Mavuto aakulu a kugonana ndi njira zawo


Kodi mwasiya kukhala wokhutira ndi moyo wanu wa kugonana? Ndipo mwinamwake iwo sanali osangalala konse? Kodi mumadziimba mlandu? Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti palibe chomwe chingachitike kale? Izi siziri choncho! Ndikhulupirire, zonse ziri mmanja mwanu! Pambuyo pake, mavuto akuluakulu ogonana ndi njira zothetsera mavutowa akhala akudziwikiratu ndipo akhala akufotokozedwa kale. Taonani vutoli mosiyana, tulutsani zifukwa zowona, ndipo yankho lidzabwera palokha. Chabwino, kapena ndi chithandizo cha nkhaniyi ...

Vuto 1. "Ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinasiya kugonana nthawi zonse, chifukwa sindikufuna zambiri. Nchiyani cholakwika ndi ine? Ndipo ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? "

Ndipotu, zomwe mukuganiza kuti tsoka ndizovuta. Izi ndizovuta, osati pakati pa "zaka". Zifukwa zofala kwambiri ndi izi:

Mufuna kugonana kwambiri ngati mumamva bwino, okondedwa komanso okondedwa. Ngakhale thandizo losavuta kugwira ntchito kunyumba ndi kusamalira ana ndi mnzanuyo lingathe kupanga chozizwitsa. Nthawi yomweyo mumamva kusiyana kwakukulu! Uzani mnzanuyo kuti mukufuna kumuwona chidwi chake. Aloleni akuuzeni zomwe mumatanthauza kwa iye.

Yesani kuseweretsa maliseche, onetsani malingaliro anu (nokha kapena ndi mnzanu) ndipo muzinena mosamala zomwe mukufuna kuti muzigona.

Ngati mkhalidwe wanu umayamba chifukwa cha maganizo kapena thanzi labwino - funsani dokotala wanu kapena dokotala wanu kuti mudziwe chifukwa chake. Sikofunika kuyankhula vuto lenileni, kungopitiliza kufufuza. Sinthani njira yanu ya moyo: pitani ku masewera, pezani zosangalatsa, lembani maphunziro ena.

Vuto 2. " Wokondedwa wanga amatha kusamba msanga. Tinayesetsa kuchepetsa njirayi, koma sizinathandize. Tingachite chiyani? "

Kuthamangira kusanafike kumakhudza amuna ambiri pa nthawi ina m'miyoyo yawo. Izi kawirikawiri zimachitidwa ndi nkhawa zamkati. Ndipo, pali "bwalo loopsa": pamene munthu akudandaula kwambiri, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti zichitike.

Pali zinthu zingapo zomwe zingathandize:
1. Ngati mulibe nthawi yowonongeka, monga kugonana komaliza - mutha kukondwera pafupi. Izi zingachepetse kukakamizika kwa wokondedwayo.
2. Sangalalani wina asanayambe kulowa. Yesani kugonana kosakaniza kapena kugonana pamlomo.
3. Yesani kondomu yapadera yomwe ili ndi zinthu zomwe zimachedwa kuchepa.
4. Kupuma kapena kusinkhasinkha kungagwiritsenso ntchito.
5. Pakati pa kugonana, kuyandikira pamalopo, yesani kusiya, ndiyambanso.

Ngati mavuto ake atasinthidwa sakadutsa, mwinamwake nkoyenera kutembenukira kwa wogonana.

Vuto 3. "Ndinayamba kumva kupweteka kwambiri panthawi yomwe ndikugonana. Ndine manyazi kulankhula za izi. Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? "

Kupweteka sikuyenera kunyalanyazidwa, choncho onetsetsani kuti muyankhule ndi dokotala wanu kuti muwone ngati muli bwino. Ngati mukuganiza kuti ululu wanu umayamba chifukwa cha kuuma kwambiri kapena kusowa kwachisangalalo, mungayese kugwiritsa ntchito mafuta odzola. Komanso, ululu wanu ukhoza kuyambitsa:

1. Matenda a thanzi, monga, cystitis. Pankhaniyi, chithandizo choyenera ndi chofunika. Musati mutsirize izo!
2. Matenda opatsirana pogonana. Tengani mayesero ofunika (izi zikhoza kuchitidwa mosadziwika). Kupanda chithandizo nthawi zambiri kungakhale ndi zotsatira zoipa kwambiri kwa onse a m'banja mwanu.
3. Mkhalidwe wa chilengedwe, monga vulvodynia kapena vaginismus, ukhozanso kubweretsa ululu ndi kuzunzika. Amafunikanso thandizo la akatswiri.

Vuto 4. "Mwamuna wanga nthawi zonse amafuna kugonana. Tsiku lililonse. Ndipo nthawi zambiri sindikusowa. Koma sindikufunanso kumukhumudwitsa. Ndiyenera kudzipangira ndikupirira. Ndimamukonda. Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? ».

Ndi nthano kuti "kugonana" ndi "okondana" nthawi zonse kumagwirizana. Mwanjira zambiri, munthu mmodzi nthawi zambiri amafuna kugonana kuposa wina. Mosasamala za kugonana ndi msinkhu. Koma nthawi zina timaiwala kuti pakadali pano khalidwe ndi lofunika kuposa kuchuluka. Mwamuna wanu akhoza kufuna kugonana mobwerezabwereza pa zifukwa zingapo:

1. Iye ali ndi magalimoto akuluakulu.
2. Amakhulupirira kuti izi ndi zomwe amuna enieni ayenera kuchita.
3. Amafuna kuti azigwirizana kwambiri.
4. Iye amamva nkhawa, kusakhazikika mu ubale wanu.

Mutsimikizireni kuti mumamukonda. Kuti athe kukusonyezani chikondi chake osati kugonana. Ndipo mwachidziwikire, kugwirizana ndi kudzipereka sizigwirizana ndi chiwerengero cha kugonana tsiku ndi tsiku. Nenani kuti iye ndi munthu weniweni - thandizo lanu, chitetezo ndi mphamvu zanu. Koma onetsetsani kuti mutiwuze kuti simukukonda bedi-moyo woterewu. Pezani zotsutsana. Njira yothetsera vutoli ingakhale yokhudzana ndi maliseche kapena kungokhalira kukondana mwachizoloŵezi cha kugonana ndi caresses. Ngati mwamuna amakukondani, adzalandira bwino.

Vuto 5. "Wokondedwa wanga anakhala wopanda mphamvu. Ine ndikutanthauza, iye alibe erection. Nthawi zonse amanena kuti si vuto langa, koma ndikudandaulabe. Nchiyani chinachitika? Ndipo ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? "

Amuna ambiri amakumana ndi mavuto a erection nthawi zina m'miyoyo yawo - akamakhala otanganidwa, amakhala ndi mavuto pantchito kapena atatopa. Nthawi zina vuto lake likhoza kugwirizana ndi mantha okhudza kugonana. Pachifukwa ichi, njira yachisangalalo, kusinkhasinkha ndi kuyang'ana pa zosangalatsa zanu musanalowe mkati kungachepetse kukakamiza. Kuvutika maganizo kungayambitsenso erection.

Ngati kukonzedwa sikuchitika ngakhale podetsa mimba kapena m'mawa - khulupirirani mnzanuyo kuti awone dokotala. Zimayambitsa matenda a mtima kapena shuga. Zikatero, dokotala amapereka mankhwala omwe amathetsa mavuto ndi erection. Ngati ndi kotheka, mukhoza kuonana ndi wogonana. Koma ziyenera kuchitidwa palimodzi.

Vuto 6. "Ndikuganiza kuti ndili ndi kachilombo koyambitsa matenda opatsirana pogonana. Ndingapeze bwanji tsatanetsatane? Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? "

Chowonadi ndi chakuti matenda ambiri opatsirana amtundu uwu alibe poyamba zizindikiro, kotero simungakhoze kungonena ngati mukudwala kapena ayi. Koma izi sizodziwika. Kawirikawiri, zizindikirozo ndi izi: kutaya kwa umuna, kukhala ndi fungo losasangalatsa komanso labwino. Mumamva kupweteka mukamakodza kapena kugonana. Mulimonsemo, muyenera kuwona dokotala. Matendawa sali ovomerezeka kwa iwo eni. Iwo amafunikira nthawi yambiri ya mankhwala, mwinamwake ngakhale kuchipatala. Koma kuti mudziwe bwinobwino, chonde tumizani kuchipatala. Ngati mukuwopa kufotokoza, penyani mosadziwika. M'tsogolo, makondomu angakutetezeni ku matendawa ndikuthandizani kuti mukhale osangalala, mukondweretse kugonana ndikusamalira thanzi lanu.