Ngati mukumva kuti chikondi cha chikondi chinayamba kutha, ubalewu unayamba kukhala wosangalatsa komanso wosasangalatsa, ndiye nthawi yoti tiganizire momwe mungabweretsere zosiyana pa moyo wanu wa banja ndikuzijambula ndi mitundu yatsopano.
Pangani miyambo ya banja
Mu moyo wathu, osati maholide ambiri. Ndipo ngati mutagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yokhala ndi maholide ngati amenewa, ndiye kuti banja lanu silidzatha.
Yambani mgwirizano wanu wokhala ndi miyambo ya banja yomwe idzalemekezedwe m'banja lanu. Mwachitsanzo, pa tsiku lina mukhoza kupita kwa makolo anu, kupita ku filimu kapena kuitanira abwenzi kapena achibale kuti muwachezere.
Musaiwale za masiku anu apadera. Mukhoza kusangalala tsiku lanu la odziwa kapena tsiku limene munayamba kumpsyopsyona. Lembani masiku awa m'kalendala yofiira, kuti musaiwale za iwo ndi kuyendera maulendo apadera masiku ano.
Muzigwiritsa ntchito nthawi pamodzi
Pankhaniyi, sikutanthauza kuti muzikhala pamodzi kunyumba. Aliyense amakhala wotanganidwa ndi zochitika zawo, kunyalanyaza kwathunthu theka lawo lachiwiri. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna amamuwonera TV, ndipo mkazi wake amawerenga buku lonse madzulo, pomwe awiriwo satha kunena kuti neslov.
Tengerani nthawi kwa wina ndi mzake. Mukhoza kuyang'ana filimu yatsopano kapena kuwerenga buku, kapena kukhala pa intaneti. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti inu pamodzi mukuchita chinthu chomwecho, ndipo nonse mwa inu munali nacho chidwi.
Pitirizani kuyang'anitsitsa maonekedwe anu
Ndithudi, pamene mudayamba kukumana, simunalole kuti mwamuna wanu wam'tsogolo azidziwonera nokha popanda zokongoletsera. Patapita nthawi, mwakhala mukuzoloŵera wina ndi mzake ndipo simunathe kukhalapo, munayamba kuonekera pamaso pake, kuti muyike mofatsa, popanda kukhala ndi mawonekedwe akunja abwino.
Ndipotu, mu ubale pakati pa anthu, nthawi zambiri pamakhala zovuta chifukwa chakuti amasiya kudziyendetsa bwino. Ndipo tsopano kumbukirani pamene inu munapanga zokongoletsera zokongola kapena zodzoladzola. Pamene iwe, kuyesera kumunyengerera iye, unagula chovala chovala sexy? Ngati mukukumbukira ndipo posachedwa, zikutanthauza kuti chirichonse sichinataye. Koma ngati chovala chomwe mumawakonda ndi T-shirt ndi osasukulu a sukulu, ndiye kuti n'zosadabwitsa chifukwa chake mwamunayo wakuzirala.
Dzizisamalire nokha. Zoonadi, kusintha kwakukulu mu fano lanu samatero, chifukwa izi zingasokoneze muzh. Koma pang'ono pokha zovalazo, amasintha tsitsi ndi kugula zodzoladzola zatsopano. Mwamunayo amayamikira kuyesayesa kwanu, zomwe zidzasonyezeratu posangalatsa pa ubale wanu.
Perekani mphatso
Musati muyembekezere chifukwa chapadera chopatsa wokondedwa mphatso. Ngakhale chinthu chofunikira kwa iye, chimene wolowayo angagulidwe, chingakhale chodzaza ndi chophimba chowoneka bwino ndi kupereka mwachidule, kulemba mawu ochepa ofunda pa khadi lokongola la positi. Munthu wokondedwa wanu adzasangalala kwambiri ndi chidwi chanu.
Sinthani maganizo
Kawirikawiri anthu amakhumudwa wina ndi mzake, chifukwa amakhala osadziwika bwino. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndikofunika nthawi ndi nthawi kusintha maganizo, kuchita zosayembekezereka ndikusachita khalidwe la gawo lanu lachiwiri.
Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna wanu amazoloŵerana kukangana kapena kupeza ubale, nthawizonse amathawa, akuwombera chitseko. Samayembekezera kuti wina achitepo kanthu. Yesani kusintha khalidwe lanu. Nthawi yotsatira mukamakangana mwadzidzidzi, khalani ndikupsompsona.Mwinamwake mumasekondi oyambirira zidzakhala zovuta kwa inu, chifukwa muyenera kulimbana ndi zolakwa zanu. Koma khulupirirani ine, chilakolako chokangana chidzatha kwa inu nonse mwamsanga.
Malo anu
Mwamuna aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi malo akeawo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti simungathe kusungunuka kwathunthu. Muyenera kukhala ndi zofuna zanu, abwenzi, zokondweretsa komanso zosangalatsa. Musamawope kuti zidzakulekanitsani. M'malo mwake, mudzakhala ndi nkhani zambiri zowonjezera, monga aliyense angakhale nacho choti adziwe.
Khalani okongola ndi osangalatsa
Okwatirana omwe mwanjira ina amakhala pamodzi, amagwiritsidwa ntchito wina ndi mnzake kuti ayambe kuzindikira kachiwiri kawiri ngati nkhani. Ndithudi, mwamuna wanu pafupifupi samakayikira kuti simungathe kuthawa kulikonse. Ndicho chifukwa chake mumangomupatsa kuti amvetse kuti izi siziri choncho, kuti ndinu okongola komanso okondweretsa, ndipo akuganiza osati ayi, koma amuna ena ambiri omwe akukuyang'anirani.
Ndizoona, kupitiliza kukonda ndi amuna, sizothandiza kuti musakhumudwitse. Ngati muwoneka bwino, mwamunayo amadziwa kuti mumakonda ena ndipo adzakuonani ndi maso osiyana.
Ubale Wapamtima
Mwina amai ena amaganiza kuti mu ubale, kugonana si chinthu chachikulu. Pa nthawi yomweyo, amuna ambiri amaganiza motere. Moyo wolimba komanso wolimba kwambiri kwa iwo ndi chizindikiro cha amuna awo.
Ngati mukufuna kuti chirichonse chikhale changwiro, musaiwale za kugonana. Chilichonse chiyenera kukhala ngati nthawi yoyamba. Zowonongeka ndi zodzikweza ndizo adani oyambirira a kugonana, zomwe pamapeto pake zimapha chilakolako. Yesani zovala zatsopano, kugula zovala zamasewera ndi zovala zamkati, kumuthandiza munthu mwanjira zosiyanasiyana, ndipo zotsatira sizidzakupangitsani kuti mudikire, ndipo kugonana kumabweretsa kukhutira kwa vamoboim.
Kumbukirani kuti chikondi chimodzi sichikwanira. Banja ndi ntchito yaikulu imene abanja awiri ayenera kuthana nayo kuti akwaniritse mgwirizano komanso kumvetsetsa m'banja.