Tsopano, mwinamwake, ndi kovuta kuposa kale kuti tipeze gawo la ntchito zomwe sizikanatheka kukomana ndi mkazi. Kupatulapo si mabungwe ogwirira ntchito. Mayi amene akugwira ntchito mu bungwe lazinthu zamkati, wakhala lamulo m'malo mosiyana. Ndiye kodi iye ndi chiyani, mkazi wofufuza wodabwitsa uyu? Ndipo kodi ndi kovuta kugwira ntchito kwa mkazi mu malo awa.
Kuyang'ana kwa munthu
Ndani angakhoze kufotokozera bwino mkazi, ziribe kanthu momwe amachitira munthu. Popeza kuti zikhulupiliro za anthu zimadalira zochitika zenizeni ndi ziwerengero, sizongotengera kunena maganizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo. Kotero, akatswiri ambiri amaganizo amakhulupirira kuti ndi nthawi yopambana kukhazikitsa nthambi yatsopano ya maganizo operekedwa kwa ntchito za akazi. Maphunzirowa ayenera kupereka mwayi wogwira ntchito kwa mkazi ndikusankha ntchito malinga ndi luso lake, popanda kuganizira za amai komanso nthawi zambiri kusiya udindo wamwamuna kuti azikonda "mkazi" wosakondedwa. Chiphunzitso chotero chikanathandiza amayi kutenga ntchito zabwino ndikuchotsa tsankho chifukwa cha chikhalidwe. Izi ndi zoona makamaka ku ofesi ya apolisi ndi apolisi. Tsopano tiyeni tifotokoze chifukwa chake.
Nthawi zina amuna amatha kugawikana akazi mwa iwo amene analengedwa kuti azikondana ndi omwe adalengedwa kuti akwatirane. Koma kwa ofufuza azimuna amene amagwira ntchito mu gulu lomwelo monga akazi, gulu lina la amayi likuwonekera - omwe analengedwa kuti azitha kugwira ntchitoyi. Pakalipano, gulu la amai, mwachitsanzo, ofesi ya woimira milandu, ndi ofalitsa pafupifupi 50%. Ndipo kwa mwamuna, wofufuzira wamkazi nthawi zambiri amakhala gulu lapadera la anthu.
Mulimonsemo, mkazi ndi mkazi, ndipo makhalidwe onse achikazi sali osiyana kwa iye. Koma pali chinthu chimodzi chochita chomwe chidzasiyanitsa wofufuza wazimayi kwa amayi ena wamba - kuthekera kubisa zonsezi, ndipo ngati kuli koyenera, m'malo mofuna kudzikonda.
Kwa aliyense molingana ndi luso lake
Malinga ndi kafukufuku, amayi amakhala ndi ntchito zambiri zomwe zimagwirizana ndi luso lothandiza anthu ndi ntchito yokhala pansi. Pankhaniyi, zambiri zomwe zimapindulitsa kwambiri m'nthambi. Komanso, mosiyana ndi amuna, amai amayesetsa kukhala ndi maubwenzi abwino ndi timu, ndipo sakhalanso otsutsidwa. Azimayi ambiri omwe adzichita okha sanena bwino momwe amachitira ndi amuna. Komano, mkazi sangalekerere mawu osayenerera pankhani ya maonekedwe ake. Kusagwirizana koteroko, kumbali imodzi, kumapangitsa mkazi wa wofufuzirayo kukhala wogwira ntchito yowonjezereka, ndipo, kwina, amakhala wosavuta mosavuta. Koma, pokhala munthu wophatikizapo kuzindikiritsa bwino ndi kusabisa maganizo, mkazi amatha kuzindikira bwino kwambiri maganizo a ena, kuchita ngakhale ntchito zovuta mofulumira ndi moyenera, kukumbukira zambiri mosavuta, ndi kuganiza mozama pazochitika kuchokera pa chidziwitso chake ndi chidziwitso. Komanso mwayi waukulu wa amayi ndizowathandiza kugwiritsa ntchito lingaliro lachilankhulo. Ndipo ngati mukuganiza, kodi sizili choncho pa ntchito zomwe wofufuzayo ayenera kukhazikitsidwa? Ndiye bwanji ndiye malo amodzi okhawa?
Pa nthawi yomweyi, ngati mkazi akhala wofufuzira, malingaliro odziwika bwino ndi intuition amavomereza. Pokhala ndi "mphuno" zakuthupi ndi chidziwitso chalamulo, mkazi sakufuna kumanga unyolo wamtundu wautali ndipo nthawi zambiri amatsimikizira zomwe zikuchitika pambali pa nkhaniyi, zomwe zikufunikira pa malo ake omwe alipo.
Ponena za kudalirika ndi ntchito, sizingatheke kuti mkazi akhale wosasamala komanso ngakhale pang'ono kuti aswe lamulo kapena makhalidwe. Komanso, amayi amakhala owona bwino komanso osunga nthawi, amatha kutenga mfundo zochepetsetsa ndikugwirizanitsa zofunikira kwa iwo. Akazi amafufuza mosamalitsa milandu yomwe imawathandiza pantchito yawo. Komanso, amayi saopa zolemba zokhudzana ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso zachuma, choncho amatha kufotokoza zachinyengo za mtundu umenewu. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, amayi ndi ochuluka kwambiri. Zitha kuphatikizapo ntchito zingapo popanda zovuta. Ndipo mwachidziwikire, akazi ali okhoza, omwe amawapanga kukhala antchito opindulitsa kwambiri.