Munthu aliyense ali ndi chizoloŵezi choopa, kuopa chinachake. Makamaka kwa mwana, chifukwa ali ndi dziko losadziwika ndi lalikulu. Pofuna kuti asakhale ndi moyo mu moyo wake wachikulire, ntchito ya makolo, aphunzitsi ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi kuthandiza mwana kuthana ndi vuto la mantha mu nthawi (chimodzi mwazoopsa kwambiri). Kulimbana ndi mantha kumatha nthawi yaitali. Polimbana ndi izi, pali njira zosiyanasiyana zogwirira ntchito ndi mantha a ana.
Ntchito zogwira ntchito ndi mantha a ana
Choyamba, nkofunika kumuthandiza mwanayo kuthetsa mantha ake, kumudziwitsa njira zodzidzimvera ndi kudziletsa, kuchotsa mafano oopsa ndikuwamasulira kuti akhale osasangalala komanso opanda chitetezo, aphunzitse ana kuti azitsatira bwino mmene akumvera, mmene akumverera komanso mmene akumvera, kuti mwanayo azidalira mphamvu zawo.
Njira zogwirira ntchito ndi mantha a ana
- Mungagwiritse ntchito mankhwala a fairytale. Pogwira ntchito timatenga nkhani iliyonse (zojambulajambula, zachipatala, zamaganizo, zowonongeka kapena zakulungama) ndi bokosi lapadera la mchenga wamaganizo. Wopambana kwambiri pa nkhaniyi akhoza kukhala mantha (mwachitsanzo, Prince Fear kapena Sleep Sleep, etc.), ndipo mukhoza kupanga mantha wachiwiri kapena khalidwe lokhudza, ndi zina zotero. Choncho, zofunikira zochiritsira zimakhala zolembedwera m'nthano. Mukamagwira ntchito ndi nthano zosiyana siyana, simuyenera kuletsa vumbulutso lanu. Nkhaniyo iyenera kumangidwa kuti pakhale chitukuko cha zochitika zomwe mungathe kukambirana ndi mwanayo. Pambuyo pake, mungamuitane mwanayo kuti afotokoze malemba a nthano. Lembani nkhani yachinsinsi pamapepala, izo zidzakuthandizani ngati mukuwonetsa mobwerezabwereza mantha.
- Kukloterapiya - njira ina yothetsera mantha a ana. Mu psychology ya chidziwitso, kugwira ntchito ndi chidole, mungathe kusiyanitsa mwana ndi mantha: mwachitsanzo, osati mwana amawopa, koma chimbalangondo chokonda kapena galu. Pankhaniyi, mwanayo akukhala wolimbika mtima, wolimba mtima wa chitetezo chake.
- Kujambula kungathandize kuthana ndi mantha. Zilibe kanthu, ngakhale mwana wanu alibe taluso. Mudzapempha kuti mutenge zomwe zimamukhumudwitsa. Inde, muyenera kumufunsa za izi mwanjira yowonongeka, yofewa, ingofunsani, musati muyambe. Ndikuganiza kuti pafupifupi kholo lirilonse likhoza kuthana ndi ntchito imeneyi.
- Kuwonjezera pa kujambula, mukhoza kupereka chitsanzo cha mwana wa pulasitiki. Zochita za makolo panthawiyi ndi zofanana ndi omwe akujambula.
- Mwa njira yabwino, momwe mungagonjetse mantha a mwanayo, pakhoza kukhala kukambirana wamba ndi mwana pa mutu womwe umamuvutitsa. Koma musayambe kuyankhulana ndi ana aang'ono kwambiri. Izo sizingokhala zothandiza ndipo inu simungapeze chidziwitso chofunidwa. Kuti zokambirana zikhale zopindulitsa, nkofunikira kuti mwanayo amudalire kwambiri munthu wamkulu. Pokhapokha mutha kuitana mwana wanu kukambirana momasuka ndikugonjetsa mantha a ana. Nkhaniyi iyenera kuyandikira kwambiri. Ndikoyenera kuti mwatsogolere mukuganiza mndandanda wa mafunso okhudzana ndi mantha a mwanayo. Kuyankhulana kukhale kochezeka, choncho sikuloledwa kuwerengera mafunso pamapepala, mwinamwake sizingakhale zokambirana. Samalani kuti mafunso anu onse amafunsidwa mosavuta, ofikirika ndi omveka bwino pa msinkhu wa mwana wanu. Ndipo komabe, wina sangathe kuganizira pa chifukwa chimodzi, chifukwa chingathe kuchititsa mantha atsopano.
Pamene mukugwira ntchito ndi mantha a ana, chikhalidwe cha mwanayo chiyenera kuganiziridwa, chifukwa matenda a ubongo wa ana m'zaka zosiyana siyana ndi osiyana kwambiri.
Komabe, ana ali ndi mantha otero omwe katswiri wa zamaganizo amatha kumvetsa. Zikatero, ndi bwino kukaonana ndi katswiri.
Mwamwayi, mantha a ana amapezeka nthawi zambiri, osati chifukwa cha kulakwitsa kwa wina, koma makolo okha (moyo wauzimu, mavuto a m'banja kapena zosiyana siyana, chisamaliro chokwanira, kunyalanyaza kwambiri). Choncho, ndi udindo wa kholo lirilonse kuchenjeza ndi kuteteza ana ku mantha mwamsanga. Ndipo izi ndizofunikira kudziwa zomwe mwanayo akuwopa kwambiri komanso chifukwa chake. Ndipotu, kugwirizana ndi maganizo ndizo maziko a thanzi la mwana wanu.