Mpaka pano, sikukhala kovuta kuphunzira za nkhani zonse zokhudzana ndi kugwirizana.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo m'mayiko ambiri apanga mayesero kuti azitsatira awiri. Malingana ndi mayeserowa, mutha kudziwa ngati mwamuna uyu ali woyenera kwa inu monga chibwenzi, mmalingaliro, mmalo mwake. Ngati mkaziyo alibe mwamuna yemwe angamuwone pafupi naye, ndiye chifukwa cha mayesero, mungathe kukhazikitsa khalidwe labwino, khalidwe lake, chizindikiro cha zodiac, ndi zina zotero. ndi zina zotero.
Kugwirizana kwa mayeso awiri, omwe ndi amuna ndi akazi, ndi osiyana osati okhutira, komanso mawonekedwe. Mayeserowa amachokera pa zomwe apeza ndi zomwe asayansi ndi akatswiri a maganizo apeza. Olemba mayeserowa, kuti apange zovuta komanso zosiyana siyana, ayese kusintha ndi zoonjezera zawo pazomwe asayansi amapeza, chifukwa cha mafunso omwe samasangalatsa komanso osakhala omwe akuwonekera. Kuyesa kutsatiridwa ndizofupikitsa, zosavuta, zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito komanso ndi "zozizwitsa", monga lamulo, mayankho a mayesero ayenera kukhala achidule ndi omveka, chifukwa molingana ndi yankho lenileni, ichi kapena fano lina kapena yankho la funsoli lakonzedwa. Pali mayesero ochititsa chidwi kuti azindikire zomwe zingakhale bwino kuti azigwira ntchito mwa munthu, ndi ntchito yotani yomwe iye ali bwino pakuphunzira ndi zomwe ayenera kuchita.
Kuyesa kutsatila kungakhale koyambirira. Ndi mayesero osiyanasiyana, wolembayo akufotokoza kuti awiriwa omwe ayesedwa ayenera kulingalira kuti ali amodzi kapena ena, ndi momwe momwemo amachitira zinthu zosiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, tangoganizani kuti muli ndi mfuti yanu yomwe mumakonda kwambiri, pamphindi ngati yomwe mumakhala ndi mithunzi. Kodi sizoyambirira komanso zosadabwitsa?
Chifukwa cha mayesero alionse, mfundozo zikuphatikizidwa ndipo mayankhowo atengedwa, ndiye kuti zitsimikizidwezo zikuyankhidwa, kaya ndi zoyenera kapena ayi, yankho ili likhoza kufalikira (nkhani), ndipo lingakhale lalidule komanso lalifupi.
Pamene mukukayikira, ndizoyenera kwa inu m'dera lanu kuti mukhale ndi ubale wautali komanso wokhalitsa mogwirizana ndi mayesero awiri omwe mungathe kuwombola kapena mungopita ku mitundu yonse ya intaneti. Pa intaneti za malo ndi mayesero omwe amawonekeratu, siziwoneka, monga akunena za kukoma ndi chidwi. Mosiyana ndi intaneti ndi mabuku ndi mabuku oyesa. Nthawi zambiri m'nyuzipepala iliyonse, m'magazini osiyanasiyana, makamaka m'magazini azimayi, pamakhala mayesero awiri pa nkhani zosiyanasiyana. Zomwe zimatchuka kwambiri ndizoyeso zogwirizana, za chikondi, ntchito ndi khalidwe la mnzanuyo.
Mkazi aliyense atatha kuyeserera akufuna kupeza zotsatira zabwino, ndipo akapeza, amangokayikira ngati zitsimikizo za mayesero ndi zoona kapena ayi. Mwachibadwidwe, iye akuyembekeza kwathunthu kuti zotsatira zake ziyesa, palibe amene akukulangizani. Mukamapanga chisankho, munthu aliyense kuphatikizapo zotsatira zoyesedwa ayenera kutsogoleredwa ndi nzeru komanso nzeru.
Pokumbukira zotsatira za mayeso oyenerera, ndi bwino kulingalira za luso la munthu amene adayesedwa. Mwinamwake mayeso sanali katswiri wa zamaganizo nkomwe, koma woyambirira kapena wowonetsa kwambiri. Pankhaniyi, mumangosakaza nthawi yanu yamtengo wapatali, koma simukufuna!
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