Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa zomwe amai amakopera amuna kumoyo wa banja, ndiyeno mudziwe zomwe mukufunikira kusintha nokha kuti maubwenzi anu apabanja akhale aatali komanso osangalala.
Zolakwika kwambiri ndi amayi omwe amakhulupirira kuti kwa amuna, kusankha kwa bwenzi lomanga nalo ndizo mawonekedwe ake ndi kuyembekezera. Ndipotu, amuna amayamikira ndi kukonda mkazi, ngati ali wodzidalira, wodziimira yekha, wokoma mtima, amayesa kumvetsetsa mnzanuyo. Yesetsani nokha kuti mubweretse pafupi ndi fano la mkazi wabwino.
Kumbukirani malangizo ena omwe mungatenge monga chitsogozo.
Mwamuna nthawizonse amakhala munthu. Ndipo amasangalala kuona pafupi ndi mkazi yemwe amasamala yekha ndipo nthawizonse amawoneka bwino. Palibe chimene chimadzutsa kudzidalira kwa munthu, monga kaduka kwa ena kwa mkazi wake.
Pamodzi ndi anzanu, abwenzi kapena banja, khalani okondwa komanso okondana polankhulana. Koma, musaiwale kuti munthu wanu ndi wabwino kwambiri. Muloleni iye amvetse izi.
Kumvetsa! Pano pali chinthu chofunikira kwambiri chomwe chili chofunikira kuti ubale ukhale wolimba. Phunzirani kumvetsa mwamuna wanu kuti m'tsogolomu mulibe nthawi yovuta.
Mwamuna nthawi zonse amasangalala kuzindikira kuti mkazi wake ndi wanzeru kwambiri. Lingaliro lakuti amuna amantha ndi kupeŵa akazi opusa ndi otayika kwambiri. Ndi munthu wochenjera, nthawizonse pali chinachake chokamba. Ndipo sadzachita manyazi kutuluka ndi iwe.
Amuna amayamikira chisangalalo cha akazi.
Kuwonjezera pa wokwatirana, mwachibadwa, m'moyo wanu muli achibale, anzanu, anzanu. Koma, mwanjira ina iliyonse, musalole kuti maubwenzi omwe si achibale asokoneze malo a mwamuna wanu .
Gwirizanani, monga kukhala mkazi wabwino ndi kumanga ubale wabwino wa banja sikovuta. Koma, tafufuza makhalidwe omwe abambo amakonda amai. Ndipo nchiyani chomwe chimakwiyitsa iwo mwa ife?
Amuna ali ochepetsedwa kwambiri ndi kukopa kwa mkazi ndi abwenzi ake. Ngakhale kuti si Othello, musamangokhalira kukonda anzake. Pomwe iwe umayika mu zovuta kwambiri: mbali imodzi palibe chokhumba kukangana ndi mnzanu, pamzake - palibe chilakolako chokangana nanu. Pamene muli nonse mu kampani, musamatsutse munthu. Kwa mnzanuyo muyenera kumuthandiza ndi kumuthandiza. Siyani zomwe mumanena mpaka nthawi yomwe muli nokha.
Musamulangize pamaso pa mwamuna kuti aloŵe mu masisitima a nkhope, akuwombera tsitsi. Ndipo, mochulukirapo, sikuli koyenera kuyankhula molunjika, osati mwachindunji, kugona ndi mwamuna wanu. Kuti mudziike nokha mu dongosolo, tadzuka bwino theka la ora kale. Samalani ndi psyche wamwamuna.
Siyani yekha munthu yemwe ali ndi mafunso osatha: "Kodi mumandikonda?". Apo ayi, ndibwino kuti mwamuna wanu wofatsa ndi wosasintha adzasanduka chilombo.
Zimadziwika kuti amuna sali okonda kuyeretsa m'nyumba. Tidzakuuzani chinsinsi, kuti muyambe kuyeretsa, zomwe munayamba kumapeto kwa sabata, zimakhala zosangalatsa pang'ono.
Ndipotu, munthu akhoza kukwiyitsidwa ndi tsatanetsatane wodalirika kuchokera kumbali yako. Ndipo, ngati mwafunsa funsoli, "Kodi ubale uyenera kukhala wotani?" Ndipo khalani ndi cholinga - kukhala mkazi wabwino.
Ndiye, ndi bwino kumvetsera mzanu ndi zilakolako zake. Koma, ndipo ndidzipereka kuti musinthe nokha, siyenso. Ndipotu, mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu amakukondani monga momwe mulili. Ndipo ngati tsiku lina sakukudziwani ndipo sakonda fano lanu latsopano, ndiye ndani amadziwa zomwe ukwati wanu ungathe.