Yesetsani kulingalira chifukwa chomwe mumawakonda akuwombera kumbali inayo. Mwinamwake inu mwasiya kumukweza iye pa kama. Kumbukirani pamene inu ndi mwamuna wanu munali ndi chiwerewere chokwanira pa nthawi yotsiriza? Ambiri amamakonda kugonana ndipo amakhumudwa akamakanidwa ndi chikondi komanso chikondi. Mwinamwake mbuye wanu ankachita ndi mwamuna wanu yemwe sali woyenera kugonana (oral sex, zomwe simungavomereze mwa mtundu uliwonse).
Ngati mumakonda mwamuna wanu, kukoma kwa mbolo yake kukupatsani chisangalalo. Ngati mumakonda kwambiri mwamuna wanu, nthawi zonse mumakonda kumukondweretsa. Munthu aliyense amalota mobisa kwa wokondedwa wake akunyengerera tambala. Ntchitoyi imapatsa chisangalalo chosangalatsa kwa amuna ambiri. Yesetsani kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake chinali kupatukana, kuyeza zonse zomwe zimapindulitsa. Musadandaule kuti mwamuna wanu achoka. Izo sizikutanthawuza chirichonse. Ngati mwangoyamba kusintha chinachake mwa inu nokha, mumalingaliro anu pa kugonana, kwa mwamuna wanu, mukhoza kubwerera ku malo amodzi. Kwa okondedwa wanu ali mmbuyo, kambiranani ndi mwamuna wanu momwe adasankha kukupezerani m'malo. Kodi ali bwino kuposa iwe pabedi? Amaphika bwino? Kodi mwamuna wanu ali ndi zofuna zambiri? Kupusa. Mutha kukonzanso ubwenzi wanu ngati mutsegula wokonda ndi mbali yatsopano. Palibe munthu amene sangagone ndi mkazi yemwe ali ndi khitchini. Ngati muli ndi ana, mukufunikira kuthana ndi zoleredwa. Komabe, izi siziyenera kukhala phindu lanu, banja lanu losangalala.
Mtsikana aliyense mwachilengedwe ndi wokongola komanso wapadera. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndicho kudziphunzitsa nokha. Inu, motsimikiza, mukudziwa momwe kulili kofunika kwambiri kuti mutumikire msuzi pazomwezo. Pitani kwa katswiri wamasewero, yesani zovala, yambani kudzikonda nokha. Sizimene anthu amanena: "Dzikondane nokha, ndipo anthu amakukondani." Ngati simukudalira nokha, mu mphamvu zanu, zomwe muyenera kuyembekezera kuchokera kwa mwamuna wanu kuti abwerere.
Zoonadi, mbuye wanu ali ndi luso pa masewera achikondi, koma muli ndi mphamvu zambiri zomwe muyenera kuzigwiritsa ntchito kuti muthandize. Limbani kuti mukhale osangalala. Ngati mwakhala ndi wokondedwa wanu kwa zaka zopitirira chaka chimodzi, musalole kuti mayi aliyense adzigwedeze payekha. Chikondi chenicheni ndi chimene chadutsa moto ndi madzi, ndi mapaipi amkuwa. Chikondi ndi chophweka kwambiri kuwononga ndi kutaya. Ndikovuta kwambiri kupulumutsa ndi kubwezeretsa.
Pofuna kuti wokondedwayo abwerere, khalani ndi mphamvu yakukhululukira kupha mwamuna wake. Malingana ndi chiwerengero, munthu aliyense wachiwiri mu moyo wake osintha kamodzi mkazi wake. Yesani kuwona izi mwazinthu zabwino. Kuti mwamuna wanu abwerere, yesetsani kumukhumudwitsa. Funsani mnzanu wapamtima kuti ayambe kukonda kwambiri, omwe akazi onse ndi openga. Mwamunayo akangomvetsetsa amene wataya, adzakumbukiranso kuti abwerere kwa inu. Kukondedwa kudzabwerera. Ngati chifukwa cha ukwati muli ndi ana, ayenera kukugwirizaninso ndi osankhidwa anu. Khalani ndikuwonetsa kuti machitidwe ambiri omwe sangathe kukonza sangathe kukonza zokongoletsera kunyumba, amangolemedwa ndi lingaliro. Amakonda kwambiri kuchotsa ndalama mwa amuna, koma zimakhala zovuta kuti apeze ntchito zabwino zapakhomo. Amayi awa nthawi zambiri amaganiza za ana, chifukwa Sadziwa chikhalidwe cha banja.
Ngati razluchnitsa yanu ikugwera, ndiye kuti posachedwa mwamuna wanu adzabwerera ku "malo okhala" ndipo adzafuula ndi misozi m'maso mwanu kuti akukhululukire chifukwa cha zopusa, zopusa. Khalani wochenjera kuposa mwamuna wanu. Mkazi wanzeru nthawi zonse amapeza mphamvu yakukhululukira wosakhulupirira. Musalole kukhumudwa kwa ambuye. Yesetsani chidwi ndi okondedwa anu, mumusangalatse, ndipo wokondedwa wanu abwerere. Yambani kudzisintha nokha, ndipo wokondedwa wanu adzabwereranso kwa inu nthawi zonse. Mwina ndi kwanzeru kupewa kulankhula kwa wina ndi mzake kwa nthawi ndithu. Pang'onopang'ono, malingaliro amatha, ndipo wokondedwa wanu amvetsetsa kuchuluka kwake komwe adataya mwa kukambirana ndi mkazi wina. Akatswiri ambiri amaganizo amalingalira, zifukwa zomwe zimapangitsa amuna kuchita chigololo ndizokulu.
Makamaka, ngati sakumverera ngati caress ndi chifundo, amayamba kuvutika maganizo. Munthu aliyense akufuna kukhala ndi zabwino kumbuyo, zomwe amakonda. Ngati sakumverera kuti amamukonda kwambiri, amamukakamiza kupeza chitonthozo pabedi la mbuyake. Kodi mukufunadi zonyansa kuti muwononge zonse zomwe mwamanga ndizovuta? Zikatero, yesetsani kupeza chimwemwe chanu, kugwiritsa ntchito chiwawa ngati mukufunikira. Monga akunena, "mu nkhondo njira zonse ndi zabwino". Pewani chimwemwe chanu mpaka mutapuma, musalole kuti aliyense asokoneze chimwemwe chanu. Kwa okondedwa anu abwerere, mumutsimikizire kuti palibe wina wabwino koposa inu ndipo simungakhoze kukhala, yesetsani kuchita chirichonse pa izi. Muzimupangitsa kukhulupirira kuti sangathe kupeza wina wabwino koposa iwe. Mupangitse nsanje ndipo posachedwa simudzazindikira momwe wokondedwa wanu adzakupatsanso mphatso zambiri, kumwetulira kwake kokoma, chifundo, chilakolako, chikondi. Ndi chikondi komanso kugonana komwe munthu amadzipeza yekha. Muzikondana ndi wokondedwa wanu mwa inu nokha, ndipo mukumvetsa kuti chikondi ndi kugonana ndizosangalatsa. Chikondi ndi kukondedwa !!!