Ndithudi inu mwakumana nawo mu mamembala anu azimayi omwe sangathe kutchedwa akazi, mawu oyambirira omwe amabwera m'maganizo ndi "aakazi." Nanga azimayi awa ndi ndani kuti asakhale mmodzi wa iwo?
Kodi timatcha "aakazi" ndani? Amayi aang'ono okha amatha kudandaula chifukwa cha mchenga wotentha, ozizira panyanja, amakhumudwitsidwa ndi ana a anthu ena, ndipo iwo amangofuula, komabe, kwa mwamuna wawo, ndi kwa alendo omwe amapeza, amatha kudya kwa theka la ora pamtunda Hamburgers 3, ngakhale kuti iwowo amadzigulira okha masamba ofanana ndi XXXL ...
Pamene tiwona anthu otere, pomwepo ife eni eni timasonyeza kuti sitingakhale ngati iwo. Komabe, ambiri amanena kuti m'nthawi yathu ino sadakonzekere kukhala otero ...
Ndiye azakhali adzatenga zaka zingati?
Nthaŵi zina, palinso anzanu a m'kalasi ndi odnogruppnitsy, omwe zaka 16 ndi 19 angatetezedwe kukhala aakazi.
Ndiponsotu, anthu ozoloŵera ali aang'ono amapita kumaseŵera, kusewera, mafilimu, masiku, ndi iwo omwe akuganiza m'maganizo awo okha amapita ku masitolo akuluakulu a chakudya ndi mafuta ndikubwerera ku vobschizhitie kapena kunyumba. Nthawi zonse amawopseza anthu okhala nawo chifukwa cha chisokonezo komanso kusowa kwawo kapena kukonda kukonzekera kulemera, kudya chakudya chamadzulo.
Akazi awa sanatuluke makalasi, koma kuwerengera pamwamba pa atatuwo sanalandirepo. Komabe, maloto awo akuluakulu ndi apamwamba kwambiri ndi "Ndikufuna kukwatira" (ndithudi, palibe yemwe ali ndi mantha ponena kuti atsikana oterewa akwatirana, ndipo iwo okha sali kutenga chilichonse). Kulankhulana ndi akazi oterewa ndi kosangalatsa, chifukwa zonse zomwe angathe kuziuza ndi momwe angapititsire bwino ku sitolo, chiani, ndi kuti ndi mtengo wotani umene amagulitsidwa, komanso iwo amakonda kwambiri kuphunzitsa moyo, chifukwa amalume nthawi zonse amakhala otsimikiza kuti ali olondola!
Koma ngati mumayang'ana mosiyana ndi maonekedwe anu, azakhali anu sangathe kudziwitsidwa, chifukwa zaka sizikutembenuzirani ku gulu lina, mwachitsanzo, Juliet Binoche, Sophia Loren, Madonna akuwoneka ...
Kodi moyo wa aakaziwo ndi otani?
Ndingatani kuti ndisakhale amayi onyansa? Zosangalatsa komanso zosavuta kugwirizana ndi moyo, maloto, usaope zatsopano, kukwaniritsa zokhumba zanu, kukwaniritsa zolinga.
Amayi aang'ono pamutu panga akupitirira. Nazi mfundo zina zomwe zimakhalapo ndi:
- "Kuti asamachite manyazi pamaso pa anthu." N'zoona kuti amalume ake mosagwirizana amakhulupirira kuti maganizo ake ndi olondola kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi, ndipo akuyesera kulimbikitsa aliyense payekha, koma mumtima mwake, amakhumudwa kwambiri, ngati wina akumutsutsa, limasonyeza zolephera zake ndi zolephera zawo. Choncho, munthu woteroyo ndi wokonzeka kuchita zomwe sakufuna ndipo sazikonda, koma amachita, chifukwa: "Kodi anthu anganene chiyani?".
- "Dongosolo liyenera kukhala paliponse - ichi ndi chinthu chachikulu." Kulikonse ndi muzonse dongosolo liyenera kulamulira. Makamaka n'kofunika kumvetsera zachuma. "Ndipotu, anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti izi ndi zoona. Ndikofunika kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yonse yotentha ku dacha, kapena kuti nthenda ya mbatata ya Colorado idye. Ndidzachoka, koma anthu adzachita chiyani? "Ndipo tikapita ku nyanja, kupatsa namsongole kumakhala" matenda "!
- "Chinthu chachikulu ndichoti ngati anthu." Amayi ake ali ndi nsanje kwambiri, ndipo alibe rassabororostvenniki icho, abwenzi, oyandikana nawo, adani ... Dziwani kuti ilibe pafupifupi malingaliro ake ndi zilakolako, chifukwa zimakhala moyo wa anthu ena. Choncho, amaganiza kuti ndikofunika kukhala ndi moyo, chifukwa anthu ena, monga mzako wa Zinka, akukhala kudutsa msewu kapena woyandikana nawoKatka, yemwe akukhala kupyolera mu mpanda. Pambuyo pake, azimayiwo amawopa kwambiri kuti achite zina mwa njira zawo, amawopa kuti achoke ku gululo. Poyamba amapita ku sukulu, kusukulu kusukulu kapena koleji, kenako atakwatirana, amabala mwana chaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri kenako kachiwiri. Ndipo, ndithudi, ntchito. Koma izi ndizopokha ngati simungakwatire kapena mwamuna wonyenga amakana. Ndizo zonse zomwe azakhali amafuna abambo awo, chinthu chokhacho chotsalira ndicho kukhala moyo wopuma pantchito, ndipo pang'onopang'ono akuchoka kwa agogo awo aakazi ndi agogo awo. Izi ndizomwe zimatanthauza tanthauzo lonse lapansi, makamaka, azakhali angagwiritse ntchito "chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti ngati anthu", akasankha chophimba pakhoma kapena amamupangitsa mwamuna kuti amangirire tile padenga ndi zina zotero.
Kodi azakhali anu amawoneka bwanji?
Azimayi achikazi amasiyana kwambiri, koma akhoza kugawa m'magulu awiri: opambana komanso olemera .
Auntonso, omwe ndi "opambana", angakhale ndi ndalama zomwezo monga olemera. Amangokhala ndi maganizo osiyana ndi ndalama. Iye akuti: "Famu iyenera kusungidwa, malo ena ogwiritsira ntchito nsalu ndi zodzoladzola, ndipo sindikusowa zonse, ndilibe zaka 20, sindingayanjane ndi wina aliyense ...".
Amayi aumphawi amapita:
- M'malo mwa malaya amoto amavala jekete, ndipo kuyambira October mpaka April!
- Amapembedza ma breeches - amphwasa ochepa omwe sangathe kutsindika za msungwana wamng'ono, ndi amayi onse, makamaka. Akamaika chikwama chogona pansi kuti asungidwe, amachokera ku breeches ndi t-shirt yaikulu ya njovu.
- iwo amakonda zovala, makamaka, bwino.
- nsapato, nsapato, nsapato ndi nsapato zina za m'nyengo ya chilimwe zimalowa m'malo mwake.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti azakhali ake amayenda zomwe amakonda, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, ndi zotchipa. Maonekedwe ndi maonekedwe awo ndi awa, iwo saganizira za izo. Komanso, azakhali amatsimikiza kuti safunikira. Mwachidziŵikire, kwenikweni anali aumphawi, amakhalidwe abwino omwe adapanga mawu akuti "nsalu zabwino" ndi "osakhala marble".
Mwachidule, mukhoza kukhala azakhali chifukwa mulibe njira zakuthupi, koma chifukwa chakuti simusamala za inu nokha ndi maonekedwe anu.
Amayi awo omwe "olemera" alibe ndalama zoposa miliyoni imodzi ku mabanki a Swiss, iwo amangotenga zovala za muzhinorkovaya. Komanso kuyambira October mpaka April iwo amapita mmenemo. "Akazi" olemera amanyadira chifukwa chakuti ali ndi ndalama, kotero amayesera kusonyeza izo ndi maonekedwe awo.
Mu zovala zawo mungathe kupeza:
- Ngati si mink, ndiye chovala cha karakul kumapazi. Komanso, simungathe kuwona chovala cha ubweya wokha, komanso chikhomo chomwecho, komabe iwo amakwera mabasi ndi mabasi a trolley, ndipo amatenga malo ochulukirapo poyendetsa.
- golidi - ndi mphete, unyolo, zikuluzikulu zazikulu ... Kuwonjezera apo, zodzikongoletsera zonse zimabedwa ngakhale masana, ngakhale mu sitolo, ngakhalenso ndi malaya ndi t-shirt.
- zithukuta ndi mtundu wosiyana. Ai amavala ngakhale masabata.
Mwa kuyankhula kwina, amalume "olemera" amavala nthawi zonse kotero kuti "aliyense aone kuti angathe kuzigulira okha". Akaziwo sagula zinthu zamtengo wapatali, ziyenera kuwala!
Maonekedwe ndi kukoma sizimaganiziridwa ...
Choncho amalume amayamba kugula mkwatibwi, ndi "katundu wogula", aliyense amabvala, chifukwa "ambiri amadziwa mtengo wa chinthu ichi, choncho, adzayamikira ndikuwona kuti ndapereka ndalama zambiri!"
Kuti musakhale wotero, muyenera kugula zinthu zomwe mungagule mumsika wachitatu wa msika wogula!
Kodi amalume akugwirizana bwanji ndi ntchito?
Ambiri akulakwitsa pamene amaganiza kuti ngati sakugwira ntchito, adzakhala amake. Ndipotu, azimayi 50% ndi amayi omwe amagwira ntchito.
Amayi ake amangotchula za ntchitoyi, iwo alibe chidwi. Komanso, iwo safunanso nthawi zina zofunika pamoyo.
Akazi sangathe kumanga ntchito yosangalatsa, chifukwa alibe nthawi yowonongeka, kukangana ndi kukangana. Iwo amayesa kukantha malo ena mu bungwe loyendetsa boma. Iwo sangagwire ntchito mwakuya ndi kupindula kwenikweni!
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani kuti musakhale aang'ono?
Kodi ndizimayi ziti zomwe saopsezedwa kuti azikhala aang'ono?
- Akazi omwe amadzisamalira okha, atsatire kalembedwe ndi mafashoni.
- Wokondwa ndi wokhulupirira.
- Mwachangu. Ndipo ziribe kanthu zomwe iwo amakonda, banja, zokondweretsa kapena ntchito. Kumbukirani kuti pamene mumakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi moyo wanu, mumakhala kutali ndi fano la aakazi anu.
- Okonzeka kuvomereza zolakwa zawo ndikuphunzira.
- Okonda ndi okondedwa. Ndipotu, chikondi nthawi zonse chimatipatsa mpata womvera, choncho n'kosatheka kukhala wolimba komanso wolimba.
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