"Kama Sutra", "Baibulo la kugonana" ndi mabuku ena ambiri pa mutu womwewo amatisonyeza zinsinsi zonse za chisangalalo cha umunthu, zomwe sizikhala malo otsiriza m'moyo wa aliyense. Pankhaniyi, nthawi zonse udindo waperekedwa ku zinthu zomwe zimalimbikitsidwa kuti zipewe.
Kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti sikungakhale kovuta kuti tiphunzire "Kama Sutra kwa uninitiated" ndi "njira 101 zomunyengerera"? Mosiyana ndi zimenezo - amalemba zinthu zovuta komanso udindo wawo sayenera kuwerengedwa. Koma, pozindikira sayansi yotereyi ndi yosangalatsa, musaiwale za zinthu zina, zomwe zingasokoneze zotsatira zake zonse. Ndipo izi sizing'ono. Kotero, mapiritsi anu "sangathe" pa kama:
1. Kuseka. Choyamba, kwa nthawi yaitali amadziwika: simungathe kuseka, kuyang'ana nkhani ya kunyada kwa mwamuna wanu wokondedwa. Ngakhale mutaseka ndi chimwemwe ndi kunyada. Chachiwiri, simungathe kuseka pamalo, ndiko kuti, pa malo ofanana. Ngakhale panthawi imeneyo zinthu zopusa zinkachitika kuyambira masiku a sukulu ya pulayimale. Pazochitika zonsezi, akhoza kukhumudwa, ndikuwonetsa kuti simunamuseka (zomwe ali nazo, chifaniziro chake, zochita zake, ndi zina zotero), zidzakhala zosatheka. Mwa njirayi, kuseka mofanana pa kugonana kungakhumudwitse mkazi.
2. Kuti avomereze, ndi angati mwa inu omwe mudagonana nawo. Ndibwino kuti musakhululukire nkhaniyi konse. Ngati akukakamiza, ndiye kuti yankho lake ndilo "limodzi" (ngati likuwoneka ngati chowonadi) kapena "ochepa" (ngati pali 10 kapena kuposa). Mwamuna, monga lamulo, ali wokonzeka kukhulupirira zomwe iwe ukunena. Ngati atapuma, amafunsidwa ndikutsimikiziranso kuti ali ndi chidwi - kuwuza moona mtima ndikusonyeza nambala yeniyeni sangathe. Kwa iye mwiniwake. Ngakhale achinyamata omwe amapita patsogolo kwambiri amakonda kukhala woyamba. Ngati sangakukakamizeni molunjika, ndiye kuti adzakumbukira kwamuyaya, simungakayikire.
3. N'kulakwa kunena za amtundu wakale , makamaka za momwe amachitira ndi kugonana, ngakhale mukufuna kutsindika ungwiro wa wokondedwa wanu wamakono. Izi zikudzaza ndi malingaliro awiri olakwika kuchokera kwa iye: "Ngati tipita, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti tikambirane" ndi "Kapena mwinamwake chinachake chinali cholakwika ndi izo, chifukwa zinapeza zovuta zoterezi." Zonse izo, ndi zina - mwala wanu kukhitchini munda. Ndipo kuyamikila bwinoko monga chonchi: "Sindinamvepo bwino ndi wina aliyense panobe."
4. Kutchula za kale. Amuna ena akukhumudwa ndi ndemanga yopanda pake ngati "Dzulo ndinaona Sergei ndi mwana wanga - mwana wokongola!" Angakhumudwe ngakhale mutamukumbutsa zochitika zina zapitazo zokhudzana ndi munthu wina.
5. Khalani owona mtima pa chilichonse. Kawirikawiri akazi (monga, amuna, amodzi) amafuna kudziwa zonse za theka lawo: kuchokera kumverera kwake ndi mnzanu wapamtima ku nkhani za ubale wawo ndi mfundo zonse. Kukhala pachibwenzi ndi kugonana kumakhala ngati chitetezo chomwe chidzalola kumvetsera zinsinsi zamtendere mwakachetechete komanso mwachidwi: "Timakondana kwambiri, ndipo palibe chomwe chingatilepheretse!" Zotsatira za chikhalidwe "zopanda pake" ndizo nsanje ndi nsanje Musati mufunse mafunso alionse nokha ndikusiya zokambirana zake pa mutu uwu.
6. Yesetsani kudziyerekezera kuti ndinu mulungu wachiwerewere. Popanda kuonetsetsa kuti "zokhala ndi phunziro" zikuwoneka zachilendo ndipo sizosangalatsa. Mwa njirayi, amwini omwe amavomereza kuti ngakhale mkazi wodziwa zambiri samakhala pamtunda wokhala pabedi kwa nthawi yoyamba ndi wokondedwa wake, ndipo kuyesa kukopera wojambula zithunzi pa zolaula kumangoganizidwa mosavuta ndipo, ndithudi, sichisewera kwathu. Mfundo yomveka bwino ndi yakuti: musachite zomwe simukuzidziwa kale komanso zomwe simukuzidziŵa, ndipo mugwiritse ntchito mosamala "zokometsera" mosamala, okonzeka kuimitsa, ngati mukumva kuti sakonda. Pamene zikuwonekera, pali amuna omwe samakonda kugonana, kumenyetsa khutu kapena khutu, malo osadziwika. Simungakhale wokondeka kwambiri kapena wokonda kwambiri - mungakhale banja labwino. Lembani khalidwe lanu la kugonana, kuganizira munthu wanu, ndikuyembekezera zomwezo kuchokera kwa iye.
7. Kupititsa kugona zogwiritsira ntchito ku sitolo yogonana, popanda kukambirana kale ndi vuto ndi mnzanuyo. Ngakhale kwa inu iwo amawoneka akuwombera, ndipo mu sitolo wogulitsa, winking, atatsimikiza kuti bwenzi lanu lidzataya mutu wake. N'zotheka kuti munthu adzakupeza kuti ndiwe wosakhutira ndi kugonana kwako "popanda zipangizo" ndikudzipezera wekha wovuta. Ndipo inu mudzavutika ndi izi. N'chimodzimodzinso ndi zolaula, ndi kanema. Amuna sali okonzeka kwambiri kuti azitsogoleredwa ku zithunzi zosavuta. M'magazini ino, monga mwa ena, njira yapadera pa "mfundo" zake pa mutuwu ikufunikanso. Ingoyambitsani funsolo pasadakhale.
8. Kupangitsa ululu. Ngakhale atachoka pamaso pa misomali yanu yaitali - ngakhale, mwina, amakondana ndi abwenzi anu, osati mwamuna wanu - musathamangire kukamenya msana wake mokwanira. Chimene chimawoneka mwachikondi mufilimu, mu moyo - chimangopweteka, kotero dzigwire nokha. Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti chiwonongeko chimapweteketsa chisangalalo chosautsa. Koma pambuyo pomaliza, adzakhala ndi zovuta. Lamulo "musamavulaze" limakhudza zomwe mumachita panthawi yogonana: Amuna amamva kupweteka ngati simusamala ndi "chuma" chake.
9. Kukhala chete. Mmodzi mwa "machimo" azimayi osakhululukidwa kwambiri, kuchokera pa chikhalidwe cha amuna. Ngati sangathe kukukweza, ndiye kuti ndikubuula - ndithudi. Kotero tangopereka maganizo anu. Idzalimbitsa malingaliro anu, ndikumupatsa mphamvu zatsopano. Kulira ndi kudandaula - chida chachikulu cha azimayi achikondi a nthawi zonse ndi anthu: ndimphepo yamkuntho, ngakhale atsikana pamtunda omwe amachititsa munthu kukhulupirira kuti ndi th-th! Ngakhale kusowa kwa chikhulupiliro ichi, iye adzakuimbirani mlandu. Mwachinsinsi kapena mwachindunji. Choncho musakhale wamanyazi anu - palibe munthu amene sasamala.
10. Ndizovuta kununkhiza. Amuna amamverera kununkhira kwa thupi la mkazi - kuchokera kupuma ndi kutha ndi kudziwa. Komanso, ndilopweteka kwambiri kuti munthu akhoza kuthetsa chilakolako chonse mwamsanga. Kutsilizitsa: Nthawi yayitali sopo amakhala onunkhira komanso thaulo lamadzi. Muyeneranso kusamala ndi zonunkhira. Ngati ali mumdima wausiku akufunsa kuti: "Kodi umapsa mtima bwanji?" - Usamafulumire kutengapo mbali, ngakhale okwera mtengo kwambiri ndipo mizimu yomwe mumaikonda sangaikonde - osakukondani panthawiyi, chifukwa akufuna kumva fungo lanu labwino. Choncho, njira yothetsera vutoli ndikumva ngati madontho a madzi osambira, kuphatikizapo mankhwala osakanizika omwe ali ndi shampoo, maonekedwe, mafuta obirira. "Ndi fungo lotani!" Anatsuka, ndipo ichi ndikutamanda kwenikweni.
Ndipo musawope kuyesa ndikuyesera, koma muyeso yabwino. Ndipo musaiwale makalata omwe adatchulidwa kotero kuti zokometsera zanu zokha zimayankhidwa kwa inu osati m'mawu okha.