Kumanzere kumanja: zinthu zakuthupi zosiyana-siyana

Kwa makolo ena, kumanzere kwa mwana ndi chizindikiro choti ayambe kumenyana. Iwo amatsimikiza kuti mwanayo amafunika kubwezeretsedwa mwamsanga mwamsanga, kuti adziwe luso labwino, mwinamwake mwanayo ali ndi mavuto m'munda, sukulu ndi moyo zaka zingapo. Makolo ena amadziwa kuti mwana wawo wamasiye amamusiya mwakachetechete, koma ponena za kubwezeretsa iwo akunena kuti: "Izi ndi zofanana ndi kupanga mwana kuyenda m'manja mwake! Sadzakhala wosangalala komanso wopambana, komabe nthendayi ndi magulu a zovuta zidzatha kugwira ntchito. " Ndi uti wa iwo amene ali wolondola? Choncho, kumanzere: mbali zakuthupi zosiyana-siyana ndizo zokambirana lero.

Kodi izi zimachokera kuti?

Ubongo wathu, monga momwe umadziwika, uli ndi ziwalo ziwiri - kumanja ndi kumanzere. Mmodzi wa iwo amachita ntchito yake, chifukwa mmenemo, ndi mzake akuika malo osiyana a moyo waumunthu. Potero, kumanzere kumayambitsa malingaliro ndi malingaliro enieni, ufulu ndilo pakati pa nyimbo ndi zojambulajambula, kulingalira.

Malo okongola a dziko lapansi amalamulira kumbali ya kumanzere kwa thupi, kumbali yakumanzere kumalamulira mbali yoyenera. Kwa anthu ambiri, mazembera sali olingana, chimodzi mwa izo chimayendetsa: ngati kumanzere kumakhudza kwambiri, munthu amakhala ndi dzanja lamanja pamene "akukweza" dzanja lamanja ndi munthu wamanzere. Mwa njira, tiyeni tifotokoze: lingaliro la "kum'mwera" sikulondola. Zidzakhala zowonjezereka kunena "kumanzere", kuti mukhale omvera wotsalira, ndipo alipo ochepa padziko lapansi, khutu lamanzere, diso, ndi mwendo kumakhala gawo lotsogolera kupatulapo dzanja. Makolo ayenera kumveketsedwa bwino: kumanzere ndi chimodzi mwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya chitukuko cha thupi, chogwirizana ndi zochitika za ubongo.

Dulani chithunzi cha mwana wamanzere

Kuwona ana otere, asayansi, akatswiri a maganizo, madokotala anapeza zambiri zofanana pa chitukuko, khalidwe, khalidwe, zilakolako. Tikukhulupirira kuti amayi ndi abambo adzalandira ochepa manja okondeka omwe ali kumanzere.

Kotero, iwo amakhala okhumudwa, omasuka, osasamala, odalira, osatetezeka, osamvetsetseka. Pa nthawi yomweyi akulimbikitsana pakuzindikira zilakolako, amakhala okhudzidwa ndi maganizo a achibale awo. Achinyamata otsala, monga achinyamata ochepa, amakhala ndi chilungamo. Iwo ndi otota akulu ndi olota, malingaliro awo akhoza kungokwiya basi. Kodi ndichifukwa chake pakati pa lefties kumeneko muli zinthu zambiri zozilenga? Kuyambira ali ndi zaka zitatu, nthawi zina, anthu ogwira ntchito bwino amajambula ndi kuumba, kusonyeza kumvetsera kwathunthu. Kuphatikizanso apo, akatswiri ambiri a masamu, ochita masewera apadera ali pakati pa anthu akumanzere.

Pa nthawi yomweyi, osowa manja nthawi zambiri amzawo amamva zolimbitsa thupi, amavutika kulankhula mawu, kuwerenga ndi kulemba. Koma, potsirizira pake, ndi njira yoyenera yophunzirira, zonsezi, mosakayikira, zidzagonjetsedwa bwino. Chitsanzo cha izi ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi anthu omwe akhalapo kale komanso olemba mbiri: Julius Caesar, Alexander Wamkulu, Leonardo da Vinci, Michelangelo, Rembrandt, Mozart, Napoleon Bonaparte, Mikhail Lomonosov, Alexander Pushkin, Lev Tolstoy, Friedrich Nietzsche, Vladimir Dal, Vasily Surikov, Albert Einstein, Van Gogh, Pyotr Tchaikovsky, Charlie Chaplin, Sting, Julia Roberts, Angelina Jolie, Paul McCartney, Bill Clinton ndi katswiri wa makompyuta Bill Gates. Monga mukuonera, omasulira apatsa anthu magulu osiyanasiyana. Ndipo pambuyo pake, kodi mukuganizabe kuti dzanja lamanzere ndilo vuto lalikulu?

Kodi kumanzere kapena ayi? Timafotokoza molondola.

Kuti mudziwe mtundu wa mankhwala omwe mwanayo ali nawo, yang'anani dzanja lomwe lidzafike kuti liwonekere, limene lidzatenge chidolecho, ndipo likamakula, lidzasungiramo piramidi kuchokera ku cubes, yomwe pensulo idzatenga, kuponyera mpira, kusunga supuni, ndi zina zotero. Kwa ana okalamba, perekani: chisa (dzanja lomwe lingatenge broshi); funsani manja anu kuti dzanja limodzi likhale pamwamba (lomwe liri dzanja); kuwomba (ndi dzanja lomwe ntchito zochititsa mantha zikuchitidwa molimbika kwambiri); Ikani manja anu pa chifuwa chanu (yomwe ili pamwamba pa mkono umene uli pamwamba).

Kusintha ndikukula kwa ana amanzere

Ndondomeko yosinthira wotsalira kumalo athu padziko lapansi si ophweka. Pambuyo pake, pafupi chilichonse chimene chikuzungulira mwanayo chakonzedwa kuti chikhale ndi anthu abwino: kuyambira ndi lumo wamba ndi kutha ndi chikwama cha manja. Ndipo m'tsogolomu, onjezerani, mwachitsanzo, magetsi oyendetsa magalimoto, omwe apangidwanso kwa anthu abwino. Koma galimotoyo ili kutali kwambiri. Ali mwana, ndikofunika kwambiri kuthandiza mwana kuphunzira kalata ndi kuwerenga, poganizira zochitika za thupi lamanzere.

Kutsogolera othandizira akumanzere akuyenera kukulira kuyambira ali aang'ono. Mwachitsanzo, tisonyezani kuti ana amamasula nsapato, amasunthani tizilombo tating'ono ting'onoting'ono kuchokera mu chotengera chimodzi kupita ku chimzake, kukanika ndi kutsegula mabatani - zonsezi, ndithudi, ndi dzanja lanu lamanzere. Funsani mwanayo kuti aliyike pa tebulo, ndipo mulole kusinthana ndikuchotsa chala chilichonse pamwamba pake. Dzanja lokhalo liyenera kukhala lopopera pa tebulo.

Asanayambe sukulu, ndizofunika kuchepetsa kuwerenga, kulemba, zilankhulo zakunja, ndiko kuti, zinthu zomwe mwana amayembekeza kulephera komwe kumachepetsa kudziyesa kwake. Ndipo m'kalasi yoyamba ya masewera, maphunziro a chikhalidwe ndi abwino, osakhala ndi katundu wambiri, electives ndi zina zotero.

Pokonza malo a makalasi, kumbukirani: Kuwala kuchokera pazenera kapena kuchokera pa tebulo la desk kuyenera kugwa kuchokera kumanja. Samalani kuti kusukulu mwanayo akukhala pa desiki kumanzere, mwinamwake mpeni wake nthawi zonse umayang'anizana ndi mbali yolondola ya mnzako.

Pamene mukuphunzitsa ana omwe akumanzere, ndikofunikira kuti mukhale ndi zowawa zowoneka - zojambula, zakuda. Choncho, kuti mwanayo amvetse bwino komanso kuloweza pamtima maphunziro, gwiritsani ntchito zithunzi, zojambula, zithunzi, zithunzi, ma grafu. Musakhale waulesi kwambiri kuti mupange makalata kapena manambala omwewo kuti muwombere - kuumba kuchokera ku pulasitiki, kudula nsalu zakuda.

Chinthu chachikulu - kuyang'anira khalidwe

Chifukwa cha kukhumudwa kwakukulu komanso kukhumudwa kwakukulu kwa zidutswa zamanzere, zikhale zomveka bwino, zowakomera mtima, zowonongeka ndi iwo. Musapitirire ndi chikumbumtima cha boma, kumatsatira mwamphamvu zomwe ambiri angatsimikizire kuti n'zovuta.

Mulimonsemo simukutsutsa kusiyana pakati pa mwana wanu ndi anzanu, mmalo mwake, kulimbikitsa ndi kutamanda m'njira iliyonse. Pokhala atakula, iye, mwachibadwa, ndipo iye mwini adzazindikira kusayika kwake, koma panthawi ino adzaphunzira bwino kupita naye kupyolera mu moyo.

Siyani monga momwe zilili. Ndipo mfundo!

Kodi mukupangabe munthu "wamanja" kuchokera kumanzere? Zimangokhalira kumvetsa chisoni ndi mwanayo, komanso chifukwa chakuti zotsatira za chiwawa choterechi (komanso m'mawu ena simudzazitchula) zingakhale zosadziwika.

Dzanja lotsogolera la mwanayo silingasankhidwe "mwanzeru". Zikuwoneka kuti, kubwezeretsa ndikungosinthira mphanda kapena dzanja kuchokera kumanzere kupita kumanja. Ndipotu, ndikuyesera kusintha ntchito ya ubongo waumphawi, kusinthana ndi ntchito za munthu amene akutsogolera kumanzere kumanzere. Mwa kubwezeretsa mwana, ife, ngakhale titakhala angati, yesetsani kukonzanso chilengedwe chake.

Chifukwa chake, mwanayo amatha kukhala wokwiya, wofulumira, wosadziwika, wonyezimira. Kawirikawiri, anthu a kumanzere amakhala ndi mavuto ambiri a m'magazi: kuphwanya njala ndi mantha, mantha, enuresis, tics, stuttering. Ana amadandaula ndi mutu, kutopa kumanja, kuwonjezeka kutopa komanso kuchepa kwachangu. Ndipo ndi mavuto oterewa sangathe "kukopa" maphunziro a sukulu.

Wachigawo chochepa chomanzere ali ndi njira ziwiri: kaya iye, monga mwana wamba, nthawi zambiri amakula ndikukula, polemba ndi kudya ndi dzanja lake lamanzere, kapena mumamukakamiza kuti achite chimodzimodzi ndi dzanja lamanja, ndithudi kumusintha. Chikondi ndi kuzindikira magazi anu momwemo, ndiyeno kuchoka kumanja ndi zinthu zakuthupi za kumanzere kwanu sikungakhale vuto kwa inu ndi kwa iye!