Mwinamwake, aliyense wa ife nthawi imodzi anafunsa funso: chifukwa chiyani tikusowa chipembedzo, chifukwa chikupitilirabe mmagulu? Pali kutanthauzira kotere: ndikufotokozera zosadziwika; ndi kuti anthu amvetse bwino zomwe zikuchitika kwa iwo m'dziko lovuta lino; komanso kuti athetsere mantha osiyanasiyana ... Koma n'zotheka kuti chimodzi mwa zifukwa zofunikira kwambiri m'maganizo ndi chakuti chipembedzo sichilola kuti anthu asatayike, ataya chikhulupiriro, azikhala ndi moyo mwachinyengo. Kufooka ndi chabe kusonyeza kusalemekeza mphatso yamtengo wapatali kwambiri, ine ndikutanthauza moyo. Timapatsidwa moyo - kodi ichi si chifukwa chokhalira osangalala? Chabwino, ngati chirichonse chinali chophweka! Kuchokera pa nkhope zathu, sipadzakhala kumwetulira. Mfundo yakuti moyo wokha ndi chifukwa chabwino chokondwerera, musaiwale tsiku lililonse, ndipo nthawi zina osati mwezi uliwonse. Izi ndizowoneka bwino, zokhalapo. Kodi mukuganiza kuti kunyozedwa kwakukulu kwa anthu omwe kale anali Soviet komanso kuvomerezana kwabwino kwa anthu a kumadzulo kwa Africa ndi mbali za maganizo aumwini kapena chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe cha anthu? M'malo mwa chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe. Mwinamwake mwazindikira kuti posachedwa, takhala tikugwedezeka, mtima wabwino, wopanda vuto. Komabe, kutsanzira miyambo ya chikhalidwe, kuwonetsa zosaoneka - zabodza ndi zachilendo. Aliyense amakumbukira kutentha kwakukulu kwa chilimwe. Mu Julayi, ndinayang'ana nkhani pa TV ndipo ndinadabwa: Mzimayiyo akuwuza mtolankhani kuti banja lake limalepheretsa kutentha, kuti mwanayo, munthu yemwe ali ndi chifuwa chachikulu, amadzikweza, kupweteka kumadzudzula ... Ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo amamwetulira, amamukhululukira, ndikumusangalatsa . Zinali zoonekeratu kuti iye adatsitsa milomo yake kutsogolo kwa kamera chifukwa adaphunzira: kunali koyenera kumwetulira. Izi ndizotchuka lero. Chokhumudwitsa n'chakuti ife, anthu a Soviet, tikufuna kuwoneka osangalala ngati alendo, samadzigwirizanitsa okha ndi vutoli. Ndipo mwa njira yomweyi timatayika umunthu, monga momwe timayesera kufotokoza za kupambana kwathu kwa masamba ndi mazana asanu ndi mazana mamita a infield ndi mawu ovuta kwambiri.
Kodi ndikumvetsetsa bwanji momwe zimakhalira - monga kwathunthu kunyalanyaza lamulo la kubisala zoipa zawo za mzimu, ndikutsatira mwakachetechete? Ndibwino. Bwerani ndi mandimu ku phwando - chizindikiro cha kusagwirizana ndi chikhalidwe. Ndipo kunena ndi kumwetulira kwakukulu pa chinthu china chovuta, vuto - ndi chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe. Pazochitika zonsezi, khalidwe ndilololera. Zimasonyeza kuti munthu sangathe kuthana ndi maganizo ake. Sitiyenera kufooketsa malingaliro anu kuti muganize chithunzi kuchokera ku ofesi yamakono: mabotolo odzaza matupi otukumula, nthawi zosatha, misonkhano ... Kodi tingathe bwanji kusintha maganizo athu pazifukwa izi? Inde, ndiye inde, tikukhala ndi mavuto aakulu. Kotero, momwe mungaphunzire kukondwera ndi moyo kwa munthu amene sachita zinthu za uzimu, koma nthawi imodzi "osayenda m'mimba", koma chidwi ndi zomwe zimamuchitikira iye ndi chifukwa chake? Kodi mungakhale bwanji munthu wamba yemwe akufuna kukhala wokondwa? Ndipotu, m'magazini ino, akatswiri a zamaganizo a masiku ano adatenga udindo wa ansembe kapena ophunzitsa makhalidwe: amaphunzitsa anthu kwa maganizo a momwe angadziyendetsere okha, kunena kuti: "Tengani mpweya, imitsani mpweya wanu, muwerenge khumi, dziwani nokha: zonse ziri bwino "... Kapena amandiuza kuti ndidzipatse lamulo:" Ndikudziwa choti ndichite. Ndili ndi vutoli. " Njira zofanana ndizopachiyambi zowonjezera malemba, mawonekedwe a kuchepetsa. Kapena ayi: amapereka kudziwonetsera okha, ngati kuti mukulingalira zomwe zili pamwamba, kuchokera ku diso la mbalame. Nthawi zina zimathandiza, koma nthawi zambiri mumavomereza, mabungwe awa amawoneka opanda pake komanso opanda pake.
Ndikuvomereza! Pambuyo pa zonse, nthawi zambiri timafunika kukhala nawo pambaliyi, ndipo sitiyenera kuchotsedwapo.
Chiyero ndi chowonekera! Ndipotu, kuthawa ndege nthawi zonse kumakhala kovuta, ngakhale kwa anthu omwe sanathenso kuopsezedwa. Ndipo oyang'anira akuyenera kumwetulira - moona mtima, osati mwachinyengo, akuyenera kutulutsa mtima wabwino, kudalira kuti zonse zikuchitika momwe ziyenera kukhalira. Apo ayi, thupi lawo labwino limakhala pansi pa funso lalikulu. Mukuwona, muzochitika zozizira-kaya ndi phwando, kuthawa ndege, ulendo wa nyumba zakale kapena kukambirana mkangano - ndikofunikira kuti ife tikumva mtundu wina waumodzi. Chimodzimodzinso ndi malo a ofesi. Ngakhale maofesi a zamakono amakonzedwanso pamsinkhu wa nyenyezi zisanu, ma air conditioners amatha kugwira ntchito, matelefoni amalira pang'onopang'ono, makina odzipereka amapereka espresso yabwino kwambiri - komabe palibe kuthawa kwa mavuto ndi mavuto. Choncho, nkofunika kukumbukira: ngati mulibe luso lapadera, musayerekeze kuti mukutha kuchita izi. Ndikhoza kufanizira kufotokozera. Ndi chinthu chimodzi choti mutenge pansi pa madzi mamita atatu, ndipo kenanso - patatha makumi atatu. Kuda nkhawa, monga makulidwe a madzi, simukuphwanyidwa, musamadziwe pansi. Ngati simungathe kulamulira mkhalidwewu (kuya, mphamvu yamkuntho, kutalika kwa mawonekedwe), ndiye kuti, mutaganizira zonse, nthawizonse mumatha kusankha mamita angapo omwe mungakwanitse kudzidzimutsa mumkhalidwe uwu. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, mwa lingaliro langa, kumvetsa kuti pali zochitika zomwe munthu sangathe kuchita popanda mkuntho ndi kumizidwa kwakukulu. Munthu sangathe, makamaka, kukhulupirira kuti mungathe kupambana, mwachitsanzo, m'munda wa milandu, popanda kulowerera mkangano woopsa kapena kupeĊµa vuto lalikulu. Tiyeni titenge loya yemwe akufuna kuti apambane. Ngati amapewa mphepo yamkuntho, angawathandize motani? Kotero izo zidzakhala ziri mu madzi osaya kuti azisonkhanitsa nsomba ... Zoona, nthawizina zochitika zimatipangitsa ife kukula, ndi ngakhale kumaliza kugonjera, kuvomereza kwa maganizo. Ndipereka chitsanzo. Mwinamwake mwawonapo kangapo pa nyanja, okwera maulendo athandizidwa pa "banana". Mukudziwa mu chiyani? Bwato limasintha kwambiri, "nthochi" imatha - aliyense ali m'madzi. Ndinawona momwe "abwenzi" osamvera adagonjera nthochi. Ena onse anali kusangalala, kugwa ngati nkhumba zonenepa, kuphulika, ndipo bambo wovuta anali kugwira chigwiriro chakufa, kuyesera kutsimikizira chinachake kwa wina. Kwa ndani ndi chiyani? Izi ndi zomwe ndikuzinena: Ngati mukumva kuti muli muyeso pomwe muyenera kuvomereza malamulo a masewera - ndipo mutengere zotsatira, sikungathe kusambira motsutsana ndi zamakono, zomwe zili zolimba kuposa inu.
Kodi chibadwa cha chibadwa chimakhudza bwanji kusangalala ndi moyo? Posachedwa, nthawi ndi nthawi mumakumana ndi nkhani zokhudzana ndi kutsegula kwa "geni losangalala" - amati, ngati amayi kapena abambo ali nawo, ndiye kuti mwanayo akuyang'ana mwachidwi padziko lapansi. Kodi akatswiri a maganizo amalingalira chiyani izi? Posachedwa ndinayang'ana pulogalamu yodziwika bwino ya wojambula TV ku Russia, dzina lake Alexander Gordon, ponena za kuwonetsa anthu. Mlendo wa pulogalamuyo, Vladimir Zhirinovsky, adalengeza chikhumbo chake chokhala ndi ma clones angapo - monga olimbika ndi okondwa monga momwe alili. Mlendo winanso, katswiri wa sayansi ya sayansi, anakana kuti zizindikiro za Zhirinovsky sizikanakhala ndi khalidwe lake. Ndinadabwa: zinandiwoneka kuti chingwechi chiyenera kuoneka ngati "chitsime" chake ngati madontho awiri a madzi! Inde, wasayansi ali wolondola. Ndipotu, phenotype, ndiko kuti, katundu wopangidwa m'moyo, osati galasipe, imatsimikizira mtundu wa khalidwelo. Choncho palibe ma genetiki omwe angathe kufotokoza momwe tingakhalire osangalala komanso kukhalabe ndi maganizo abwino. Palibe chiwerengero cha mafupa omwe amatha kuganiza: mukudziwa, wokondedwa, muli nazo zonse zofunika kuti mukhale munthu wokondwa!
Ndipo kodi anthu ambiri ali ndi zofunikira zoterezi? Inde, onse kupatula mitundu ina ya psychopaths. Zikalata zambiri zalembedwa momwe mungafunire ndi kupeza chiyanjano, momwe mungaphunzire kusangalala ndi mphindi iliyonse, momwe mungapangire kuchuluka kovuta kwa mkati ndi kunja, momwe mungalimbikitsire nokha kupanikizika kwa maganizo ndi kumvetsa kuti nyengo yoipa sizimachitika - palibe zovala zabwino kwambiri. N'kwachibadwa kuti munthu akondwere, ngakhale panthawi yovuta, kuti asangalale ndi moyo, kuti afune zosangalatsa. Amanena kuti pali kuwala kochepa - ndicho chifukwa chake. Chonde perekani malangizo momwe mungagwirire ndi vutoli. Za dzuwa - zoona zenizeni. Pa nkhani yachisoni chochepa, nthawi zonse, mwa njirayo, siyeneranso kulimbana, makamaka ngati izi zikugwirizana ndi Pushkin "chisoni changa n'chosavuta." Ngati mukufunabe kuthetsa chisoni, kusakhutira, ndikutha kupempha kudzipenda kosavuta, komabe kotheratu. Dzifunseni nokha: kodi vuto langa likugwirizana ndi maganizo anga kwa anthu ena? Kapena ndi maganizo a anthu ena kwa ine? Ndipo mwinamwake zochitika zina ndizo zomwe zimayambitsa zonsezi? Kapena thanzi? Kapena kodi chisoni ndi chopanda nzeru? Monga lamulo, yankho likupezeka mwamsanga. Ndipo zimawonekeratu zoyenera kuchita, kuthetsa chifukwa chachisoni. Komabe, musachite mantha ndi vuto lanu - ngakhale munthu atasambira bwino, ngakhale atasambira nthawi yaitali akufuna kubisa kumbuyo kwake ndi kupumula, akugwedezeka pa mafunde. Mwina chisoni chomwe chimagwedezeka pa inu ndi kuyitana kwa thupi kuti "mubwerere," kuyang'ana kumwamba ndikutonthoza?