Banja losangalala

Kawirikawiri, amuna ndi akazi oposa makumi atatu amadzidzimangira okha mwadzidzidzi akuganiza kuti: "Inu mumayesetsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu, kukwera, kuyesetsa, kukwaniritsa, ndipo muli ndi zonse zomwe mungathe kuziganizira ... Koma pazifukwa zina zilibe kanthu. Ndipo osasangalala. "

Pamene ndinawafunsa anthuwa kuti amaganizira za nthawi yapitayi yomwe adakwanitsa zolinga zawo, samakumbukira kawirikawiri kalikonse. Zowonjezereka, kukumbukira kumasunga mndandanda wa zochitika, munthu amadzilimbikitsa yekha, kuti zambiri zachitidwa, maganizo ake amadzikondweretsa yekha pa zomwe zapindula, koma kukumbukira "sikusangalatsa". Ndipo izi ndizofunikira za vuto - moyo sunali wamoyo, koma kudutsa, wodziwa mofulumira komanso mopambanitsa, m'njira zambiri anakanidwa, muzinthu zambiri mtanda unayikidwa. Ndipo kuchokera kuzipindula ndipo palibe zosangalatsa. Ndipo ngakhale ana ndi mabanja nthawi yomweyo amayamba kukhala chizoloŵezi - komabe, munthu "anafika" kuukwati, anabala mwana, koma moyo wochuluka ndi chinthu chomwe chimakhala ndi ndondomeko! Ndipo "kalekerera", amafunikira zolinga zatsopano, "kugonjetsa" kwatsopano.

Tidzakhala ndi chikhalidwe chimodzi cha anthu ngati zotsatira, ndipo china ndizochitika. Zimapangidwa m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Katswiri wa zamaganizo wa zomwe zimabweretsa zofuna nthawi zonse kuchokera kwa anthu, makolo, achibale: muyenera kukwaniritsa izi ndizo, kapena ngati mutayesa kulephera. Chotsatira chake sichidziwa momwe angakhalire wokhutira ndi zomwe iye ali, nthawi zonse samakhutitsidwa ndi iye mwini, ndi miyezo yake ya moyo, amadziyerekeza yekha ndi ena (monga momwe makolo ake amayerekezera ndi iye). Ndicho chifukwa chake nthawi zonse pamakhala munthu kapena chinachake chimene sichimlola kuti akhale mwamtendere, kumukakamiza kuti aziika zolinga zake zapamwamba ndikuzifulumizitsa ndi mphamvu zake zonse. Kusatetezeka kwa malowa ndikuti munthu woteroyo alibe nthawi yokwanira yoganiza. Kodi izi ndizo zolinga zake? Ndipo kodi akufunikiradi kukhala ndi zomwe akuyesetsa? Ndipotu, zosowa za onse ndi zosiyana kwambiri. Ndipo popanda kukhala ndi nthawi yoganiza ngati akufuna makamaka chuma kapena malo omwe amasonyezedwa, kapena ngakhale banja, zotsatira zake zimakhala ngati zofunkha zomwe zingathe kutsutsana ndi zikhumbo zake zosadziwika. Pambuyo pake, munthu aliyense pa chikumbumtima ali ndi ngodya zokhumba zenizeni, ngati mukufuna - ntchito yake m'dziko lino. Koma palibe nthawi yoganizira izi.

Liliana, mkazi wamalonda wopambana. Mwamuna wake ndi wamalonda wolemekezeka, ndi mwini wake wa ma salon okongola. Onse awiri ankafuna kuti zinthu ziziwayendera bwino, anafulumizitsa "kutenga zawo," zomwe zinkaphatikizapo ndalama, kulengedwa kwa banja, ndi kubadwa kwa mwana. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi, ali ndi zaka makumi atatu ndi chimodzi, Liliana akuzindikira kuti sakudziwa mwana wake wamkazi, yemwe "mwazifukwa zina" anayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo! Ndipo "pazifukwa zina" samamvetsa konse, chifukwa chake mwamuna wake sanamvere naye. Amatha kulemba mosavuta zonse zomwe wapindula, koma sangathe kuyankha funso la zomwe amakonda mwamuna wake, zomwe iye ali nazo, zomwe akulota, monga momwe alili ndi mkazi weniweni. Ndipo pa tsiku lakubadwa kwake amamupatsa maluwa onse ofanana, ngakhale kuti sakuwakonda. Album yawo ili yodzaza ndi zithunzi kuchokera ku mayiko achilendo, koma ndikapempha kuti ndifotokoze mphindi imodzi yachikondi, mphindi ya umodzi weniweni - mwadzidzidzi akuyamba kulira. Chifukwa kukumbukira kuli chete. Ndipo sungapulumutse nyumba zanyumba ziwiri ku Sokolniki, kapena malaya atatu a mink, ngakhale bizinesi yawo - pambuyo pake, sizisankhidwa. Koma chifukwa chakuti ndi "yotchuka, yopindulitsa, yokhazikika."

Vuto ndi zotsatira zake zonse ndi kudzipweteka, kutopa kuchokera kumayandikana nawo, chilakolako chofuna kusintha osakwatirana (pambuyo pa zonse, zomwe / zomwe zagonjetsedwa kale, ndi zofunikanso!) Ndipo kukhazikitsidwa komwe dziko lakunja liyenera kuwapatsa nthawi zonse - zikhomo zatsopano, zosangalatsa, akugwedezeka. Pamene Milan Kundera adalemba kuti liwiro limakhala lofanana ndi mphamvu yowonongeka. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mofulumira ife timadutsa mu moyo, osakumbukira pang'ono ndi osauka dziko lathu lamkati, pamene munthu amene akufuna kulisunga mosakayikira amachepetsa mapazi, akusangalala phazi lililonse, kukumbukira kulikonse kapena kusuntha maganizo, aliyense mukuusa moyo kwanu.

Ndondomeko imakula ndi chidwi chake "I". Kwa iye, mfundo yakuti "dzidziwe wekha" si mawu opanda kanthu. Kuwonjezera pa chidwi mwa iyemwini, alibe chidwi chochepa padziko lapansi. Safulumira, choncho amaphunzira chirichonse mozama kuposa wotsutsana naye. Ndi munthu wogwirizanitsa amene angasangalale naye mzake kwa zaka zambiri ndipo sakudziwa mawu akuti "boredom", amatha kukhala pamgedi kwa maola angapo, akubwera ndi chisankho chodabwitsa pazamalonda ndi kudzuka m'mafumbo mawa. Iye ndi "wokondedwa wa chiwonongeko", yemwe ali ndi mwayi, ngakhale kuti zenizeni chinsinsi ndi chophweka: safulumira kulikonse, choncho amayesetsa kupereka chinthu chachikulu ndikugwiritsa ntchito bwino luso lake ndi mwayi wa dziko lapansi. Filosofi yake ndi yophweka: mphindi iliyonse ya moyo iyenera kukondweretsedwa, chifukwa yotsatira ikhoza kusakhala!

Maxim - pakali pano akufuna zojambula. Poyamba, njira yake siinali yophweka: iye anadzifufuza yekha kwa nthawi yaitali, anakana kugwira ntchito kumene sankafuna, anakhutitsidwa ndi ang'onoang'ono. Komabe, ndi mzimu wakugwira ntchito imeneyi, momwe iye analiri pachikondi, patapita kanthawi anadzidziwitsa yekha. Ndipo anayamba kugulitsa malonda awo ndi malingaliro awo. Patapita zaka zingapo, mnzake wina adadzipeza yekha, wokonzeka kukhala ndi bizinesi yofanana. Izo zinayenda bwino, kunali kulemera. Ndinakwanitsa kugula nyumba, kuti ndipeze galimoto. Ndipo patapita nthawi, anakumana ndi "mkazi wa maloto." Chochititsa chidwi ndi chakuti Maxim amatsogolera moyo, amakhala maola ambiri pa zithunzi, amapanga makompyuta kwa iwo. Ntchito zambiri m'nyumba, mwana watsopano. Ndipo safulumira kulikonse. Ndibwino kumuyang'ana - ndi wokondwa.

Mpikisano wa zotsatira zake , zomwe sizinamvetsetse bwino, zikhoza kuyerekezedwa ndi zokhudzana ndi ubongo: anthu amawoneka kuti akuthawa okha, kubisala kumbuyo, ngati kuti akufuna kunena "penyani ine, simungathe kundiuza, ndakupatsani inu zonse, Ndili ndi chirichonse, ndilemekezeni ine! "Ndipo zimamveka ngati kulira kwa chithandizo. Chifukwa kumbuyo izi nthawi zambiri ndi mantha - mantha amantha, mkati mwa mantha, kuopa anthu ena, komanso kuti munthu wotereyo sakhala ndi chidaliro mwa iye mwini - ngati angakhale moyo monga momwe akufunira. Ndipo samasamala zomwe ena amaganiza. Koma ngati palibe chidziwitso cha mkati, palibe nzeru za mkati - ndiye ukhoza kudzitetezera ku choonadi mwa mtundu pambuyo pa zotsatira. Pamene chinthu chachikulu sichikhala nokha ndiwekha.