Mirror Yowongoka
Kodi muli ndi kukula kwa 48? "," Kukongola kwake kumakhala bwanji m'mafilimu! "," Taonani, msungwana uyu alibe phokoso pamphepete mwa nyanja! "(Mzimayi aliyense amayamba kuganiza kuti:" Osati zomwe muli nazo "), "Mkazi wake ndi kukongola chenicheni" (malemba omwe timawawona: "Osati zomwe inu") ... Amuna ndiwo magwero akuluakulu athu. Mawu amodzi amodzi, wina amakondwera kuyang'ana mbali ina, ndipo kudzidalira kwathu kukuyenda mofulumira ku zizindikiro zoipa.
- Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Choyamba, muyenera kudziwa ngati mukuyesera kumva zomwe siziripo. Amuna ali zolengedwa zoyambirira (mwachidziwitso cha mawu). Ndipo ngati sangatiuze mwachindunji kuti: "Muyenera kulemera," "Sindikukonda kuti muli ndi chifuwa chaching'ono," kapena "Inu ndinu wamkulu kwambiri" - choncho salikutanthauza. Kukambitsirana "Ndibwino kuti Angelina Jolie" akhale ndi moyo weniweni. Iwe, mwa njira, umayendetsedwa ndi Brad Pitt ndi onse opunduka ma blondes ambiri. Ndipo nanga bwanji? Izi sizikulepheretsani kukonda mwamuna wanu ?!
Ndi nkhani ina ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu akunena za zolakwa zanu. Chabwino, poyamba, alibe ufulu wakupweteketsani, ndipo muyenera kuyikapo (mafunso monga "Kodi simukukonda ine?", "Mukutanthauza kuti sindiri mtundu wanu? mwandikwatira? "ndithudi zimuika iye kumapeto). Ndipo kachiwiri, mawu ake akhoza kubisa zovuta zake. Iye amakuchitirani nsanje ndipo amakudalitsani inu nokha. Chodabwitsa chokwanira, koma pankhaniyi muyenera kumutsimikizira kuti iye ndi wangwiro ndipo mumakondwera naye. Mudzawona: nthawi yomweyo mutembenuzidwa m'maso mwake.
Ali pabedi ndi mdani
Malo apamtima ndi chimodzi mwa zopweteka kwambiri. Mkazi wodalirika sangathe kumanga ntchito yabwino ndikukhala munthu wogwirizana. Chilichonse chikugwirizana pano. Ndicho chifukwa chake ngati munthu wanu amadzilolera mawu monga "Inu simundikondweretsa ine, chifukwa ndinu oipa, osadziŵa zambiri, osati okonda kwambiri", "sindikufuna inu", "sindingathe kumaliza chifukwa cha inu" ziyenera kukupangani kulingalira mozama. Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Sikofunika, mutamva ndemanga za mwamuna wanu za luso lanu pabedi, mwamsanga yang'anani kamsiti yachiwiri ndi yachitatu ya Kamasutra ndikuyamba "kudzigwira nokha." Kugonana kwabwino sizomwe zimapangidwa mwakuthupi. Zowonjezereka zowonjezereka, maganizo ndi mgwirizano. Pamene mwamuna wanu amalola kuti akudzudzule nokha kapena zolephereka zomwe mumakhala nazo pabedi, simungathe kukhala pafupi ndi kulankhula. Kambiranani naye mavuto anu, fotokozerani kuti mumapweteka bwanji ndi mawu ake, ndipo yesetsani kupeza chifukwa (kusakhutira ndi kugonana) kapena kugonana. Ngati izi sizikuthandizani, ndipo mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu sakuleka kukupatsani chidziwitso - mwina, muyenera kutenga zowonongeka. Mavuto pa mutu wa kugonana ndi owopsa kwa amayi. Ndipo mankhwala abwino adzakhala munthu wina wofatsa, wochenjera, woganizira komanso wachikondi.
Talente ndi mafani
Mu makumi atatu kuti musinthe ntchitoyi? Musaganize za izo ?!, "Kodi mumapatsidwa mwayi woyang'anira dipatimentiyi? Sudzapambana! "Pewani!", "Iwe umangoyendetsa galimoto!" Simungathe kuzilingalira ndi foni! "," Mulibe maphunziro apamwamba ngakhale pang'ono! " Kotero khalani chete! "Mwatsoka, nthawizina amuna athu amadzilolera okha ndemanga zotero ku adiresi yathu. Potsata zolakwika zomwe zimaperekedwa, amatiwona kuti ndife opanda ungwiro kwambiri, osati ochenjera komanso osasamala.
- Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Osamvetsera kwa wina aliyense, khulupirirani nokha ndikupita ku cholinga chanu. Ngati muli otsimikiza kuti mukufunikira izi kapena maphunzirowa, ntchito yatsopano, maphunziro achiwiri - kodi wina, ngakhale mwamuna wokondedwa ndi wokondedwa, ali kuti kuti simungapambane? Komabe, chinthu choipitsitsa chimene mungachite ndicho kuyambitsa mkangano umene udzathetsa mkangano. 11e ndikutsimikizira nkhani yawo pazithunzithunzi zapamwamba kapena kuyesa kukonda mkaziyo poyankha. Muyenera kufotokozera mwamuna wanu chifukwa chake nkofunika kuti mupite kuntchito, kumvetsetsa malangizo ku TV kapena kuphunzira Chifalansa. Mphindi "Ndikufuna thandizo lanu." "Ndikufuna, kuti iwe ukhulupirire mwa ine", nkokotheka, kukakamiza mwamuna wako kusinkhasinkha ndi kusintha maganizo ndi njira yolankhulirana nawe. Zosangalatsa, nthawi zonse mutadula mapiko anu. Izi ndi zoona. Ndipo uyenera kuwuza mwamuna wako. Mwinanso akuwopa kuti mudzachoka kwa iye mukapita kuntchito kapena kukhala wodziimira nokha. Yesetsani kumutsimikizira kuti izi sizidzachitika.
Mu nthabwala iliyonse
Monga mukudziwira, pali choonadi. Zomwezo zikugwirizana ndi ndemanga zosasangalatsa za mwamuna wanu. Inde, musati mutenge chilichonse pamtengo wapatali. Ndipotu, zifukwa zowonjezerani kuti mwamuna wanu amatha kukhala mamiliyoni (mwachitsanzo, adasokonezeka ndi maganizo, ndipo amangokunyengererani, kapena akuyesera kukubwezerani, kapena amachititsa chitetezo ndikungoyankha, osati kupereka tanthawuzo kumvetsetsa kwa mawu). Komabe, kuchotsa mfundo yakuti mikangano yeniyeni ikhoza kubisala kumbuyo kwa mawu osakondweretsa a mnzanuyo, sikuli koyenera. Ganizirani, kodi mungamukhumudwitse? Mwina zida zake zinabwera pambuyo pakumenyana kwakukulu? Kapena mutatha kumufotokozera zolakwa zake, adaganiza kuti akuyang'anirani kwambiri? Kuonjezerapo, yesani kudzifufuza ndikudzivomereza nokha ngati muli ndi choonadi chochepa m'mawu ake. Mwinamwake muyenera kukhala wodalirika kwambiri, musadziponyedwe nokha, kapena, mwachitsanzo, pitirizani kudya ndikulembera masewera olimbitsa thupi. "Ngati mukuona kuti zomwe mwamuna wanu akunena sizothandiza, muthokozeni chifukwa choganizira zolephera zanu ndikupempha thandizo (" Wokondedwa, ndithandizeni kudzikonzekera, kupeza ntchito, kuthana ndi foni "). Zoona, ndizoyenera kunena kuti mumavomereza kulandira kutsutsidwa kwake kokha ngati kuwonetsedwa mwabwino. Kumbukirani: simuyenera kulekerera nkhanza ndi zonyansa. Ngakhale ngati mwamuna wanu ali wolondola. " Komabe, ngati zolakwa za mwamuna zimakhala zopanda malire komanso zimakhudza chirichonse (momwe mumadyera, momwe mumasunthira, momwe mumayankhulira), mwinamwake muyenera kulingalira mozama ngati mukufuna mnzanu amene samamulemekeza komanso, ; Iye samakukondani inu.
Mukuyenera?
Amuna amakonda kupempha udindo. Ndipo tsopano ife taweruzidwa kale chifukwa cha chakudya chamadzulo osakonzeka, kukumana ndi abwenzi komanso ngakhale kusowa kwa chilakolako cha kugonana. Komabe, zifukwa zomunyoza, monga lamulo, zibisa zina mwa zolinga zobisika za munthu. Musakhale ovuta ngati ... Mwamuna wanu sakufuna kuti mupite ku sukulu yoyendetsa galimoto, kunena izi chifukwa chakuti simungapambane. Iye akungokuwopa (kapena sakufuna kugawa galimoto). Mwamuna wanu akukutsutsani kuti mumapita ku msonkhano ndi anzanu a kusukulu ndipo simukuphika chakudya - amakuchitirani nsanje. Mwamuna wanena kuti miniyo sichikugwirizana ndi inu ndipo sakugwirizana ndi msinkhu wanu - amawopa kuti amuna ena adzakumverani. Mwamuna wanu akunena kuti "mwathyola chisokonezo" - sakufuna kuti atuluke yekha ndikuyembekezera kuti mum'chitire zonse.