Kuzindikira mkazi wamtsogolo wamalonda ndi kothekabe kusukulu: ndi mtsikana angathe, koma, malinga ndi aphunzitsi, nthawi zina ndi makhalidwe a hooligan. Koma kwenikweni, amangotsutsa zotsutsana ndi sukulu, akumenyera ufulu wake, akuyesetsa kupeza nzeru ndi mphamvu. Kawirikawiri amakhala ngati mnyamata, chifukwa chakuti kale ali mwana akuponderezedwa ndi kusiyana kwa zofunikira kwa abambo awiri.
Amamuwonetsa kuti sakuyenera kukhala mwana wabwino, monga momwe zimafunikila kusukulu kwa atsikana. Ndipo kuphunzira n'kosavuta kwa iye, ngakhale nthawi zina saphunzitsa maphunziro.
Mavuto oyambirira amawonekera ku sukuluyi. Kawirikawiri komiti yovomerezeka imachita, malinga ndi zomwe akunena, malinga ndi chiwerewere: atsikana amapatsidwa zochepa pazoyezetsa kuposa anyamata. Monga momwe pulofesa wina wakale ananenera, "ndichifukwa chiyani mumataya nthawi kwa amayi? Iwo adakali okwatirana ndi anthu olemera mapeto, sagwira ntchito, iwo amasamalira nyumba ndi ana. ". Tsoka, izi ndizo lingaliro la aphunzitsi ambiri apamwamba, makamaka otentheka a chifukwa chawo. Koma mzimayi wamalonda wamtsogolo sangalepheretse yekha kuzinyalala ndi zakudya! Komabe, aphunzitsi sangavomerezedwe, choncho motero msungwana nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kulowa mu sukulu kusiyana ndi mnyamata. Makamaka kumene kuli anyamata ochepa kapena kumene apadera amatengedwa kuti "amuna". Ndipo ngati msungwana wotere akudutsabe ndikuchitapo, ndiye wina akhoza kukhala wotsimikiza: mwa luso la luntha, iye ali wapamwamba kwambiri kuposa anyamata omwe adalandiridwa naye. Pa nthawi ya wophunzira, mkazi wamalonda akuyamba kudzipereka yekha payekha.
Nthaŵi zambiri maphunzirowa sali okweza, koma ambiri (chifukwa sukulu yake sichisonyeza kuti ali ndi chidziwitso chenicheni), koma amachita pafupifupi nthawi zonse mu maphunziro ake. Kuonjezera apo, kumayambitsa moyo wathanzi. Kuwonjezera pa kuti ali ndi luso lapamwamba, ali ndi mphamvu komanso mphamvu, kuyesera kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu izi osati zosavuta, koma kuti akwaniritse chinachake chapadera m'moyo. Makamaka, pamene akuchita zochitika zamasewera, amaika maziko a ntchito yake ndipo amakwaniritsa chilakolako chake cha mphamvu. Kalelo, atsikana amenewa anakhala atsogoleri a Komsomol, tsopano akuyamba kulowa mu bizinesi ndi benchi ya ophunzira.
Azimayi omwe ali ndichinyamata omwe akufuna kukhala ndi ntchito nthawi zambiri samakhala ndi nthawi yokhala ndi banja. Iwo amakhulupirira mwachidwi ku cholinga chomwe akufuna - mpando wa mfumu. Iwo samaganizira za banja, akuiikira patsogolo pake. Amayamba kuganiza pafupi ndi 30, kupeza malo. Pofuna kuti akwaniritse udindo umenewu, amafunika kuchita khama kwambiri kuposa anthu, ndipo pazomwe akuzunguliridwa ndi amuna omwe akuganiza kuti akazi ndi osayenera. Akaziwa akufuna kuwona pafupi ndi munthu wamphamvu, wolemera, koma amuna oterowo akufuna kuwona mwachisoni ndi kufooka kwa mkazi.
Mkazi wamalonda, ndithudi, ndi munthu wokongola, ali wachikazi, osati wachiwawa osati wozizira, waluntha ndi wakuthupi, amapanga zosankha yekha, koma amatenga bwino maganizo a ena; N'zosadabwitsa kuti ali ndi udindo wochepa wa olamulira. Iye ali wokonzeka kutenga zoopsa, zolinga, kudzidalira, kuyankha mokwanira kutsutsidwa, kuyankhula komanso ngakhale kunyoza. Amatha kusintha mwachangu kuchokera kumodzi ("mtsogoleri, bizinesi") kwa wina ("mwana wamkazi, mayi, mkazi"), ali ndi chidaliro mukumvetsetsa, kuthandizidwa ndi kuthandizidwa ndi mwamuna wake ndi ana ake. "Kukwera makwerero a chipambano kunakhala bizinesi yovuta ndi yosatetezeka. Mayi ayenera nthawi zonse kudziwonetsera yekha ndi ena kuti akuchita bizinesi yake. Zonse mwa magawo atatu mwa zovuta zonse zamantha za bizinesi zimachokera ku kugunda kwa udindo wawo monga mtsogoleri kuntchito komanso ngati wokonza pakhomo.
Koma mkaziyo ali ndi ubwino wambiri, pozindikira chomwe, akhoza kukhala mtsogoleri wabwino. Mtsogoleri wazimayi ali ndi nzeru zamagulu zogonana, amamvetsetsa kwambiri maonekedwe a maubwenzi, kuphatikizapo maganizo ake payekha. Amadziwa momwe angayesere ndikulosera khalidwe la anthu ena. Zoona, kuposa amuna, pali ngozi yopitilizabe ndi maganizo awo. Ndipo chisokonezo ndi utsogoleri ndi zinthu zosiyana. Mkazi ali ndi kukhudzana kwambiri ndi kuganiza moyenera. Ngati mwamuna akufuna kumanga mapulani a nthawi yaitali, aziganizira nthawi yaitali, ndiye mkaziyo amasankha zotsatira zenizeni, "pano ndi pano." Mkazi ndi wabwino kuposa munthu kuti azidziletsa zolakwa zake komanso za anthu ena; iye, monga lamulo, amachititsa bwino maganizo ake ndi kufotokoza malingaliro. Zimadziwika kuti ndizochepa kuposa amuna akuyanjana ndi chibwenzi komanso zogonana muzochita zamalonda. Iye amasiyanitsa bwino pakati pa bizinesi ndi zosangalatsa.