Banja laukwati - ichi ndi chiyeso chovuta kwa onse okwatirana. Anthu ambiri samangomvetsetsa bwino zomwe kwenikweni banja liri-mgwirizano waukwati wa maphwando. Banja laukwati - ichi ndi chiyeso chovuta kwa onse okwatirana. Anthu ambiri samangomvetsetsa bwino zomwe kwenikweni banja liri-mgwirizano waukwati wa maphwando.
1. Ubale pakati pa anthu awiri udzakhala wamphamvu kwambiri ngati mutaloleza mgwirizano mwalamulo.
Akatswiri ambiri opatsirana maganizo amavomereza kuti makasitomala awo azikumbukira ndendende momwe ubalewo unakhalire ukwati usanachitike. Kufufuza, motero, gawo lina la moyo, mukhoza kukumbukira nthawi ndi mikhalidwe yomwe simukufuna. Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti ukwati weniweni umasintha anthu, umasintha maukwati pakati pa okwatirana, ndipo amayembekezera kuti makhalidwe omwe simunawakonde nawo adzatayika pambuyo pa ukwatiwo. Uku ndiko kudzipusitsa kophweka, ndipo wina sayenera kuyembekezera ndi kunyengedwa ndi ziyembekezo zosayembekezeka ndi zilakolako. Inde, pali nthawi zina zomwe zingakhale bwino kwambiri kuti zikhazikitse banja-mgwirizano wa chikwati pakati pa maphwando (kulankhulana kwapafupi ndi nthawi zonse, kusamalirana kwachindunji wina ndi mzake, kuyendera mobwerezabwereza kwa katswiri wogonana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo). Komabe, ukwati ndi chinthu chakuya kwambiri. Silingathe kuonedwa monga mtundu wa chida chomwe chimalimbikitsa chiyanjano cha apakati.
2. Mudzasintha ndalama zanu komanso zachuma.
Zili choncho kuti muthekadi bwino ... Komabe, ukwati, mwachoncho, sizitsimikizo za chuma ndi chuma ndi chuma. Ngakhale ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wam'tsogolo akupeza zambiri kuposa inu. Mdziko lamakono, mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kugwira ntchito, popeza kulipira ndalama zogulira nyumba, tsopano pali malipiro akuluakulu ndipo palibe chitsimikizo kuti ukwatiwo udzakhala wodalirika komanso wokhalitsa. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kukwatiwa ndi "thumba la ndalama" ndipo nthawizonse mumakhala "pa phazi lalikulu" pamene mukugwiritsa ntchito ndalama za mwamuna wanu, ganizirani kanthawi zomwe zichitike ngati mwadzidzidzi ukwati wanu uli ndi munthu ndipo iwe uyenera kuti uzipeza moyo wako wekha.
3. Ukwati wanu ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu udzakhala wogwirizana (ngakhale zofuna ndi zokondweretsa).
N'kutheka kuti mwamuna wanu wokondedwa amafuna kuti muzitha kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu yonse yaulere monga momwe mumafunira. Koma, komabe sikoyenera kuyembekezera izo, monga sikofunikira, ndi kuyika zofuna zake pa iye mwamphamvu. Popeza munthu amene mukufuna kumugwiritsira ntchito moyo wanu wonse sangakhale wokondwera ndi mpira, kuthamanga, kapena kugula malo ogulitsira okalamba. Inde, ndipo izi ndi zomveka, popeza inunso simukufuna kumvetsera zitsulo zolemera kapena kupita kumaseĊµera onse a hockey. Maubale apabanja ayenera kumangidwa molingana ndi kukhala oyenera. Muyenera kukumbukira kuti simukuyenera kuchita zinthu zomwezo. Chitani zomwe zikukondweretsani inu, kugawana zokondweretsa zanu ndi anzanu kapena akuntchito omwe akuchita zomwezo monga momwe mumachitira.
4. Ukwati ukatha, moyo uyenera kusintha kuti ukhale wabwino.
Kulota, ndithudi, sikuli kovulaza .... Komabe, ngati mukuganizabe kuchokera kumalingaliro, ndiye kuti ukwati sungathe kupanga ntchito yosangalatsa (ngati simukukondana musanalowe m'banja), kapena mlongo wanu sali wodzikonda, kapena amayi amamasuka komanso amamvetsetsa. Ukwati si matsenga, koma zoona. Izi zimamveka kwa munthu aliyense wamkulu, basi onse omwe angokwatirana kumene amakhala akuyembekezera zozizwitsa, kusintha kofulumira kwabwino!
5. Ndidzamukonda kwamuyaya, ndipo palibe wina aliyense amene adzandikonde monga momwe amachitira!
Ena amakhulupirira kuti palibe amene anganyamulidwe ndi munthu yemwe ali naye tsopano, ndipo mgwirizano wa ukwati ndi wopatulika. Mwina izi ndi zoona zoona. Tidzakumana ndi munthu yemwe adzatikonda kwambiri, adzodandaula, mwinamwake adzatipweteka mwakachetechete. Ndipo mwinamwake, mwa munthu uyu ife tikhoza kukondana mosachepera theka lathu lachiwiri. Nthawi zina timagonjetsedwa ndi kukayikira kouma, kodi tasankha bwino? Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti muime nthawi yake ndikuyang'ana bwinobwino. Kuwonjezera apo, kodi ndife okonzeka kuvomereza poyera kwa ife eni kapena ayi, koma tonsefe timasangalala kwambiri tikamamvera abambo!
Banja laukwati - ichi ndi chiyeso chovuta kwa onse okwatirana. Anthu ambiri samangomvetsetsa bwino zomwe kwenikweni banja liri-mgwirizano waukwati wa maphwando. M'nkhaniyi, tikuyang'ana pa zifukwa zazikulu zazikulu zisanu zomwe zikugwirizana ndi zomwe tikuyembekeza kuti tidzakhala pamodzi.
1. Ubale pakati pa anthu awiri udzakhala wamphamvu kwambiri ngati mutaloleza mgwirizano mwalamulo.
Akatswiri ambiri opatsirana maganizo amavomereza kuti makasitomala awo azikumbukira ndendende momwe ubalewo unakhalire ukwati usanachitike. Kufufuza, motero, gawo lina la moyo, mukhoza kukumbukira nthawi ndi mikhalidwe yomwe simukufuna. Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti ukwati weniweni umasintha anthu, umasintha maukwati pakati pa okwatirana, ndipo amayembekezera kuti makhalidwe omwe simunawakonde nawo adzatayika pambuyo pa ukwatiwo. Uku ndiko kudzipusitsa kophweka, ndipo wina sayenera kuyembekezera ndi kunyengedwa ndi ziyembekezo zosayembekezeka ndi zilakolako. Inde, pali nthawi zina zomwe zingakhale bwino kwambiri kuti zikhazikitse banja-mgwirizano wa chikwati pakati pa maphwando (kulankhulana kwapafupi ndi nthawi zonse, kusamalirana kwachindunji wina ndi mzake, kuyendera mobwerezabwereza kwa katswiri wogonana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo). Komabe, ukwati ndi chinthu chakuya kwambiri. Silingathe kuonedwa monga mtundu wa chida chomwe chimalimbikitsa chiyanjano cha apakati.
2. Mudzasintha ndalama zanu komanso zachuma.
Zili choncho kuti muthekadi bwino ... Komabe, ukwati, mwachoncho, sizitsimikizo za chuma ndi chuma ndi chuma. Ngakhale ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wam'tsogolo akupeza zambiri kuposa inu. Mdziko lamakono, mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kugwira ntchito, popeza kulipira ndalama zogulira nyumba, tsopano pali malipiro akuluakulu ndipo palibe chitsimikizo kuti ukwatiwo udzakhala wodalirika komanso wokhalitsa. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kukwatiwa ndi "thumba la ndalama" ndipo nthawizonse mumakhala "pa phazi lalikulu" pamene mukugwiritsa ntchito ndalama za mwamuna wanu, ganizirani kanthawi zomwe zichitike ngati mwadzidzidzi ukwati wanu uli ndi munthu ndipo iwe uyenera kuti uzipeza moyo wako wekha.
3. Ukwati wanu ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu udzakhala wogwirizana (ngakhale zofuna ndi zokondweretsa).
N'kutheka kuti mwamuna wanu wokondedwa amafuna kuti muzitha kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu yonse yaulere monga momwe mumafunira. Koma, komabe sikoyenera kuyembekezera izo, monga sikofunikira, ndi kuyika zofuna zake pa iye mwamphamvu. Popeza munthu amene mukufuna kumugwiritsira ntchito moyo wanu wonse sangakhale wokondwera ndi mpira, kuthamanga, kapena kugula malo ogulitsira okalamba. Inde, ndipo izi ndi zomveka, popeza inunso simukufuna kumvetsera zitsulo zolemera kapena kupita kumaseĊµera onse a hockey. Maubale apabanja ayenera kumangidwa molingana ndi kukhala oyenera. Muyenera kukumbukira kuti simukuyenera kuchita zinthu zomwezo. Chitani zomwe zikukondweretsani inu, kugawana zokondweretsa zanu ndi anzanu kapena akuntchito omwe akuchita zomwezo monga momwe mumachitira.
4. Ukwati ukatha, moyo uyenera kusintha kuti ukhale wabwino.
Kulota, ndithudi, sikuli kovulaza .... Komabe, ngati mukuganizabe kuchokera kumalingaliro, ndiye kuti ukwati sungathe kupanga ntchito yosangalatsa (ngati simukukondana musanalowe m'banja), kapena mlongo wanu sali wodzikonda, kapena amayi amamasuka komanso amamvetsetsa. Ukwati si matsenga, koma zoona. Izi zimamveka kwa munthu aliyense wamkulu, basi onse omwe angokwatirana kumene amakhala akuyembekezera zozizwitsa, kusintha kofulumira kwabwino!
5. Ndidzamukonda kwamuyaya, ndipo palibe wina aliyense amene adzandikonde monga momwe amachitira!
Ena amakhulupirira kuti palibe amene anganyamulidwe ndi munthu yemwe ali naye tsopano, ndipo mgwirizano wa ukwati ndi wopatulika. Mwina izi ndi zoona zoona. Tidzakumana ndi munthu yemwe adzatikonda kwambiri, adzodandaula, mwinamwake adzatipweteka mwakachetechete. Ndipo mwinamwake, mwa munthu uyu ife tikhoza kukondana mosachepera theka lathu lachiwiri. Nthawi zina timagonjetsedwa ndi kukayikira kouma, kodi tasankha bwino? Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti muime nthawi yake ndikuyang'ana bwinobwino. Kuwonjezera apo, kodi ndife okonzeka kuvomereza poyera kwa ife eni kapena ayi, koma tonsefe timasangalala kwambiri tikamamvera abambo!