Musati muzidziyesa nokha musanapite nthawi yoipitsitsa. Ndithudi, pali zina zomwe zimagwira ntchito mu ufumu wa azimayi okhaokha, koma zomwe zili mu timagulu zimadalira makhalidwe a khalidweli, osati zomwe antchito anu ali: amuna kapena akazi. Dziwonetseni nokha kuti ntchito yanu ndizopindulitsa kwambiri, zomwe zidzakuthandizani kudyetsa, kuvala, kuphunzitsa, kukondweretsa nthawi yopuma, etc. Koma kugwira ntchito mu gulu ndi kusayankhulana ndi aliyense sikutheka. Choncho, tifunika kumanga maubwenzi mu timagulu molondola. Tikukupatsani malangizo ena:
1. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi anzako
Mu munthu aliyense mulibe zochitika zoipa, komanso zabwino. Yang'anani. Bwanji osapatsidwa mpata wokometsera bwino? Mukhoza kuyang'ana maonekedwe okongola, mukhoza kuyesa momwe ntchitoyo ikuyendera ndi kupambana. Chinthu chachikulu ndichokuti anali wodzipereka. Apo ayi ziwoneka ngati chinyengo. Kawirikawiri aliyense ali ndi mutu wokonda kucheza. Winawake akuda nkhaŵa za kulemera kwa thupi, wina ali wokonzeka kulankhula kwa maola ambiri za ana awo. Limbikitsani mnzako, kondwerani, koma khalani kutali, musalowerere m'mabvuto a anthu ena. Khalani ansangala. Sungani mobwerezabwereza. Ngati muthandizana ndi mutu uliwonse wa chidwi, ndiye kuti mudzadziwonera nokha ngati womvetsera bwino. Ndikhulupirire, iwo adzasangalala.
2. Yesetsani kumatsatira kusalowerera ndale
Yesetsani kukhala ndi malingaliro okhudza inu ngati munthu wosagwirizana ndi munthu wosagwirizana. Ngati muli ndi chidwi ndi malingaliro anu, ndiye tsatirani zoonadi, osati ubale wanu. Mulimonsemo, yesani kukhala chete. Musayambe kufalitsa zabodza zabodza za ogwira nawo ntchito. Musati muchitepo ndi kunyozedwa. Onani chirichonse ndi kuseketsa. Yesetsani kusokoneza maganizo anu omwe mumagwirizana nawo. Muyenera kudzigwira nokha.
3. Moyo wanu suli chifukwa chokambirana
Ngati zokonda zanu ndi zabwino, ndiye izi siziyenera kukhala chifukwa chodzipereka kwa ogwira ntchito ku zokometsera za chikondi chanu kapena banja lanu. Yesetsani kupatsa osachepera zambiri zokhudza moyo wanu. Apo ayi, mphekesera zidzangoganiza. Koma sindingathe kunena chilichonse pandekha. Apo ayi, anzanu akuganiza kuti nkhani ya moyo wanu. Apatseni zosachepera zomwe mungaganizire. Tiuzeni chinachake chosalowerera za inu nokha ndi banja lanu. Chimene simukusowa kufalitsa ndi kwa inu. Ndipo pokambirana ndi anzako, yesetsani kusankha nkhani zopanda ndale.
4. Maonekedwe anu
Kugwira ntchito mu timu ya akazi, musamadzichepetsere nokha ndi zovala zokongola ndi zokongoletsera. Kumbukirani kuti ofesi sichigawo. Koma kukhalabe "imvi" sikoyenera. Musapite mopitirira malire.
5. Kutenga nawo gawo pa moyo wa gulu
Khalani ndi mfundo: chinthu chachikulu si kupambana, koma kutenga nawo mbali. Musayime pambali pa moyo wa gulu. Musaiwale kutenga nawo mbali pa zochitika zosiyanasiyana, kuthirani maluwa, sizongoganizira kuti nthawi zina mugule chakudya chokoma cha amayi abwino, kugula khofi nthawi zina "zonse". Idzayamikiridwa. Chifukwa chabwino kwambiri chothandizira timuyi ndikugwira maholide ovomerezeka ndi zikondwerero. Yesetsani kupeza yemwe ali bwino. Yesetsani kutsatila malamulo omwe ali mkati mwa chirichonse. Ife tinakuchenjezani inu. Bzinthu ndikutenga malangizo athu kuti tiwathandize.