Kodi anorgasmia ndi chiyani?
Kwenikweni, ichi si chigamulo kapena cholakwika chachikulu. Mzimayi sangathe kuwona zachiwerewere, koma nthawi yomweyo amasangalala ndi kugonana. Kusiyanitsa kwake ndi mkazi yemwe angathe kuwonongeka, kokha kuti iye sangamasulidwe, mwinamwake nthawi zambiri sipangakhale kusiyana. Mwachitsanzo, amayi a Frigid sachita chidwi ndi kugonana, zomwe sizikufanana ndi vutoli.
Zifukwa za kusokonekera uku zingakhale zambiri. Nthawi zina vuto limakhala m'maganizo a mkazi. Mwachitsanzo, panthawi yachisokonezo, amai sakhala ndi zovuta. Nthawi zina izi ndi zotsatira za matenda a ziwalo zoberekera ndi ziwalo zapakhosi. Anorgasmia ikhoza kukhala yachangu, nthawi zambiri imachiritsidwa bwino, ngati yatsimikiziridwa bwino ndi kudziwa molondola chifukwa cha chisokonezo m'thupi.
Kuposa nkhope?
Anorgasmia ingakhale yoopsa kwa thanzi. Inde, zotsatira zoyamba za matendawa, matendawa mu chiyanjano. Kawirikawiri amayi ayenera kutsanzira ziphuphu, ndipo nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta kuti aweruzidwe ndi bodza kapena chiopsezo chopeza zinthu zingapo zomwe siziwalola kuti ayandikire pafupi ndi zosangalatsa. Ngati munthu aphunzira choonadi, sikuti aliyense ali wokonzeka kuchitira khalidwe la mnzanuyo ndi kumvetsetsa, makamaka ngati palibe chiyanjano mu ubale wawo. Koma, kuphatikizapo, anorgasmia, osasamalidwa, nthawi zambiri amatanthauza kuti pali mavuto ndi kutuluka kwa magazi mu ziwalo za m'mimba. Pokhapokha, ndizo chifukwa cha vutoli, chifukwa cha matenda omwe angayambe kuwoneka oopsa - myomas, masewera, varicose mitsempha, zotupa. Kawirikawiri, chithandizo chofuna kubwezeretsa magazi, chimathetsa mavuto onse kamodzi, ndipo sikoyenera kupereka nsembe kapena ubale.
Kodi mungachotse bwanji?
Ngati chifukwa cha anorgasmia sichili mu thanzi labwino, ndiye kuti ndiye kuti vutoli ndilo lingaliro la mkazi. Mwinamwake, mkazi sangathe kudalira wokondedwa, khalani chete. Nthaŵi zina kusatheka kupeza chiwonongeko kumawoneka chifukwa mkazi samadzidziwa yekha, samvetsa zomwe thupi lake limafuna.
Pofuna kuthetsa vuto limeneli, mwamuna akhoza komanso ayenera kuthandizira. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndikutulutsa maganizo abwino. Izi zimatsogoleredwa ndi mtima wabwino, chikondi chenicheni ndi chisamaliro, kufunitsitsa kulankhula za mavuto apamtima ndi kuwathetsa pamodzi. Ndikoyenera kuyesera kusisita bwino, njira zosiyanasiyana zokopa. Mayi aliyense pa thupi ali ndi malo apadera, omwe, akamakakamizidwa, amachititsa kuti anthu azigonana. Popeza amayi omwe ali ndi vuto lochita masewera olimbitsa thupi samakhala ozizira, amasangalala kwambiri ndi iwo. Funso lokhalo ndilo kubweretsa nkhaniyo kumapeto kwake omveka bwino.
Zimadziwika kuti zolaula sizibwera mwa dongosolo, koma kuyang'ana mosamala zomwe mnzanuyo amachita pa njira imodzi kapena njira ina yolimbikitsa, mukhoza kumvetsetsa kuti amaikonda kwambiri. Ngati kwa kanthawi kulimbikitsa mfundo zina kuzungulira clitoris kapena kumaliseche, ndiye kuti phokoso lidzabwera ndi mwayi waukulu.
Nthawi zina kwa anorgazmiyu amatenga chisangalalo chokhazikika ndi moyo wa kugonana. Mwachitsanzo, mkazi amakonda kugonana mofulumira komanso molimbika kwambiri, sakonda nthawi yayitali, ndipo mwamuna amaona kuti ndi udindo wake kuti azichita maola ola limodzi nthawi zonse. Mu ubale wapamtima, payenera kukhala nthawi yokhala ndi chidziwitso ndikuyankhula momasuka, kumathandiza kuthetsa mavuto ambiri.
Kuperewera kwa chiwerewere mwa mkazi kumaonedwa kuti ndi chitonzo kwa mwamuna. Amayi ambiri amakonda kusonyeza chiwonongeko, koma kuti asakwiyitse wokondedwayo. Koma izi mwamtheradi zimawaletsa mwayi wophunzira zosangalatsa zenizeni za kugonana. Ngati zisokonezo sizingatheke, mwinamwake, sikuyenera kukhala ndi chiyembekezo, chifukwa kugonana ndizosangalatsa kuyambira pachiyambi mpaka kumapeto. Ambiri amachotsedwa mwayi wokhala ndi zolaula, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo amalandira kukhutira ndi zomwezo. Chinthu chachikulu sikuti mudzidzipusitse nokha ndipo musayime pomwepo, chifukwa kuyesera nthawi zina kumabweretsa zotsatira zosadziŵika, chimodzi mwa izo chingakhale chilakolako choyembekezera kwa nthaŵi yaitali.