Moyo Wachinsinsi
Phunzirani mwadzidzidzi kuti mnzanuyo akuchita maliseche, chifukwa ambiri amakhala osokonezeka. Azimayi m'mikhalidwe yotereyi, makamaka nthawi zambiri amadzimva manyazi, amadziwa izi ngati kutaya kwa chikhumbo chawo. Iwo amaganiza kuti njira iyi ya kudzikhutira kwa mwamunayo imalankhula za kusagwirizana kwawo. Amuna, kupeza wokondedwa kuti azikhutira, samva ngati oopsya kwa amuna awo. Ndipo izi ndizomveka: chiwerewere chachikazi chimayambira makamaka pa clitoris, sichimasokoneza coitus, koma, mosiyana, chingakhale ngati chiyambi cha chikondi. Azimayi amatha kukhala ndi ziphuphu zambiri, kotero munthu akhoza kukhulupirira kuti mkazi yemwe amadzipweteketsa yekha, akukonzekera kuti azitenganso. Kuonjezera apo, amuna samakhala ndi mlandu pafupi kwambiri kuona ziwalo zoberekera zachikazi, zobisika chifukwa cha malo awo. Kupeza zomwe mumazikonda kuseweretsa maliseche kumatanthauza kutsegula chophimba cha zinsinsi zake. Ndipo izi, ndithudi, zimakondweretsa!
Zikondweretseni nokha
Kuchita maliseche sikutanthauza kuti kuyambira kumakhala kosavuta. Izi ndizochitidwe zosiyana zogonana, zomwe zilipo zokha. Kukonda kudzikonda ndizosangalatsa zomwe sizifanana ndi zina. Izi ndizosiyana pakati pa kugonana, komwe kulipo pamodzi ndi kawirikawiri. Mitundu iwiriyi yotsutsana siimapikisana. Kudzidetsa nkhawa ndiko kudzipatsa nokha mphindi zomwe ziri zanu zokha. Ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yopumula ndikudzidalira nokha. Ndi chifukwa cha izi kumapweteka mwana wamng'ono. Kwa munthu wamkulu, mankhwalawa amachitanso ntchito zina.
Kudziimba mlandu
Zomwe timabisa zingachititse kudzimva kuti ndife olakwa osati chifukwa choipa, koma chifukwa choti timachibisa. Ndipo tsopano aleka kugonana - aliyense amadzikhutiritsa. Pachifukwa ichi, ubale wa chiyanjano umakhala wochuluka. Pambuyo pake, kudzikhutira, monga kukhutira kwina kulikonse, kumayesa munthu kukhala wosungulumwa. Kuchokera pamalingaliro a chisangalalo cholandiridwa, maliseche ndi otsika kwa chizoloŵezi chogonana pakati pawo ndi mnzanu wapamtima: ndi iye yemwe amabweretsa chisangalalo chachikulu, chodziletsa kwambiri. Kugonana kwabwino kumaphatikizapo kubwereza. Kugonana kwakukulu ndi phunziro kwa awiri. Ngati okwatirana ali ndi chizoloŵezi chochita maliseche kusiyana ndi kugonana, izi zikutanthauza kuti ubale wabwera mu chiyanjano. Ngati timadzipweteka kangapo patsiku, izi zikhoza kusonyeza nkhawa yaikulu. Pachifukwa ichi, sikutanthauza kugonana. Izi ziyenera kuyankhulana ndi wokondedwa kapena ngakhale katswiri wa maganizo. Kufunika kotereku kungatiuze mosiyana ndi ife, makamaka ngati tili mwana tinaletsedwa kukhala ndi zinsinsi zathu. Ndipo pamene "atiwonetsa" ife, lingaliro la kulakwa limakula. Ndinagwidwa ndi mkazi wanga. Iye anayika dzanja lake pa ine, akufuna kuti apitirize yekha mmalo mwa ine ^ Izo zinali zosasamalika. Ndinamuuza kuti asiye, ndipo sitinayankhulenso za izo. Ndikuganiza kuti akumva kuti ndi wolakwa, ngati kuti sanachite bwino. Ngakhale ziribe kanthu kochita ndi izo. Zilibe kanthu kwenikweni.
Pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya maliseche
Sayansi yamakedzana inakhulupirira kuti mbewuyo imachokera ku lymph, ndipo mitsempha imatulutsa ubongo. Choncho zinatsimikiziridwa kuti nthawi zambiri kutaya magazi kumachotsa ubongo ndikuyambitsa matenda osiyanasiyana. Maganizo awa adatha mpaka kumayambiriro kwa zaka za m'ma XX. Pang'onopang'ono malingaliro okhudzana ndi maliseche asintha kwabwino. Mu ntchito ya olemba Silver Age (AI Remizov, FA Sologub, AA Tinyakov, ndi zina zotero) maliseche ndi okondweretsa. Wasayansi wina, dzina lake Vasily Rozanov, analemba kuti: "Ena mwa anzakewa, ali ngati akavalo a Arabia pakati pa bitoyugs." Mankhwala amakono sakuwona kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kungasokoneze thanzi. Kalekale anali kudzichepetsa kuti achite maliseche. Ku Greece ndi Roma, anapangidwanso zipangizo zamakono. Komabe, mawu achilatini akuti "maliseche" ali ndi mthunzi wosakondwera, chifukwa amatanthawuza kuti "kunyansa ndi dzanja". Baibulo limalongosola momwe Mulungu adamuwombera Onan, yemwe adathira mbewu pansi. Ofufuza ena amakhulupirira kuti sikunali maliseche, koma kugonana kumasokoneza. Ndipo nkhaniyi idakhala ngati chikonzero chotsutsa mchitidwe wogonana ndi tchalitchi. Mu Russia wakale, amatchedwa mawu achi Greek akuti "malakia" kapena Slavic "kuseweretsa maliseche" ndipo amatsutsana ndi kukanidwa kwa satana. Masiku ano, maliseche akuwoneka ngati njira yodzipezera kugonana ndi gwero la zosangalatsa. Chomwecho pa nkhaniyi sichitha kukhala chiyanjano chofanana cha kugonana kwabwino "ndipo timagwiritsa ntchito nthawi zosiyana ndi nthawi zosiyanasiyana. Ena amakhumudwitsa ndi kumiza m'nyanja yamasewera, ena amasangalala ndikupita kumalo osangalatsa. Zina mwazochitazi zingakhale zopindulitsa kwa anthu awiriwa. Amathandiza aliyense kuti adziwe zosangalatsa zawo, zomwe ndi zofunika kuti pakhale chitukuko chogonana. Ndipo pambali pake, amathetsa mavuto a wina aliyense payekha, ndipo awiriwa, pamene wina akufuna kugonana, ndipo winayo sakufuna.
Chifukwa choganizira
Zimene mkaziyo anachitazo zinali zachilengedwe: iye amafuna kutembenuza chirichonse kukhala masewera achiwerewere, kuti azigawana zokondweretsa. Mwamuna wanga sanali wokonzekera izi. Akunena kuti wokondedwayo "sankatha," choncho maganizo ake amagwiritsidwa ntchito: amamufotokozera zakukhosi kwake. Iye sanali wokonzeka kuti alole mkazi kupita ku chigawo cha ubwenzi wake wapamtima. Amayi ambiri amakhala ndi maganizo olakwika. Pachifukwa ichi, kumbuyo kwa izi ndi chinyengo chimene mwamuna wanu akuchifuna ndipo akhoza kuchira, ngati sichigwira ntchito, ndiye kuti ndinu wolakwa. Pakalipano, amuna ambiri amafunikira ufulu wochuluka. Choncho, kuukiridwa kwa gawoli nthawi zambiri kumawoneka ngati kuphwanya chiyanjano ndi kuyambitsa chionetsero. Musalole kapena kudziletsa nokha. Bwanji osangosewera ngati akadakhala masewera. Ndikofunika kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kukondwere. Nthawi yowonetsera ikuwonekera ngati idzakhala mtundu wokha wa moyo wa kugonana. Sitinaganize kuti masewera atsopano oterewa angapangitse. Tinkakonda kuyang'anitsitsa ena, kapena tikupeza kuti akuchita izi, zinali zosangalatsa. Koma patapita nthawi, ife tinkasokonezeka wina ndi mzake.