"M-inde, ndi chiyani chomwe chingasonyezedwe kudziimira kwa akazi? Kodi mungalembe chiyani mu nkhani yokhudza ufulu wa amayi? Tiyeni tiyese kukopa kuganiza kuti "
Mipukutu ya America ndi Britain inafalikira ndisanayambe kuganizira, maketoni ndi mapepala akuda miyendo yakuda, ogwira ntchito m'makombopu ofiira, pa March 8th ndi chifukwa china Angela Davis.
"Br-rr, mayanjano akukhumudwitsidwa kwambiri, kuwonjezera apo, pambuyo pa mawu oti" akazi "mwamsanga kuyanjana kumaimira" lingaliro ". Ndipo za iye kale zinthu zonse, tsoka, zalembedwa "Ndimalira ndekha pansi pa mpweya wanga, ndikukwera pa mpando wolimba wa tram. Ndiyeno, mwinamwake, molingana ndi malingaliro otchukawa azimayi awa, poyankha kudandaula kwanga, mkazi wachikulire wokhala ndi phukusi lamitundu yambiri, momwe chinachake chinagwedezeka, chinatembenukira kwa ine, chinati:
"Inu ndinu achinyamata, simudziwa za ufulu wa amayi. Mudzakhala ndi mchira wonyamula mmwamba ndikugona mpaka usiku. Evon wina, dumpling wathanzi adzakwera, adzayendetsa galimoto, ndipo ngakhale otsiriza sadzagwira ntchito. Zonsezi ndi kuyesa kukwiya ndi amayi kapena abambo, kapena kupeza swavo kwa anthu osauka. Ndipo pa foni yokha kwa madola chikwi, ndipo galu ali ndi ndalama zambiri kuposa anthu. Pano nthawi yathuyi, atsikanawo anali odzichepetsa, anagwira ntchito kuyambira ali aang'ono, kavalidwe kodzikongoletsera pa nthawi yomwe analipo, ankangotenga, kuti azikhala zolemetsa kwa makolo. Ndinagwira ntchito m'migodi ngati wogwira ntchito nyali kuyambira zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi, ndikugwira ntchito ku hostel, mkazi wokwatiwa kale. Nthaŵi zina, ngakhale pamaso, zinatsika, zida zoposa ziŵiri zogwiritsira ntchito zipangizo sizinali zovuta kwambiri kuposa anthu osauka. "
"Kotero, mu malingaliro anu," ine ndinapempha, kuti ndizingoyenda pang'ono ndi mawu otsekemera a mawu, "kodi kudziimira kwa akazi kumadziwonetsera nokha kukhoza kudzipatsa yekha ndalama?"
"Ndiyeno momwe. Kugwira ntchito, osati poipa kuposa anthu osauka, komanso nthawi zina. Kuti apeze zambiri, kuti ana ndi mwamuna anali okwanira. Mwadzidzidzi, palibe amene angapemphe ndalama. Kunyada kumayenera kukhala nako, kunyada. "
"Ponena za ntchito ndikuvomerezana nanu pamlingo wina" mwadzidzidzi mkazi wazaka makumi anayi, ali ndi tsitsi lalifupi, atayambitsidwa tsitsi, adalankhula zokhazokha mu chovala cha cashmere, "koma za momwe angadyetse mwamuna wa tizilombo, kenako nkuchotsa. Ndasudzulana ndendende chifukwa chakuti wosadziwa komanso nyumbayo siinagwire chala chala changa, ndipo ndinasiya ntchito yanga. Kwa masiku onse sanatengepo ndi sofa yamzanga yazinayi ina, anagona ndipo adadzuka ndi TV kutalika kwake ... "Mkazi wa blond anavunda nkhope yake ndi kunyansidwa.
"Ndipo kwa inu, kodi mawu a ufulu wa amayi ndi otani?" Ndinayesetsa mwamsanga kuti ndichotsere kukambirana kwa anthu aulesi, majeremusi, majeremusi ndi amuna ena onga iwo.
"Ndikuganiza kuti ndizoonekeratu," anayankha motsogoleredwa ndi manyazi, "Ine, mwachitsanzo, ndakhala ndikulerera mwana wanga wamkazi zaka khumi ndi ziwiri ndekha, ndikumupatsa iyeyo ndekha. Kudziimira payekha kwa amai kuyenera kuwonetsedwa kuti asakhale wopanda munthu, pamene akukhala wopanda pake, ngati sutikesi popanda chogwiritsira ntchito "
"Ine ndikuwona. Zikomo kwambiri! "Nditamaliza kukambirana ndikukwera pang'ono kwa anthu osokonezeka, ndinadumpha kuchokera kumbali ...
Ndinafunsa kuti, "Amayi, mukuganiza?" Ndinadandaula kuti, kudalira pakhomo la chitseko, "kukhala mkazi wodziimira kumatanthauza kukhala munthu wonyenga, kukhala ndi ufulu wofanana ndi munthu kapena kukhala ndi mwayi wokhala wopanda munthu nkomwe?"
"Chabwino, zonse zomwe mwazinena ndikutanthauzira kophweka kwa lingaliro ili." Amayi akumwetulira, ataima pa mphika, "Kuti ukhale mkazi iwe sayenera kukhala wotsutsa-mwamuna osati munthu wonyenga, iwe uyenera kukhala uli wekha, osati wina. Choyenera kwa mkazi ndi ufulu wofanana ndi mwamuna, pambuyo pake ngati mukufuna ufulu wofanana kulandira ntchito zofanana - mwachitsanzo, kuti mutumikire kunkhondo kapena kuti mukhale nkhondo. Mwamuna ndi mkazi adalengedwa mosiyana, safunikira kuti adziyanjanitsane kuti akhalepo mogwirizana. Kudziimira nokha, amayi ndi abambo, ndi ufulu wakudzisankhira kuti mukakhale monga mukufunira. Ufulu udzasintha dziko lozungulira nokha pamene mukufuna. Chifuniro chanu, chomwe Mulungu adalenga momasuka monga mphepo. Tsopano ndithandizeni ndikuyika tebulo, kapena posachedwa papa adzabwera. "