Mu moyo waumwini, maonekedwewo ndi ofunikira kwambiri, choyamba, panthawi ya chidziwitso. Mukawona munthu wabwino mumsewu, mukufuna kumukopa, mumatha kumuwombera ndipo mumphindi mumamuuze zonse za inu nokha, koma izi zingamuwopsyeze munthu, sizikudziwikiratu kuti nthawi yomweyo adzayamikira zosiyana ndi dziko lanu lamkati ndikukhala ndi chidwi ndi chidziwitso choyambirira. Perekani mawonekedwe anu: tsitsi loikidwa bwino, kumwetulira kwa chipale chofewa, zovala zogona bwino, nsapato zoyera ndi zipangizo zosankhidwa bwino.
Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti ziribe kanthu mtundu wa maonekedwe omwe wapereka, mfundo yonse ndi momwe mungachitire: kukongola kwachilengedwe kungawononge chidwi, chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo, sikofunika kuti mukhale ndi zifukwa zabwino zokondweretsa ena. Musaiwale kuti kumangokhalira kugwedezeka chifukwa chosakhutira ndi maonekedwe anu, zovuta zimangokankhira anthu kutali, mosakayikira mukhoza kupeza zabwino mwa inu nokha ndikuzigogomeza.
Ganizirani za yemwe mumakhala womasuka naye? Zingaganize kuti pamaso panu panali chithunzi cha munthu wokonzeka bwino, wokongoletsedwa, wodzidalira. Mwamuna aliyense akufuna kuwona pafupi ndi msungwana wachikazi, ndipo akazi amakopeka ndi amuna okonzekera bwino, okongola. Ndi zachilengedwe, chirichonse m'chilengedwe chimaphatikizapo mgwirizano, kufanana, kukongola.
Kodi zikuwoneka ngati ntchito? N'zotheka, kunena zoona, kuti wogwira ntchitoyo afunika kufufuzidwa yekha ndi zotsatira za ntchito yake komanso maphunziro ake, osati chifukwa cha nthawi yomwe amawonetsera maonekedwe ake, koma siziri choncho. Wokongola, wovala mwakongoletsera amachititsa chidaliro kwambiri ku kampani, monga mwa onse ndi anthu onse ozoloŵera: zosokoneza zonyansa zimakhala zoopsa, zomwe timayesetsa kuzipewa. Pamene munthu amawoneka bwino, amadzidalira kwambiri, ndipo kupambana kwake kuli koonekera kwa onse ogula ndi olemba ntchito. Chifukwa chake, kuyambira pakuyankhulana pa ntchitoyi, ntchito za kampaniyo, kuthera ndi masiku omwe amagwira ntchito pa sabata yothandizira - muyenera kusunga chizindikiro, kuyang'ana ndondomeko ya kampani ndikugogomezera umunthu wanu, ndikudziwitse kuti ndinu membala wa gulu lonse ndipo ndinu antchito woyenera nokha .
Ndikofunika kwambiri kulingalira pazochitika zoyambirira za kalembedwe kawe kwa anthu a ntchito zaluso, motero akuwonetsera kuthekera kwawo. Chithunzicho chiyenera kuganiziridwa kupyolera muzing'onozing'ono: Olemba ntchito ndi makasitomala adzayang'ana ndi kuwunika, ndipo kukongola ndi chidwi chonse chikhoza kuwonongeka ndi kusowa kwa manja kapena zosankha zosasankhidwa.
Ngati nthawi ina apangidwe, okonza mapulani, ojambula, olemba nkhani ndi olemba nkhani akubwera ndi zinthu zowala, zojambula bwino, zithunzi zonyenga kuti akope chidwi cha makasitomala ndikuwonetsa umunthu wawo wosakhala wabwino, tsopano pali chizoloŵezi chosavuta, kufotokoza mizere, kuletsa, ndi ndendende Ichi ndi chizindikiro cha kalembedwe. Zojambula zokongola za ojambula, zosankha zamanyala za madiresi ndi zovala zimapatsa zovala zovala zosavuta, zipangizo zoyera komanso mitundu yofiira yomwe ili ndi mbali zosiyana. Chinthu china ndikutchuka kwa kuyendera ma gym, maphunziro ndi masewera ovina omwe amathandiza kupanga thupi labwino ndi lokongola. Anthu odwala amakhalanso okongola m'maganizo onse kwa olemba ntchito, ndipo kwa ena okha, izi ndi zachilengedwe.
Zonsezi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuthamangira kwa opaleshoni ya pulasitiki ndikubwezeretsa ntchito zonse kuchokera ku kabukhu lake! M'dziko lamakono, kumene mungapeze zovala ndi nsapato zonse zojambula, zojambula ndi mitundu, pamasankhidwe omwe wojambula zithunzi kapena wopanga mafano angakuthandizeni, zokongola za salon zimapereka ntchito zosiyanasiyana, kuyambira zodzikongoletsera ndi zokometsera tsitsi, kuchita masewera omwe angakuthandizeni kusintha, pangani chithunzi cholondola ndi kupanga chidwi kwa ena. Pachifukwa ichi, yesetsani kuti musapitirize kuwonjezera pa chilakolako chofuna kulemera kapena kupeza minofu yosaneneka, imayambitsa matenda, omwe angakhale ovuta kuchiza.
Kodi zovala zimakhudza bwanji moyo wa munthu? Monga akunena, munthu wokongola ndi wokongola m'zonse, pamene kukongola ndi kuphatikiza makhalidwe anu apamtima ndi kukongola kwina, kotero ndikofunikira kuyang'ana maonekedwe anu.