Lucky mwayi

Pafupi aliyense wa ife azindikira kuti anthu ena ali opusa mwayi, pamene ena amalephera. Mmodzi wa ife amatsata chimwemwe mochuluka monga ngati atagwira pamwamba pa cornucopia, kwa ena ndi amayi oyembekezera omwe amapereka zinyenyeswazi za chimwemwe. Kwenikweni, mphamvu ya otchedwa mwayi - mwadzidzidzi, momwe mavuto onse amakonzedwa popanda khama, ndi negligible. Ndizoti anthu ena amatha kugwiritsira ntchito zochitika ndikudziwa momwe angapindulire pazochita zilizonse, pamene ena amakonda kukhala osatetezeka ndipo akuyembekeza kuti tsiku lina padzakhala madalitso osiyanasiyana. Ngati mwasintha kusintha moyo wanu kuti mukhale bwino, koma simukudziwa kumene mungayambe, mvetserani malangizo osavuta a iwo omwe apindula kale.

1. Monga aliyense.
Palibe amene amakonda mawu akuti "monga aliyense", koma, chodabwitsa, sikuti aliyense ali wokonzeka kutuluka pakati pa anthu ambiri. Kukhala ngati chirichonse ndiko kukhala wosawoneka. Koma kodi anthu omwe ali pafupi nafe ndi oipa kwambiri? Ndipotu, ambiri a ife, pafupifupi munthu aliyense ali ndi luso lapadera komanso luso lomwe lingapangidwe, lomwe liri ndi chiyembekezo chabwino ndipo limatha kupambana. Choncho, mawu akuti "Ndili ngati wina aliyense" angatanthauzenso zowonjezereka, komanso amalimbikitsa chiyembekezo chachikulu - onse ali ndi luso, ndipo inenso ndikutero. Inde, sikuti aliyense amakhala wophunzira, koma aliyense akhoza kukhala munthu wopambana.

2. Fufuzani nokha.
Anthu ambiri samayesetsa kuti asinthe miyoyo yawo, osati chifukwa samakhulupirira kuti ali ndi luso, koma chifukwa sakudziwa ngati ali nawo, ndipo ngati pali-omwe ali ofunikira kukula miyoyo yawo yonse? Ndipotu, ochepa chabe amabadwa ndipo amamvetsetsa - Ndidzakhala wojambula wabwino. Ndipo ngakhale kukula, anthu kawirikawiri amakhala otsimikiza kuti akuchita chinthu chokha choyenera. Ndipo komabe, inu mukhoza kupeza. Kawirikawiri anthu ali ndi maluso angapo, maluso omwe amawathandiza kupanga chinachake cha khalidwe. Ziribe kanthu kuti ndi zotani - mungathe kuchita nawo ndondomeko kapena kuimba. Koma phunziro limodzi lidzabweretsa chisangalalo chochuluka, chimodzi mwa izo chidzalimbikitsa chikhulupiriro kuti chipambane, chimodzi mwa luso limeneli chidzachititsa chikhumbo kubwerera kuntchito yoteroyo mobwerezabwereza. Mwinamwake uwu ndi ntchito yomweyi, yomwe ndi yoyenera kupereka moyo.

3. Njira yake.
Pofuna kupambana, pali chiyeso chachikulu chotsatira njira ya munthu wina ku cholinga chawo. Timayang'ana zopambana za anthu ena, ndipo mosaganizira timachita zofanana, zomwe zikutanthauza zolakwa zomwezo. Chinthu chachilendo ndi chinthu chodabwitsa chomwe sichikhoza kuchotsedwa. Koma, pakufanizira moyo wa munthu, mumapita njira yakufa yomwe wina adadutsa, koma kwa inu muli msewu waumwini - wopepuka ndi wamfupi. Choncho, musamangokhalira kutsanzira zosankha za anthu ena, kupindula, koma mutisiye nokha mwayi wokonza bwino ndikuchita mwanjira yanu, kotero kuti mukwaniritse bwino mufupikitsa nthawi.

4. Zovuta.
Aliyense amadziwa kuti zonse zimayenda bwino pakati pa omwe sachita chilichonse. Ngati mwasankha kuti musinthe chinachake pamoyo wanu - kupeza ntchito yatsopano, mupume, mulembe kalata, konzekerani, ndiye zina zotsutsa ndi zovuta zingathe kuchitika. Ndikofunika kusintha kwa zotsatira ndikukonzekera zomwe ziyenera kugwira ntchito. Izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala ndi chidaliro mu mphamvu zanu kapena kuti mudzapeza mipata yothetsera vutoli. Sikofunika kuti mumange pepala lanulo, makamaka ngati mulibe luso loyenera, koma mukakonzanso, muyenera kutsimikiza kuti mungathe kukonza akatswiri ndikupeza ndalama za izi. Pankhaniyi, mudzakhala ndi zotsatira zabwino.
Ngati mumasintha mfundo yakuti pokhudzana ndi kusintha mukuyembekezera mavuto ambiri, mwinamwake, mavuto ndi zotsatira zosadziŵika, palibe chabwino chomwe chidzabwere. Mwina inu munayambitsa bizinesi yomwe si ili kwa inu panthawiyi, kapena muli ndi maganizo olakwika. Simungathe kudzikaniza kudziko lapansi, kukhala womenyera nkhondo, pamene dziko silinapange kayendetsedwe kamodzi kwa inu kapena inu. Chinthu chirichonse chiyenera kuyambika mwakachetechete, molimba mtima komanso ndi maganizo abwino, koma pokhapokha padzakhala bwino.

Malamulo osavutawa angamawoneke ngati oletsedwa, koma anthu ochepa okha amawagwiritsa ntchito pamoyo weniweniwo. Kawirikawiri anthu amamvera zochitika ndipo amakana kutenga udindo wawo pa miyoyo yawo. Ndizosavuta kunena - sindingathe, si kwa ine, ndizovuta kwambiri, ndilibe talente ndikukhalabe, ndikudandaula za tsogolo. Iwo omwe adakhulupirira okha ndi kutenga mapazi awo kwa iwo okha, atenge zonse zomwe akufuna pamoyo wawo. Ena onse amakakamizidwa kuti ayende pamapeto. Kodi malo ako ali kuti - ndi kwa iwe.