Kubadwa kwapadera kwaulere

Pamene ndinakhala ndi pakati, sindinaganize za kubweranso kumeneku, nthawi inali yochepa ndipo sindinadziwe bwino za vuto langa. Koma pang'onopang'ono, ndi kukula kwa mimba, kuzindikira kuti posachedwa ine ndidzakhala mayi, ndipo mwamuna wanga, motero, bambo anga, adakula kwambiri. Pakati pa mwezi wachisanu ndi chimodzi ndinayamba kuganizira kwambiri za kubala. Ndinagula amamayi magazini, kuwerenga mabuku ndikuyankhula pa intaneti ndi atsikana omwe anali ofanana ndi ine. Inde, ndinaphunzira zinthu zambiri zatsopano, ndipo ndithudi, zinandithandiza kwambiri. Koma mantha anga operekera kubadwa sakanatha.
Pa nthawi yomwe ndinadzivulaza kale, sindinaphunzirepo kanthu, ndinaphunzira za kubereka pamodzi ndi mwamuna wanga. Ndimakhulupirira kwambiri mwamuna ndipo pamene ndili ndi iye, sindiopa kanthu. Ndinayesera kulankhula naye mosamala. Sindinganene kuti anali wofunitsitsa kupita ku chibadwidwe, koma sindinamve kukana mwachindunji. "Chabwino, adzionetse yekha," ndinaganiza.
Ndili ndi pakati pa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, ndinabereka mchemwali wanga. Iye anali ndi kubala. Mwinamwake, kuyankhulana ndi banjali kunakhudza kwambiri chisankho cha mwamuna kuti akhale ndi ine kapena ayi panthawi yofunika kwambiri.

Powonjezereka, tinayamba kukambirana za momwe angandithandizire pa nthawi ya kubala. Pomwe uphungu wa amayi unayamba maphunziro kuti akonzekere sakramenti, mwamunayo anayenda nawo kwa ine. Onse aphunzitsi awa amapanga mwamuna wanga ngati chitsanzo. Ndipo ine ndinali wamisala wonyada za iye.
Achibale ndi anthu omwe tinkawadziwa anatisokoneza kwambiri ndi "malonda" awa, monga momwe adadziwonetsera okha. "Pa kubadwa, mwamuna sali wake." "Adzawona chilichonse - ndikuchoka." "Mudzawononga moyo wanu wa kugonana kosatha." Ndipo iyi si mndandanda wathunthu wa nkhani zoopsya zomwe zimatiopseza.
Ndinapirira nthawi yanga, kapena kuti, idaikidwa kwa ine molakwika. Chotsatira chake, kubadwa kwanga kunayamba pafupifupi masabata awiri pambuyo pake. Ndiye, pamene zinali zovuta kukhulupirira kuti ndikanabereka nthawi zonse.

Koma palibe amene wakhala ali ndi pakati kwamuyaya, ndipo sindinakhale wosiyana. Tsiku lina, nkhondo zinayamba. Mwamuna wake atangomva za izi, nthawi yomweyo adanena kuti lero tidzayenda kwambiri, kuti mwanayo apite mofulumira. Nthawi yonse yoyamba ya ntchito inathera pamapazi athu, kuyenda pamsewu, kumaliza zinthu zonse zofunika.
Nkhondoyo itapita kale kwambiri, ndipo sindinali ndi mphamvu yoganizira chilichonse, mwamuna wanga adayang'ananso matumbawa kuchipatala chakumayi, kaya zonse zilipo. Kenaka anaitanitsa tekesi ndipo tinapita kuchipatala.
Apa ine sindikudziwa basi zomwe ine ndikanachita popanda izo! Iye adatengapo mbali payekha. Ine ndinalibe nthawi yoti ndiyankhe mafunso a anamwino ogwira ntchito. Mwamuna wanga anayankha.
Anagula mankhwala ndi zofunika zonse zomwe zinali zofunika pakubeleka. Anandipatsa madzi. Anapukuta thukuta langa pamphumi, lomwe linagubuduza matalala. Kulamulidwa kuti ndizipuma bwino. Inandithandiza ine kulumpha pa fitball. Ndipo, ndithudi, iye ankamuthandizira ndi mawu.

"Sunny, iwe ukhoza, ndikukhulupirira iwe"; "Pang'ono pang'ono, ndipo chozizwitsa chathu chidzakhala ndi ife"; "Zing'onozing'ono, zonse zidzakhala zabwino!" - anandidandaulira. Ndipo ine ndimadziwa kuti chirichonse chikanakhala chabwino. Apo ayi, izo sizingakhale zosiyana. Ndipo kuzindikira kwa izi kunandipatsa mphamvu.
Mwamuna wake adapempha kuti apite kuntchito, koma akufuna kuti akhale. "Sindidzamusiya nthawi yomweyo!" Adatero. Mwamuna wanga anapuma ndi ine, anandiuza nthawi yoti ndikankhire, ndipo pamene ayi, iye anandigwira, anandithandizira m'njira iliyonse.

Mwanayo anabadwa maola awiri atabwera kuchipatala, wathanzi komanso wolimba. Madokotala anati ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinabereka ana awiri. Amuna otere omwe angathe kuthandiza kwambiri pakubereka, osasokoneza, ndi amodzi. Ndipo mwamuna wanga "amayunitsi" awa ali patsogolo.
Kodi moyo wathu unakhudza bwanji kuti tinali ndi zibwenzi? Ndiyankha: ndi ogwirizana kwambiri. Chinthu china chabwino - mwamuna wanga anawona kuti kunali kosavuta kubereka, ndipo kwa nthawi yoyamba, pamene kunali kovuta kwa ine, ndinakhala pafupi ndi zosamalidwa pakhomo ndi kusamalira mwana. "Chotupa choyamba chinasintha mwana wanga!" - Iye amalemekeza aliyense mpaka pano. Ndipo mu moyo wa kugonana palibe chomwe chasintha.
Sindinadandaule nazo za kubereka kwathu. Ndipo kwa mwana wachiwiri, tiyeni tipite palimodzi!