Ngati mupempha munthu kwa nthawi yaitali, amavomereza

Kodi ndi ndani amene amapereka?
- Uyu ndi munthu yemwe ali wophweka kupereka,
kuposa kufotokoza chifukwa chake simukuzifuna ...

Anthu ambiri amafuna kukhala aulemu, okondana polankhulana, salinso kudziwonetsera okha molakwika. Makamaka zimakhudza akazi. Koma moyo ndi wakuti nthawi zambiri sitingathe kudalira mphamvu zathu zokha. Komanso, anthu ndi amzanga, ndipo amayamba kufunafuna wina ndi mnzake. Thandizo, kumvetsetsa, mphatso ... Ndipo apa maganizo akusonyeza kuti ngati mupempha munthu kwa nthawi yaitali, amavomereza. Koma muyenera kufunsa ndi maganizo.

Musakhale ndi zolema

Palibe amene amakonda kulankhula ndi zovuta. Mwina zofunikira za munthu woteroyo zidzakwaniritsidwa. Inde, ngati mupempha munthu kwa nthawi yaitali, amavomereza chilichonse, kuti athetse zomwe akufunsayo. Koma mtengowu, ukuwoneka, ndi wochepa - pali vuto. Kuyanjana ndi nthawi kumakhala kovuta kwambiri, ndipo tsopano munthu amakhala ndi ufulu kukana pempho.

Chotsatira ndi choyamba: sizingakhale zopindulitsa kukhala zolemetsa, ndikupempha kuti "pamphumi" ndiwotsika mtengo. Tikufuna kuchita zonse ndi khama, sichoncho? Choncho, nyimbo zowonongeka nthawi zonse "Wokondedwa, Ndikufuna malaya a ubweya" aliyense adzabweretsa kutentha kwakukulu ndipo sadzakakamiza kutaya malaya amoto, koma pamapeto pake "okoma" ...

Sankhani nthawi yoyenera ndi malo omwe mukufuna

Tangoganizirani kuti mukusambira. Ndipo panthawi ino foni ikulira kukhitchini. Kuti muyankhe foni yovuta komanso yosayembekezereka, muyenera kuimirira, kuuma, kutuluka mu bafa (mwinamwake - kuponyera mwinjiro). Kusangalatsa kumatha, kusamba kumakhala, chithovu chimatha ...

Zomwezo zimachitika ndi omwe timapempha thandizo. Choncho, ngati si nkhani yowonjezereka, osati yowopsya, ndibwino kufunsa pasanafike: "Kodi pali mphindi?" Komanso, chifukwa chokhazikika, kuthetsa funsoli, kukwaniritsa pempholi, lidzakupulumutsani nthawi ndi ndalama.

Kutsiliza kwachiwiri: Sitiyenera kufunsa pamsonkhano, masewera a mpira, kuwoloka msewu kupita ku kuwala kofiira kunja kwa oyenda pamsewu ...

Pemphani nthawi zonse

Zopempha zimanyalanyazidwa popanda chifukwa. Tikadakhala okhudzidwa ngakhale mawu ochepa omwe athandizidwa ndi interlocutor - ndiye, mwinamwake, angakhale openga. Ndipo musakhumudwe: ngati mupempha munthu kwa nthawi yayitali, amavomereza. Ndipo ngati muwapempha kamodzi, izo ziiwala pempho lanu ngati chinachake chopanda zotsatira.

Komabe, kwa iye ntchito yanu ndi yotere. Mukufunikira izi ...

Pemphani pasadakhale

Kufunsira ngongole madzulo omwewo, monga kusowa kwapezeka - kumatanthauza kudziweruza nokha ku ubale wosokonezeka. Chifukwa chiyani? Tsopano ife tizilingalira izo. Kotero, mumabwera ndi chidaliro chonse kuti bwenzi lanu adalandira malipiro dzulo, ndipo akhoza kukopa ndalama. Ndiyeno_ndi tsoka bwanji - iye wagula kale chinachake chachikulu. Simukusangalala (ndipo ngati nkhaniyo ndi yovuta, ndiye kuti mkati mwaukali mumakwiya), kuyesa kukhalabe omasuka.

Ngati mumakonda kufunsa pamphindi womaliza - ndiye nthawi iliyonse pempho lovuta lidzamenyana. Tsoka.

Mukhoza kuyamika ndikuthandizira nokha

Inde, ngati kawirikawiri, motalika komanso mofulumira kufunsa munthu chilichonse, amavomereza nkhani iliyonse. Takhazikika ndipo adzatero. Koma sikofunika kuti tikhalebe mu "ngongole yamuyaya", osati mwachizolowezi, tsiku ndi tsiku, koma komanso mu lingaliro la esoteric. Pangani munthu wina wofunikira kapena wosasangalatsa kwa iye, kuthandizani, ngati mukufunsidwa. Khalani mumsasa wa owolowa manja, anthu amphamvu omwe ali ndi chinachake choti apereke dziko. Ndiyeno kudzidzimva nokha za opempha ndi zopempha kudzayamba kusintha kwambiri.

Mudzazindikira kuti samapempha wofooka chabe, koma amapereka osati amene ali ndi zonse.

Bwanji ngati simukudziwa kufunsa konse?

Pali gulu lotere la akazi kuti ndikhale kosavuta kuti "ndidzipange ndekha" kusiyana ndi kudzipangitsa ndekha kuti ndidzichepetse, monga iwo amatchulira. Ndipotu, mphamvu zaumunthu zimatha - makamaka mphamvu ya mayi wamng'ono, mayi wachikulire, wogwira ntchito yazimayi m'masintha awiri. Posakhalitsa mudzafunika kufunsa - onse kuntchito ndi kunyumba.

Kufunsa ndi kosavuta ngati mukumva zosowa zofunika. Ngati funso ndi lofunika kwambiri kuti "ngati ayi (-a) athandize - ndiye palibe amene angathandize, kugona ndi kufa." Pankhaniyi, ndi mantha pafupifupi onse akuphunzira kufunsa.

Ndipo ngati funsoli si lofunika kwambiri? Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani?

Mwina, phunzirani kufunsa. Choyamba, kongoletsani cholembera kapena kusamba, ndiye-funsani mnzanuyo kuti adye yogurt kuchokera ku sitolo, ndiye_thandizidwe ndi kukonzetsa galimoto ... Koma nthawi zonse ndikofunika kupatulira pempho kuchokera ku chiwombankhanga. Kutenga siponji ndi zofuna sizili zofanana ndi kuzindikira kufunika kwa munthu, ziyeneretso zake ndi luso lake, ndi kufunsa. Mwinamwake, osati kamodzi.