Amuna ndi zolengedwa zokongola. Ndipo ngakhalenso ngati mkazi wawo akuphika monga mphika weniweni, amalerera ana ndi kumakhutiritsa munthu pabedi, sizikutanthauza kukhutira kwathunthu ndi moyo wa banja. Ngati mkazi sakondwera kwambiri ndi kugonana, mwamuna si vuto chabe, koma vuto lenileni ... Kodi wina angapewe bwanji?
Nthawi zambiri, kudandaula ndi abwenzi zokhudzana ndi moyo wa banja, amuna amanena kuti mkazi sankadziwa chisangalalo cha kugonana! Ndizirombo zosayenera bwanji mu uthenga uwu! Monga, ndine wokondeka kwambiri, ndipo iye ... Wopambana bwanji!
N'zomvetsa chisoni kuti mu moyo uno palibe chimene chimaperekedwa kokha - chifukwa zonse ndi zofunika ngati sichilipira, ndiye kulimbana. Ndipo ngati mkazi wokondedwa sakondwera kwambiri ndi kugonana, ndi bwino kulingalira momwe amachitira ndi chifukwa chake zimachitika.
Zifukwa zazikulu
Amanena kuti amuna ali okonzeka kuchita chilichonse kuti okondedwa awo akhale osangalala. Ndi choncho. Iwo ali okonzeka kuyendetsa chisangalalo mwa iwo mwa mphamvu - koma ichi ndi vuto lalikulu kwa amuna. Ndi zopanda phindu kugwiritsira ntchito njira yamunthu komwe amayi amatha kusokoneza, kusowa, kudzichepetsa n'kofunika. Ndipo kawirikawiri izi ndi zomwe zimathandiza kuthetsa kugonana, osati khama.
- Dinani pa batani kuti mutenge zotsatira!
Chimodzi mwa zolakwa zazikulu za amuna omwe akuyesera kupereka chisangalalo cha kugonana kwa mkazi wake. Akuyesera kupeza "malo osokoneza bongo" kapena amagwiritsira ntchito madiresi achitatu omwe amafunika kukhala okhudzidwa ndi chidziwitso.
Palibe kugonana sikungakhale kodzaza, ngati kungathe kufotokozedwa ndi ndondomekoyi. Maminiti makumi awiri - kutsogolo koresses, kugompsana khumi, kugonana kwaokha ... Kapena kupotoka, kutembenuka ...
Chinsinsi: molondola komanso mosasinthasintha pa kafukufuku. Kwa amayi ambiri, zosangalatsa za kugonana sizidalira kuwonetsetsa, ndipo mosiyana - kutuluka mofulumira sikukutanthauza chisangalalo cha kugonana.
- Zithunzi zamkuntho
Amuna amaganiza zogonana kwambiri. Kodi iwo adzachita bwanji, muzochitika zotani, mkazi wokondedwa adzavekedwa bwanji ... Koma, mwatsoka, maloto a masewera omwe akugwedeza ndi amayi atatu a Asiatic ndi mkazi sangathe kuwonetsedwa. Ndipo ngakhale chochitika choterocho chikachitika - ndimapereka chitsimikizo, bamboyo adzatsiriza kale kusiyana ndi kugonana kumayamba!
Chinsinsi: Amuna sayenera kuopseza okondedwa awo. Ngati mwamuna amatsuka momwe angakonde pomwe pano kumbuyo kwa tchire, kapena pamalo ena apadera, kuyang'ana kuwala kapena nthawi yomweyo kuyang'ana filimu yoipa - izi sizikutanthawuza kuti zolemba zowonongeka "ndizoyenera kuphedwa, ndipo pakalipano!"
- Patsani malo ... chilakolako!
Monga nkhondo yabwino, chilakolako chimatenga nthawi, malo ndi kulingalira. Ndipo ngati mwamunayo amamukakamiza kuti agone naye maminiti angapo izi zisanachitike, ndipo asanafike usiku wonse amamuvutitsa ndi zonena - mkazi samasangalala kwambiri ndi kugonana. Ngakhale iye ali wa virtuoso, acrobat ndi wokonda nzeru kwambiri.
Otsatira ambiri "ogwira ntchito" ogonana - ana mu chipinda chotsatira (ngakhale akugona), akukhala ndi makolo awo, akuthamanga (mwachitsanzo, kufunika kothawira kwinakwake theka la ora).
Chinsinsi: Banja lirilonse liyenera kuganiza mozama momwe angagwiritsire ntchito nthawi, malo, komanso, nthawi yogonana. Zochita zowonongeka, ndithudi, ndi zosangalatsa, koma ngati zonse zilipo kwa iwo, osati mosiyana.
Physiology
Kusemphana ndi malamulo a chilengedwe ndi zovuta. Ndipo ngati vaginja aakazi ali pafupi ndi anus, zimakhala zovuta kuti iye azisangalala pamalo omwe amakhalapo (amishonale). Mofananamo, ziribe kanthu momwe akunenera kuti "kukula sikulibe kanthu," ngati munthu amene ali ndi ulemu wonyansa, ndibwino kugwiritsa ntchito zipangizo zamakono kuti asamuvulaze mkazi wake mukutentha kwa chilakolako.
Kwa gulu lirilonse - lingaliro lake
Mabanja omwe akhala pamodzi zaka zambiri amatha kuthetsa vuto labwino la mkazi pa nkhani yogonana. Nthawi zina, mwamuna akhoza kusankha kuti: "Mkazi ndi wa nyumba, ndipo zosangalatsa zakuthupi kumeneko zimanyengerera." Ziri zovuta kunena ngati chisankho ichi n'cholondola kapena choyenera. Koma ndi.
Ndiponso, kugonana kwa mkazi kungakhale gawo la "conjugal duty", ntchito inayake (nthawi zina - ntchito). Izi sizowonongeka ngati zikhoza kuoneka poyamba. Kugonana monga njira yolankhulira munthu kuti amamukonda, kulemekezedwa (ngakhale ngati sakufunidwa mpaka kugwedezeka pa mawondo ake) ali ndi ufulu wokhalapo.
Koma pali njira yachitatu, yaitali kwambiri. Kukula mu chikhumbo cha mkazi kuti mwamuna wake, "phunzitsani" malingaliro ake ndi kugonana, akuphunzitseni momwe mungasangalalire ndi kugonana. Ndipo mwa munthu ameneyu amuthandiza kuleza mtima, kuyang'anitsitsa pa hafu yake komanso mosamala, kulemekeza za kugonana kwake. Ndipo izi, ndikukhulupirirani ine, sizingatheke kwa amuna 100%. Koma njirayi "yokhayokha" imatha kuthandizira ukwati pamlingo wapatali, kuti pakhale kusweka ngati pali mavuto aliwonse.
Mmene mungadzutse chikhumbo mwa mkazi wake?
Wandolo wamatsenga amene amakwaniritsa chilakolako chimodzi, salipo, monganso Santa Claus. Choncho, nkofunika kuyesa, kuti mkaziyo amafunadi kugonana.
Zinthu zotsutsana pazimenezi ndizochepa. Kuchokera ku makoma osamveka bwino mpaka fungo lochokera pakamwa pamakonda (mwa ena onse) munthuyo. Ndizotheka kunena ndi msinkhu wochuluka kuti mwinamwake zinthu izi ndizosafunikira kwenikweni kusiyana ndi ukalamba. Okalamba timakhala, poyang'ana kwambiri dziko lapansi, komanso wina ndi mzake.
Chinthu choyamba kusamalira banja ndikutulukira zinthu zosayenera ndi kuzichotsa pamaso pa kugonana. Kusamba, chitseko chatsekedwa, chinsinsi, nyimbo zowala (kapena kusowa kwake, ngati kukhumudwitsa), male stripe or frank conversation ...
Gawo lotsatira ndi kuwuka kwa zowawa . Khungu ndi chiwalo chachikulu cha munthu. Koma pa nthawi yomweyi zinthu zathupi (zovala zomwe timavala ngakhale pakhomo) ndi maganizo (kulera) zingasokoneze chidziwitso cha lingaliro. Pumulani ndi kumverera, kusangalala, osati kupweteka chifukwa chokhudzidwa - ndizofunika kuti mkazi azisangalala ndi kugonana.
Zomwe zimayendera zokhudzana ndi kugonana - gawo lomaliza la kubwerera kwa chilakolako chogonana kuchokera kwa mkazi wake. Ndi bwino kuyesa kwambiri, kuyesera, kutaya manyazi ndi chikhulupiriro chonyenga. Ndikofunika kuti banjali lipeze chinthu chomwe chimakondweretsa onse, osati kwa mwamuna. Ndipo ngati mwamuna amasamala ngati wokondedwa wakeyo amapeza chisangalalo, amapeza mphamvu kuti atenge nthaŵi ndi kuyesera.