Ndizifukwa ziti zomwe ndiyenera kufunafuna chithandizo?
Ndithudi mwazindikira kuti kupempha thandizo nthawi zina kungayambitse kutenga nawo mbali pa mavuto a munthu wina, ndipo nthawizina zimayambitsa kukwiya. Chinthuchi ndi chakuti anthu amakondana kuthandizana wina ndi mzake, koma amachita nthawi zambiri pofuna zosangalatsa zawo kuposa wina aliyense. Zosangalatsa zomwe zimabwera pamene munthu athandiza wina, zikhoza kufanizidwa ndi malingaliro opanga chinthu chofunikira ndi chothandiza. Komabe, pamene khama lomwe limagwiritsidwa ntchito pothandiza ndi lalikulu kwambiri, zosangalatsa zimatha nthawizonse. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, anthu samakonda kunena za anthu aulesi ndipo mosakayikira amathandiza omwe angathe kugwira ntchito zambiri okha kapena mwinamwake kupeza njira yothetsera vutolo ndi zoyesayesa zawo.
Funani thandizo pamene mwakonzeka kudzithandizira nokha.
Ndani angapemphe thandizo?
Ngakhale pempho losavuta lothandizira silikhalanso ndi anthu onse, ndipo izi ndi zachilendo. Anthu ndi osiyana kwambiri, amakhudzidwa ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana, choncho vuto la munthu mmodzi likhoza kuoneka kuti palibe vuto, koma wina amakakamiza kuyankha.
Choncho, yambani kuchokera kumtundu wanji umene mukufunikira. Mwachitsanzo, kupempha ndalama kwa omwe ali mu zofanana ndi zanu, palibe chifukwa. Funsani njira ya alendo - nayenso. Osapempha malangizo kwa anthu omwe sali ndi vuto lanu.
Zosintha zamaganizo
Tangoganizirani zovuta: Ndinali nokha mumzinda wosadziwika kapena vuto lanu ndi lalikulu kwambiri moti kuyesetsa kwa anthu apamtima sikokwanira, ndipo chisankho chimafunikedwa kanthawi kochepa. Pempho lothandizira ndilo njira yokhayo yomwe mungapeze. Pofuna kuti yankho lanu liyankhe, muyenera kulingalira molondola ndondomeko ya zochita zomwe zingayankhe kwambiri. Ndiyenera kunena kuti anthu ochita zachiwerewere ndi omwe akufuna kukhala ndi moyo kwa ena, zidzakhala zovuta kuti akhulupirire ena kuti zenizeni za mavuto awo.
Choyamba, ndikofunika kudziwa ngati vuto lanu ndi lalikulu kwambiri ndipo mukufuna thandizo kuchokera kwa alendo. Pali anthu amene amawopsyeza pa chifukwa chilichonse, chomwe chimawalepheretsa kupeza chithandizo chokwanira pamene vuto lenileni likubwera. Ndiye ganizirani za amene angakuthandizeni. Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zambiri anthu amapempha thandizo pamene akusowa ndalama zodzipangira okha kapena ana. Zikatero, anthu omwe ali ndi chiyanjano m'bungwe la zaumoyo ndi othandizira amafunika. Pofuna kutchera khutu ku vuto lanu, nyuzipepala iliyonse, nyuzipepala, intaneti, TV - ndizoyenera. Ngati mukufuna thandizo la mtundu wina, mukulifuna pamalo pomwe pali anthu omwe ali oyenerera mufunso lanu - izi ziwonjezera mwayi wopambana.
Ndikofunika kuti tithe kufotokozera momveka bwino zomwe zimayambitsa vutoli. Kawirikawiri kuyesera kufotokoza bwino momwe zinthu zilili, anthu amayamba kufotokoza zambiri za miyoyo yawo, zomwe zimasokoneza chidwi kuchokera ku funso lalikulu. Khalani ovuta kwambiri, ngakhale mutangofuna kuunika. Komanso musaiwale za umboni. Tsopano mazana ambiri akusewera amachita masewera a anthu, chifukwa anthu ochepa amakhulupirira malonda a chithandizo. Pamene vuto lanu liri lalikulu kwambiri - chokhutiritsa kwambiri chiyenera kukhala umboni wakuti ndinu munthu weniweni komanso kuti mukusowa thandizo.
Ndipo musaiwale kuti pamalo oyamba muyenera kudzithandizira nokha. Zomwe zili zomveka, mungadabwe kuti mwakhala mutachita kale kuti muthe kusintha. Ngati zikutanthauza kuti iwe umangokhala pamenepo, kuyembekezera chozizwitsa, ndiye nkokayikitsa kuti wina angakuthandizeni.
Koposa zonse, musamachite manyazi kupempha thandizo, chifukwa panthawi yovuta aliyense wa ife angakhalepo, palibe amene angapewe thandizo. Koma inu nokha musadutse pa iwo omwe akusowa, chifukwa pempho lawo lothandizira lingakhale mwayi wotsiriza wopulumuka. Zoonadi, izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuthamangira kuthandiza anthu onse okhumudwitsa, koma ngati muwona kuti munthu ali m'mavuto, musadutse. Tsiku lina, mwinamwake, mudzafunikira chifundo cha wina.