Yankho la funsoli ndilolondola molondola, a psychologist amalangiza kuti asayankhe mwamsanga, koma atachita zochepa zolimbitsa thupi. Tangoganizani kuti dziko loyandikana nalo latha ndipo muli mu malo osangalatsa, opangidwa ndi mtundu umodzi wokha. Ndi mtundu wanji wa khalidwe lanu - wofiira, wachikasu, ndi zina zotero. kodi mungakhale omasuka m'dziko latsopano lino? Tsopano werengani yankho!
Mtundu wa khalidwe lanu ndi wofiira kwambiri. Si chinsinsi kuti uwu ndiwo mtundu wa chilakolako, kupambana, ntchito ndi mphamvu. Ndithudi iwe ndiwe wamkulu kwambiri: umakonda moyo ndi anthu ozungulira iwe. Koma chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti chikhalidwe ndi chilakolako, chotengeka, chowala ndi chokoma. Inu mumakonda kukhala kuntchito ndi m'moyo wanu. Koma apa pali miyeso ingapo. Choyamba, iwe udzakhala mtsogoleri weniweni pa nkhani yokhayo, pamene iwe uphunzira kukhala wovuta kwambiri kuti usagonjetsedwe ndi maganizo. Ndipo kachiwiri, mu ubale ndi okondedwa, ntchito yochuluka si njira yabwino kwambiri ya khalidwe.
Choncho, mu moyo wanu, musamaope kulola zinthu kupita okha, kusiya ufulu wosankha mnzanu.
Mtundu wa khalidwe lanu ndi wopatsa wachikasu. Ngati mukufuna mtundu wachikasu ku mitundu yonse, ndiye kuti ndinu dona wamng'ono (koma osati mopitirira muyeso), wochenjera komanso wozindikira. Mukudziwa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mphamvu zanu m'njira yoyenera, kotero mu bizinesi yanu muli akatswiri. Wolowa manja (zonse zakuthupi ndi zamaganizo), kotero anthu amakopeka kwa inu, inunso, mukhoza kudalira thandizo lawo. Musati muzikangana ndi inu ndi kukonda maganizo. Amuna omwe ali ndi chilakolako chogonana cha amayi oterewa sachiphonya, kotero muli ndi mkazi wabwino kwambiri komanso palibe amene akuwombera.
Mtundu wa khalidwe lanu ndi wofiira, wachikasu, ndi zina zotero. sichiyenera, ndiye muli ndi zobiriwira. Mtundu wa chilengedwe, chilengedwe, bata. Zithunzi za mtundu wobiriwira - zokondweretsa, zowonongeka ndi kudzidalira. Mwina ndichifukwa chake amakhala opambana pa ntchito ndi chimwemwe m'miyoyo yawo. Ngati mwasankha mtundu uwu, ndiye kuti ndinu omvera kwambiri. Pawekha, simunganene chilichonse kwa anzanu apamtima ndi okondedwa anu, kukonda ndi kusangalala, ndikumva chisoni ndi kudzikuza nokha. Mwinamwake tiyenera kumasuka malirewo? Ndipotu, amanena kuti ngati mumagawana ndi okondedwa anu, izo zimaphatikizapo. Ndipo ngati mukugawana tsoka ndi mnzanu - ndi theka la vutoli.
Mtundu wa khalidwe lanu ndizojambula buluu. Mudasankha buluu? Umenewu ndiwo mtundu wa ojambula pamtundu waukulu kwambiri wa mawu awa. Mumakhala ngati maso ambiri akukuwonani nthawi zonse, ndipo nthawi zonse mukuyembekezera kuwombera. Kumbali imodzi, sizoipa, chifukwa inu mumakonda kuchita chirichonse, chifukwa chirichonse chomwe chinatengera, mwangwiro. Koma pa zina, khalani osangalala komanso mumasangalale, muyeneranso kutero. Yambani molunjika lero, chabwino? Ndipo mafani a buluu ndi okonda, okonda komanso okonda kuyenda. Kawirikawiri amakonda zinthu zonse zatsopano: amakonda kuphunzira, amakhala ndi zolaula zosiyana, mndandanda waukulu wa kulankhulana. Mwachikondi, amayi achicheperewa ndi achikondi, odzipereka komanso odzimana, ndi zovuta kupirira kupatukana ndi wokondedwa wanu
Mtundu wa khalidwe lanu umakhala wofiira nthawi. Amayi omwe amasankha bulauni, odekha, oyenerera, aulemu ndi olondola, amatha kuwunika. Iwo nthawizonse amakhala ndi dongosolo.
Winawake angawaitane kukhala ododometsa komanso osadalirika. Koma izi ndizoyambirira. "Brown" pofuna kuyesedwa ndi abwenzi abwino kwambiri omwe angathe kuika phewa pazochitika zilizonse, komanso anthu amtundu wa banja omwe amapereka chitonthozo ndi chitetezo cha achibale awo kuposa zonse.