Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta chifukwa zimakhala zochepa, zosayenera. Kukhazikitsidwa kosapeŵeka kwa mgwirizano wogwirizana, ena amakumana ndi chovuta: mnzako amayamba kudziwonetsa mopambanitsa, ngakhale mosaganizira, akukhulupirira kuti akulimbikitsidwa ndi wina, osakonda maganizo. Pano mukuganiziranso momwe mungapewe mikangano ndi anzanu, kotero kuti pasakhale wina wopweteka.
Ngakhale izi zimakhala zofala makamaka pamisonkhano yowoneka ngati yamtendere, pamene tchuthi likunena kuti ndi malo amphepete mwa migodi: si zomwe iye ananena, koma anachita chinthu cholakwika. Kodi ndi mgwirizano wotani umene ungakhalepo? Kawirikawiri palinso kutsutsana ndi bwana kapena makasitomala. Apa mawu olakwika angapangitse zotsatira, osati makhalidwe okha, komanso ndalama. Koma zilizonsezi: kaya ndi abwenzi, abambo, mabwana, pali ziganizo zina zomwe zingathe kuthetsa mavuto omwe angakhalepo, komanso kukhazikitsa zofanana. Kusamvana ndi abwenzi sayenera kuchitika.
Mwachilolezo.
"Zikomo chifukwa cha maganizo anu. Ndi bwino kuganizira za izo. " Zitha kukhala zogwirizana, yankho lachitukuko ndi laubwenzi kwa funso lililonse losayenera. Makamaka, ngati mnzanu wosadziŵa amaika zikhumbo zake pa iwe. Ngati chakudya chaubwenzi wina amakufunsani ngati mudakali ndekha, mumakhalabe ndi zifukwa zanzeru, kufotokozera, monga momwe ndi chifukwa chake, siziyenera kukhala. Kupewa mikangano ndi abwenzi kungakhale yankho losavuta: "Inde, ndikudziwitsani ngati chilichonse chimene ndikufuna kusintha chidzasintha." Khalani olemekezeka kwambiri - cholinga chachikulu, mpaka mpaka kutha kwa zokambirana zosasangalatsa. Sikoyenera kudziletsa, kulimbika, udindo, ngakhale kukhala wosayera.
Maganizo a zokambirana.
"Kodi tsopano mukutha kulankhula?" - Mawu abwino omwe angakuthandizeni kudziwa ngati mnzanu ali wokonzeka kuyankhulana momveka bwino. Yankho "Ayi" - kusewera kudzakhala pakhomo limodzi: mwinamwake mnzanuyo amadziyesa kuti amamvetsera bwino, koma makamaka adzakumbukira chofunika, chochitika chake. Mawuwa athandizanso poyankhulana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi (yemwe akuyang'ana mndandanda wotsatira), ndi kuntchito (pokambirana za vuto ladzidzidzi, pamene wogwira ntchito panthawiyi ali ndi vuto lina). Musalowe mumatsenga osamva mukamva "ayi." Funso: "Zidzakhala liti?" Zidzakhala zabwino kwambiri. Anthu ndi osamala, oyenerera, amawayamikira nthawi zonse, mosiyana ndi "omwe amavala madzi."
Palibe malamulo.
Chimene sichiyenera kuchitika poyanjana ndi abwenzi, choncho lankhulani nawo mwadongosolo. Ngakhale ndizofunikadi. Kawirikawiri, mumakumana ndi zomwe mnzanu amachita, monga "Kodi si bizinesi yanu", kapena "Kodi muli, ulamuliro"? Ndiye ndi bwino kubwezeretsanso njira zowonjezera maubwenzi. Ndi bwino kupeza kuchokera kwa mnzanu ngati akufuna kumva chinachake, makamaka zomwe adzamuuze. Ndi bwino kukhala chete pamene "ayi", chifukwa zochitika zina zachiwawa zidzatsatira mwamsanga, koma kodi mukuzisowa?
Ntchito yogwirizana.
Kawirikawiri mabwenzi amakhala okondedwa mu moyo, kapena anzanu. Mphindi "Ndikufuna thandizo labwino. Kodi mungathe ... ", muzochitika zoterezi sitingapewe. Pamene anzanu sagwirapo mbali ya udindo, anthu amakhumudwa nthawi zambiri. Izi ndi chifukwa chakuti iwo samangopempha. Mmalo mwa mitundu yonse ya milandu yotsutsana ndi zina, kaya ndi ulesi kapena zosamvetsetseka, kapena kusayembekezereka, monga momwe alangizi a maganizo amalangizira, ndi bwino kupempha kuti muchite nokha. Zopempha ziri bwino kuti mukhale molondola, momveka bwino. Zomwe zingatheke kuntchito: "Ndiyesera kukonzekera lipoti, ndipo chonde, yang'anani." Zimasangalatsa komanso zosavuta kupewa mikangano.
Kusintha.
"Kodi ukunena kuti ...?" Funsani funso loyenera, mungayesere kupeŵa mkangano waukulu. Tonsefe timagwiritsidwa ntchito kudalira chidziwitso chathu, ndi kuwonetsa onse pansi pa chisa chomwecho. Malingaliro omwe amatanthawuza mwachindunji izi kapena mawu omwe akuchokera kwa bwenzi ayenera kupita mumthunzi. Kutanthauzira kosayenerera, monga zotsatira, kungapangitse zifukwa zabodza. Ndi bwino kuphunzira kusiyana ndi kulingalira.
Maganizo anu.
Pempho lachinthu chinachake chidzakhala choyenera. Palibe amene akulangiza kumvera popanda choletsa, si maganizo anu, koma simungapeze mtendere ngakhale. Mfundo yeniyeni, osati nthawi zonse yokhudzana ndi malingaliro a bwenzi, iyenera kukhala nayo malo. Mungathe, mwachitsanzo, mmodzi wa inu apite ku nyumba imodzi yamalonda, koma m'maofesi osiyanasiyana, pamapeto pamsonkhano wake. Lankhulani malingaliro anu nthawizonse, ndipo pa funso lomwe likubweralo, ndiye kuti n'zotheka kufuna kuyanjanitsa, zomwe kwenikweni, ndi chikhumbo cholimba, apo.
Thandizo, koma osati kunyozedwa.
Mwachibadwa, palibe amene amanyoza. Ndi bwino kumvetsetsa, kulangiza chisankho kusiyana ndi kutsutsa. Inu nokha mungathe kukhala pachikhalidwe chomwechi. Ndiye, pobwezera, mudzalandira thandizo la mnzanu. Ngakhale bwenziyo sanamvere malangizowo, anaganiza zozichita yekha - ziribe kanthu. Chilankhulo chanu, ndithudi, pa nthawi yomweyo, ndizovuta kunena, monga "Ndinakuuzani!" Simungachite izi mwanjira iliyonse. Mnzanga ndipo kotero mukukhumudwa, ndi kukakamizidwa kwambiri kuti iye apindule bwino sangathe kuchita. Ndi bwino kusonyeza chifundo chanu ndi mowolowa manja. Thandizo lotero ndilo patsogolo. Ndipo, potsirizira, pafupifupi ife tonse tiri olakwika, opusa.
Popanda abwenzi, ndithudi, zovuta. Adzayesa kuthetsa vuto liri lonse pamodzi. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mnzanu ayenera kukhala weniweni. Ndiye, ndi kuyamikira izo, kumuthandizani, musamukonde iye chisoni.