthodox, ndipo mothandizidwa ndi kutchuka kwawo amayesetsa kukopa achinyamata, kuwapatsa lingaliro lenileni lachipembedzo, ndi kugawitsa momveka lingaliro la chikhulupiriro chowona mtima ndi kukhudzika mtima.
Ntchito ya mkazi wachikhristu wokhala kunja kwachilendo sizingakhale chifukwa cha chikhumbo cha "kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi", ndipo amadziwa ntchito yawo yapamwamba ngati njira imodzi yodziwitsidwa yokha ngati mkazi wachikhristu. Komabe, chithunzithunzi sichiri chosangalatsa kwambiri, mu mabanja a Orthodox. Kaŵirikaŵiri, mikangano yomwe inachititsa akazi kugwira ntchito yokhudzana ndi kuchoka, kusagwirizana pakati pa "moyo" ndi "osati moyo" omwe sungathe kuwomboledwa ndi wamba. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa zowonongeka, pamene apulumutse dziko lonse, mkazi ayenera kukhala pakhomo. Koma amayi ambiri amakhalanso omasuka ndi izi. Ndipo ngati zonse ziri bwino, ndiye palibe chifukwa chokambirana za kuletsa ufulu ndi ufulu.
Ndani angagwire naye ntchito?
Kawirikawiri ngati mkazi wa Orthodox akuganizabe kuti apite kuntchito, kodi ayenera kusankha chisankho chotani? Kawirikawiri amayi amasankha ntchito yokhudzana ndi anthu othandizira. Izi zikhoza kukhala mautumiki a anthu, kuphunzitsa, mankhwala, psychology, kudzipereka, kusoka, kuphika ndi zina zotero. Mkazi mwa chilengedwe amalengedwa kuti amuthandize, kumupatsa kutentha ndi kusamalira ena, kaya ndi banja, kapena anthu ozoloŵera chabe. Inde, ndipo ntchitoyi siyikutsutsana ndi zofunikira za mpingo ndi miyambo. Mofananamo, mkazi wa Orthodox akhoza kulandira udindo wake ku tchalitchi, kapena mabungwe a tchalitchi, kuti athetsere chikondi.
Kawirikawiri, ntchito yofunika imakhala ndi mwayi wogwirizanitsa ntchito ndi nyumba zawo. Pambuyo pake, nyumba ndi banja zimagwira ntchito yofunikira kwambiri kwa mkazi wa Orthodox kuposa aphunzitsi a dews.
Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kusiyana pakati pa wokhulupirira ndi munthu wotentheka. Okhulupirira akazi samasiyana ndi omwe samakhulupirira, kuwonjezera pa chikhulupiriro chokha. Amtundu nthawi zambiri amaima pakati pa anthu, amatsutsa kwambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri amasocheretsa ena, ngakhale kuti ali okha.