Chigamulo 1.
Lankhulani mpaka mapeto.
Azimayi ambiri pazifukwa zina amakhulupirira kuti abambo ayenera kumvetsa kuchokera ku theka la mawu ndikuganiziranso zomwe akunena momveka bwino. Nthawi zina mfundo zofunika zomwe wokondedwa ayenera kuzidziwa sizibisika kuchokera ku zolinga zoipa, koma kuchokera ku chisokonezo. Zinthu zina zomwe timazitenga mopepuka ndipo sitinena za iwo mokweza. Ndipo mwamtheradi!
Ngati simukufuna kuti phokoso lazinthu zowonongeka likhale pakati panu, lankhulani zonse mpaka kumapeto. Ndi bwino kuuza munthu choonadi kusiyana ndi kumusiya yekha ndi malingaliro omwe angamutsogolere kutali ndi choonadi.
Ngati mumapita kwinakwake ndi abwenzi, ndipo mwamunayo amakhala kunyumba, musakhale waulesi kwambiri kuti mumuchenjeze, mu kampani iti, komwe mumapita komanso kutalika kwake. Izi ndizo kwa inu Yudasi - wongophunzira naye basi, ndipo kwa mwamuna wanu akhoza kukhala wotsutsana ngati simukuyankhula.
Chigamulo chachiwiri.
Dziwani momwe mungayankhulirane.
Mwinamwake mukudziwa kale kuti amuna alibe chosowa chachikulu cholankhulana, monga amayi. Inde. pali mauthenga ochezera, koma pali ochepa mwa iwo. Munthu wamba amakhala osungidwa m'mawu onse komanso m'mawu amodzi. Choncho, kungakhale kulakwitsa kwakukulu kuyesera kulankhula ndi mwamuna ngati sakufuna kuyankhulana.
Izi ndi zofunika kwambiri ngati mwamunayo ali wotanganidwa kuthetsa vuto lina lalikulu. Kotero iwo akukonzekera kuti akhoza kuchita chinthu chimodzi chokha pa nthawi. Kotero_kapena alumali yatsopano, kapena kuyankhula kwa mtima ndi mtima.
Ngati mwadzidzidzi mukufuna kulankhula, funsani ngati theka lanu lachiwiri liri ndi zinthu zofunika kwambiri. Lankhulani mutu womwe mukufuna kuyankhula nawo, popeza anthu samakonda zokambirana zopanda kanthu. Nthawi zina amatha kuvala ndi inu pa chilichonse ndi chirichonse, koma sangathe kuzikonda ngati zokambiranazo zikhale maziko a kuyankhulana kwanu.
Yesetsani kusankha nthawi yomwe inu nonse muli chete, osakhala otanganidwa komanso okonzekera kukambirana, makamaka ngati sikulankhulana mwachizolowezi za ndondomeko ya sabata.
Chigamulo 3.
Chiyambi cha mtendere.
Ngakhale ngati mukufuna kuuza munthu chinachake chosangalatsa, musayambe kukambirana ndi zoipa. Apo ayi, iye adzakonzedweratu molakwika, ndipo simungapeze malangizo aliwonse, othandizira, kapena zomwe mwawerenga. Choncho, musanayambe kuthamangira kwa okongola ndi kulira kwa "chirichonse chiri choipa!", Ganizirani ngati pali mphindi yowala mu uthenga wanu wosangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo yambani nayo.
Chigamulo 4.
Mtsinje wa chidziwitso.
Ngati ndinu okonda zaka zambiri, dziwani kuti sikuti aliyense, ngakhale munthu wachikondi, adzatha kumvetsera mwatcheru. Tsatanetsatane wazing'ono ndi mfundo sizingakhale zosangalatsa kwa iye. Ngati mukufuna kuuza munthu chinthu china chofunikira ndi kumuganizira, lankhulani pa zoyenera, ndipo sungani mfundo za abwenzi anu.
Ngati nkhaniyo siikhala maminiti angapo, sungani mawuwo ndi mafunso. Mulole okondedwa anu akhale nawo pa kuyankhulana, mwinamwake chirichonse chimene inu mukufuna kuti muwonetsere chidzadutsa makutu ake.
Chigamulo 5.
Malire a ololedwa.
Pazifukwa zina, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti anthu autali pamodzi, amavomerezana. Kulumikizana kokondweretsa n'kofunikira, koma kutsutsa nthawi zonse, kutsutsa, kuyesetsa pazifukwa zilizonse kudula chiberekero cha choonadi sikubweretsa zotsatira zabwino. Khalani chete pa zomwe simunalankhulepo pamene mudayamba chibwenzi. Kumbukirani, izo zinalibe kanthu kwa inu kuti iye anali kuvala thukuta loopsya ili ndi spools, chofunikira kwambiri, kuti inu munali limodzi. Mwina simukuyenera kukhala okhwima tsopano, chifukwa palibe chomwe chatsintha mu chinthu chachikulu - muli pamodzi. Popanda zopanda pake.
Yesani kumvetsera pamtima wanu, koma musaiwale za malingaliro anu. Ngati mukufuna kuti banja lanu likhale lolimba, ndi ubale wawo nthawi yayitali, kumbukirani malamulo akale a nzeru: chitani kwa ena momwe mukufuna kuti iwo akuchitireni. Mwina, palibe ngakhale imodzi yamakono yomwe imagwira ntchito bwino kuposa iyo.