Kodi mungakonde bwanji holide ya Khrisimasi?

Khirisimasi ndi imodzi mwa maulendo okongola komanso okongola kwambiri. Izi, monga lamulo, ndilo tchuthi la banja. Ndilo tsiku lopatulika la Khirisimasi, kawirikawiri kusonkhanitsa mamembala onse a banja pansi pa denga limodzi, pa tebulo lalikulu la zikondwerero. Ndipotu, pa maholide oterewa, mumatha kumva chikondi ndi chisamaliro chomwe chimachokera kwa aliyense. Ndipo kuti mukumbukire holideyi kwa nthawi yaitali, ndipo simunayambe mwambo wochita zikondwerero za Khirisimasi, muyenera kuyesetsa mwakhama ndikuwonetsa malingaliro anu. Ndipo pambuyo pokhapokha, mutha kuona kuti chaka chino, Khrisimasi yanu idayenda bwino, ndipo achibale anu anakhala alendo okondwa kwambiri pa holideyi. Ngati, ndi kovuta kuti muganizire za njira yabwino yothetsera tchuthi la Khrisimasi ya banja, timaganiza kuti malangizo athu adzangokhala anu opulumutsira. Ndipo, motsatira njira zawo, mukumvetsa kuti palibe chabwino kuposa kupatsa okondedwa anu mwambo wapadera wa Khirisimasi.

Choncho, Khrisimasi ndi nthawi yokwaniritsira zikhumbo ndi ziyembekezo za aliyense wa ife. Patsikuli, ndiko, kupitilira mwatsatanetsatane mndandanda wa Chaka Chatsopano. Iye, ndiye malo ake, pakati pa Chaka Chatsopano ndi Chatsopano. Ndipo ife tonse tikufuna kuti tizindikire izo moposerapo kuposa msonkhano wa Chaka Chatsopano. Choncho, tiyenera kuyesetsa kuchita izi. Kotero, inu mumachita bwanji izi? Patsikuli, choyamba, limayamba mumtima mwathu, kenako limatulutsa maganizo athu ndikutikakamiza kukonza chinachake choyambirira. Pachifukwa ichi, monga momwe mwadziwira kale, chinthu chachikulu ndiyomwe mukuyambirapo ndi lingaliro lanu. Ndipo, monga tikudziwira, ife akazi ndife osiyana. Pambuyo pake, ndani, ngati sitingakwanitse, atsimikizireni mozama komanso mwakhama kuti achite zonsezi. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhulupirira mwa inu nokha ndi luso lanu, ndiyeno, zonse zomwe simukuzichita, mudzapambana. Izi zidzakhala maziko anu ofunika kuti mukhale ndi phwando la Khrisimasi.

Ndipo kotero, chinthu choyamba chomwe chingabwere m'maganizo si kukonza phwando lalikulu la banja la Khrisimasi. Lengezani kwa a m'banja mwanu kuti tsiku la Khirisimasi padzakhala phwando lokongola la banja. Yambani, choyamba, ndi mapangidwe a nyumbayo. Pangani chikondwerero, chifukwa cha masewera ndi Zigwiritsidwe za Chaka Chatsopano, zomwe simunabisike Chaka Chatsopano. Musaiwale makandulo a Khirisimasi. Ndipotu, Khirisimasi ndi, monga tanena kale, tchuthi lamatsenga, ndipo makandulo adzatulutsa zotsatira, izi, matsenga. Ndipo kawirikawiri, zindikirani kuti kupezeka kwa makandulo a Khirisimasi ndi mwambo wautali, umene umatulutsidwa mosalekeza chaka ndi chaka. Chakudya chokoma kwambiri cha Khirisimasi, chingakhale chosiyana, mwachitsanzo, mungathe kusankha chojambula china, kapena mwinamwake chidzakhala chikondwerero cha Baibulo. Pogwiritsa ntchito mankhwalawa, apa padzakhala zokwanira kugwiritsa ntchito mapepala oyera kapena zofikira, ndikuwamangirira pa zovala zawo. Kusiyanitsa pakati pa mitundu iwiriyi, zomwe zimatchedwa "zikondwerero", ndizoti pokhapokha pamutu wa chipangidwe chilichonse chofunikila ayenera kutenga suti inayake ndi yoyenera. Ngati munasankha anthu ojambulajambula, ndiye kuti musankhepo malinga ndi zovuta za fanoli. Sutuyo, ndithudi, iyenera kusokedwa ndi dzanja, choncho, taganizirani izi.

Inde, kukonzekera holide iyenera kuyamba pasadakhale. Kuti asagwire ntchito, monga momwe amachitira kuti: "Momwe mungayendere kukasaka, ndi kusonkhanitsa agalu." Choncho, yesani kuti musagwire, ndi dzanja limodzi kukonzekera chakudya chamadzulo a Khirisimasi, ndi wina kuti musule zovala zokondwerera. Lankhulani wina aliyense kuchokera kwa banja kupita ku vuto la woyambitsa. Mu manja awiri kuti mugwiritse ntchito ndondomekoyi, zidzakhala zosavuta. Inde, musadule ndi kusoka zovala zapodozi, zikwanira ngati mutenga zovala zakale ndikuziika pa izo zikuimira, kuti, kapena khalidwe lina, zojambula. Mwachitsanzo, nkhandwe - mchira, makutu - makutu ndi zina zotero. Ngati mulibe nthawi yosonyeza talente yanu kwa womangirira, yesani kuganizira pang'ono, mwa mawonekedwe a impromptu. Mwachitsanzo, mungathe pa dzanja lachangu, kuchokera pa pepala kapena nsalu zopangira nsalu, kupanga matepi pamapewa anu (monga kumaliza maphunziro). Ndipo lembani pa iwo, chizindikiro, mayina osiyanasiyana a anthu ofanana. Ndipo panthawi ya tchuthi, funsani munthu aliyense m'banja mwanu malingana ndi zomwe analemba pa tepi yake. Ndikhulupirire, izo zidzakhala zosangalatsa.

Komanso mungathe kusoka nsalu zofiira kapena zogulidwa, matumba angapo a Khirisimasi. Pano, ntchito yaikulu ndi mtundu uliwonse kuti ufanane ndi zomwe ziri m'thumba. Mwachitsanzo, maswiti a chikasu, a buluu - aang'ono ndi zina zotero. Kusangalatsa koteroko kudzakhala kovuta kwa mwana wanuyo. Mungathe kubwera ndi mafunso osiyanasiyana, kupereka mayankho omwe, adzalandira mphotho kuchokera pa thumba linalake kapena kungosewera mumsewero "Mukuganiza kuti thumba lomwe ...". Ponena za miyendo, ndiye ngati maziko, munthu akhoza kutenga mafanizo a m'Baibulo, omwe angakhale othandiza kwambiri pa holideyi. Ngati mwana wanu amadziwa kale kuwerenga, muloleni, mwa njira, madzulo a Khirisimasi, werengani buku lino m'mafanizo. Ndipo, musaiwale kuti muchite nokha. Bwinobwino, lolani mamembala onse a m'banja achite zimenezo, ndiye mukhoza kulingalira zonse pamodzi. Lingaliro loyambirira kwambiri la madzulo a Khirisimasi lidzakhala, ngati inu mutembenuka, mu mophiphiritsira, ndithudi, lingaliro la mawu, mwana wanu mwa Mngelo. Pachifukwa ichi, tenga sheti yoyera yofiira kwambiri ndipo yunjikitsani kwa iyo mlengalenga mapiko omwe angakhoze kupangidwa mwaulemu kujambula iwo mu zidutswa za pepala loyera. Mwana wanu, mu diresi iyi, adzakhaladi wamkulu pa holide ya Khirisimasi.

Pano, tinatchulanso mfundo zazikulu za momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito tchuthi la Khrisimasi. Ndikhulupirire, ndithudi ndikukumbukira. Ndikoyenera kudziƔa kuti Khirisimasi ndi yoyamba, nthano. Kotero, izo zikutanthauza kuti ndi bwino kupanga nkhani ya nthano mu chirichonse. Makamaka, pokondwera, motero ana. Panopa, lero lino, nkhani yamatsenga nokha ndi iyeyo. Khirisimasi yokondwa kwa inu.