Zaka zana ndi theka zapitazo, filosofesa wa ku Germany Arthur Schopenhauer analemba kuti "akazi amakhalapo chifukwa cha kufalikira kwa banja, ndipo ichi ndi chifukwa chokha chokhazikitsidwa. Ochita kafukufuku wa zaka za m'ma XX, mosiyana ndizo - adakangana mobwerezabwereza kuti ubongo wazimayi umachita ngozi, zovuta ndi zodabwitsa zina muzochita malonda mosiyana ndi amuna. Ubongo wa munthu ndi wapadera, umathandizira kuika maganizo pa ntchito yosiyana pa nthawi yosiyana. Ubongo wa mkaziyo umagonjetsedwa mosavuta ndi zinthu zingapo panthawi yomweyo. Choncho, m'tsogolomu, makampani adzakhala opambana kwambiri, pazimene-madona, omwe angakhoze kuwona mwayi wa bizinesi, ndi maonekedwe onse a chitukuko chake. Panthawi yathu, mwinamwake, ziyenera kufika nthawi ya maukwati mu bizinesi. Komabe, izi sizinachitikebe.
Chromosome ndilolakwa
Chimodzi mwa zochitika zofala kwambiri: bizinesi ndi ntchito ya munthu. Chifukwa nthawi zonse zimakhudzana ndi chiopsezo, ndipo kugonana kofooka kumadziwika ndi chikhumbo cha kukhazikika. Koma lero mzimayi wamalonda ndi bwana wamakono wamakono akugonjetsanso gawoli laling'ono lamwamuna. Zoona, kugwiritsa ntchito njira zanu. Monga mtsogoleri wa dziko lonse lapansi adanena kale kuti: "Tidzatero." Nawa madona ndipo wapita. Mwa njira iyi, ankayembekezera ndi thanthwe limodzi la pansi pa madzi - X-chromosome, yomwe, makamaka, imatipanga ife akazi.
Monga ngati mkazi wamalonda ndi bwana wamakono wamakono samapanga kudziphunzitsa okha, sangathe kunyenga chikhalidwe chawo. Koma ngati mukukumbukira izi, mukhoza, poyamba, peŵani zolakwitsa zambiri, ndipo kachiwiri, kuti mukwaniritse bwino (hurray!), Ngakhalenso kuposa anthu.
Zikuoneka kuti kusiyana kwa "kugonana" mwa njira zogwirira ntchito bizinesi kunayikidwa pakati pa anthu achikulire.
Ngakhale apo, mwamunayo, akutuluka m'phanga, adayamba kuganiza kwake kwakukulu. Anamuwona patsogolo pake zinthu zowonongeka ndipo adazindikira kuti kunali kofunikira kuti amasaka ndi kubweretsa katundu ku nyumba. Mu bizinesi, khalidweli limatchedwa kulakwa, ndiko kuti, kuthekera kupitirira malire a munthu mwini, kuti "aswe" malire a malo ake otonthoza. M'phanga zinali zomasuka, koma ine (mwamuna) kuti ndikhale wopambana, ndiyenera kuchokapo, ndikudzipezera chinthu chatsopano, kukwaniritsa zotsatira zenizeni, ngakhale izi ziri zoopsa. "Ndikufuna kupeza chirombocho, kotero ndikuphunzira kuyenda mlengalenga, ndikuyamba kuganiza mozama." Masiku ano, makhalidwe amenewa amathandiza munthu kuti apambane mu bizinesi. Pambuyo pa zonse, kulingalira, kulingalira kwa malo, kukwanitsa kulongosola - makhalidwe omwe amakulolani kuti muonjezere njira zamalonda ndikufika pamtunda wosiyana.
Kupititsa patsogolo mitu, makamaka, - mamuna wamwamuna. " Pamene munthuyo anali kusaka, mkaziyo anali atakhala pansi kuphanga la moto, akuphunzira zomwe zinali pafupi ndi iye. Kodi izi zimakhudza bwanji bizinesi tsopano? Amuna amalonda ndi abambo amakono amapanga chikhalidwe chamagulu, poyamba kumanga malonda mkati mwa kampaniyo, ndipo pangoganizani za kugonjetsedwa kwa magawo atsopano. Izi zikutanthauza kuti iwo amapanga nthaka yabwino kuti azitha kupita patsogolo, ndipo popanda izi sangapite patsogolo.
Tsopano tiyeni tiyerekeze masewera ati muubwana amene timakhala nawo. Anyamata amakonda kukwera mpira, hockey, bokosi, ndizo zonse zomwe zimakhudza zotsatira: muyenera kupambana kuti musakhale wotayika. Atsikanawo anali ndi chidwi ndi "kusewera masewera" monga "mayi wamkazi", omwe kwenikweni samatha ndi chirichonse. Mwa njira, ngati mayi ali mwana adagwidwa nawo masewera, adakhudzanso khalidwe lake, adapereka malingaliro. Pafupifupi amayi onse ogwira ntchito zamalonda ndi abambo amakono amakopera ndi anyamata awo, kapena analeredwa ndi abambo omwe anali ndi udindo wawo, kapena adalowa nawo masewerawa ndipo adadziŵa kale kuti chirichonse m'moyo uno chili ndi cholinga.
Chikhalidwe china chimene chinakhudza njira zosiyana za bizinesi ya amai ndi abambo ndi maphunziro a chikhalidwe, pamene anyamata analetsedwa kulira, koma atsikana sanaloledwe kusonyeza malingaliro awo. Tsopano, zikutanthauza kuti kutengeka, kusakhoza kulamulira maganizo anu ndi chimodzi mwa mavuto aakulu mtsogoleri. Chabwino, ngati mayi wonyansa yemwe sakudziwa momwe angakhalire mmanja mwake, "amabwera kuntchito" - lemba lapita. Chisoni ichi sichiri kwa omvera ake okha, komanso chimavulaza chifukwa chake. Chifukwa cha kukonda kwake, amapanga bizinesi zambiri.
Pamagulu a amayi oterewa, makamaka ochuluka awo komanso ena.
Bwana amadzizungulira yekha ndi ziweto, zomwe zimakhudza ndondomeko ya antchito ndi njira zonse zamalonda. Sizinsinsi kuti chifukwa cha zizindikiro zoterozo ndi antchito omwe amadzipangira okha amasiya bungwe. Chifukwa "omwe ali pafupi ndi Thupi la Mfumukazi" amakhala osiyana pakati pa mtsogoleri ndi timu, amamuuza m'makutu kokha mfundo zomwe akufuna kumva, osati zomwe zikuchitika. Kuwonjezera apo, mwachibadwa, mkazi amakhala ndi maganizo omwe amasinthasintha. Ndipo izi zimakhalanso ndi zotsatira zoipa pa ntchito. Mukumva chisoni iye akhoza kutembenuza wantchito kuchokera ku fano kupita ku chiwonongeko, akusakaniza ndi madothi. Chifukwa chakuti zina mwazochita zake, ngakhale zosagwirizana ndi ntchito, iye sakonda kapena wina "amaimba" m'makutu. Pano pali mwamuna-manager pamaso pa chiwonetsero chotero, monga lamulo, samapita pansi, monga mkazi wamalonda ndi bwana wamakono wamakono.
Mutu wa nkhanza akhoza kukhululukidwa, ndi amayi amalonda ndi akazi amakono kwa bwana wa kuphulika kwa maganizo owononga - konse. Pafupi pomwepo anayamba kuyamba kunong'oneza bondo, kutanthauza kuti amayamba kusamba, chifukwa choti, "sakonda." Ndiko kuti, ngati munthu amawopa, ndiye kuti mkaziyo akusandulika kukhala chinthu chotonzedwa ndi kunyansidwa ndi ogonjera. Choncho gulu limapanga gulu lake lomwe limatsutsana ndi chefina. Choncho, ngati mkazi akufuna kukhala mtsogoleri wabwino, ayenera kuphunzira kulamulira maganizo, kuyesetsa mwakhama kuti apindule yekha, m'malo mochita naye ntchito. Koma ngati atachita ntchitoyi, adzatha kufika pamwambamwamba kuposa mwamuna wake. Wolemba mabuku wa Marxism ananena kuti mkazi ali wamphamvu mufooka wake. Koma osati mu bizinesi.
Kutumikira kudzakhala kokondwa ...
Koma, ngati simumapereka maganizo, ndiye kuti mumapindula, zimakhala zopindulitsa kuti mukhale ngati mkazi weniweni. Jim Collins, wolemba mabuku ena abwino kwambiri malingana ndi magazini ya Forbes, amakhulupirira kuti lero tiyenera kusintha njira kuti tipindule. Zidali bwanji kale? Poyamba cholinga chinali chitatsimikiziridwa, ndipo pansi pake gululo linayambitsidwa. Mu ntchito "Kuchokera ku Zabwino kufika Kukulu," Collins akuti muyenera kuchita zosiyana ndi izi: kusonkhanitsa anthu amalingaliro, iwo adzalandire malangizo, ndipo adzatha kukhazikitsa zikhalidwe zonse kuti apambane. Kwenikweni, izi ndi njira yachikazi yokha. Amayi amayamba kumanga mapangidwe osakanikirana, kenako amatha kupita ku cholinga chomwe akufuna. Mosiyana ndi amuna omwe amangoganizira za zotsatira za ntchito, ndipo sali chidwi ndi microclimate mu timu. Akazi amasankha antchito malinga ndi momwe anthu amagwirizanirana, kotero kuti gululo ligwirizana bwino. Ndipo ichi ndi chinsinsi cha kupambana.
Kuwonjezera apo , makosi amalonda amalimbikitsa kuti kampaniyo imve chisoni ndi timu kuti ipeze mapiri atsopano. Kumvera chisoni - kumvetsetsa. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mtsogoleri wotsutsana ndi omvera ake ayenera kukhala mtsogoleri wothandizira, ngakhale mtsogoleri wotsogolera, monga adalangizidwa, mwachitsanzo, ndi mmodzi mwa akatswiri a utsogoleri wotchuka Stephen Covey. Amanena kuti mtsogoleri wabwino, mosiyana ndi kachitidwe ka kale ka utsogoleri wa "karoti ndi kumamatira," ayenera kulimbikitsa anthu m'nthaŵi yathu, kugwiritsira ntchito zida zawo zamkati, kutulutsa kukhudzika kwa wogwira ntchito ku kampani komanso ku bizinesi. Ndondomekoyi ya utsogoleri "bwenzi - bwenzi - abambo" - maziko abwino kwambiri ogwirizanitsa maubwenzi mu timu ndi bizinesi. Ndipo uwu ndi mapeto a akazi! O, ife tiribe ofanana ndi momwe tingathe kumverera.
Inde. Komano amayi akhoza kupsinjika ndi ngozi ya hypertrophying kalembedwe kameneka, kuchokera kwa wokondedwa kuti ayambe kukhala mayi, nkhuku, "- akuchenjeza Tatiana Ivanova. Kenaka ogonjerawo amangoyamba kulamulira bwana wotero, chifukwa adzawona zofooka zake: "Eya, kamodzi ndinatha kuwamvera chifundo, mtsogoleri uja anapita kukomana nane, mutha kuchichita nthawi yachiwiri ndi yachitatu." Simungathe kuwoloka mzerewu. Kapena tsiku limodzi lokha muyenera kuyika omvera pamalo. Ngati mukumva kuti mwakhala pamutu panu, mukufunika kumwetulira nkhope yanu (izi ndi zovomerezeka!), Modzichepetsa komanso mwaulemu gwiritsani ntchito "i". Fotokozani zomwe simukuzikonda. Izi zidzakhalanso kutsutsa kokondweretsa pamene simungapite kwa munthu aliyense, koma lankhulani za chifukwa chomwe bizinesi simukukondera.
Ngati ine ndinali mfumukazi
Mkazi wamalonda ndi bwana wamakono wamakono amabwera ku timu m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Ndipo malinga ndi izi, iye ayenera kumanga ubale ndi timu m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Tiyeni tiwone momwe.
Mkhalidwe umodzi: unachokera ku gulu. Pachifukwa ichi, vuto lalikulu ndikumanga kalembedwe katsopano ka maubwenzi ndi anthu omwe anali ogwira nawo dzulo. Ndiyenera kusiya maubwenzi akale ndikubwezeretsanso mabwenzi apamtima. Bwana woteroyo ayenera kuchepetsa msanga gawo lawo ndikukhazikitsa malo ake. Kuvuta sikutaya chifundo cha ubalewu. Pa mbali imodzi, tiyenera kufotokoza momveka bwino kuti: "Ndili wokonzeka kukumverani!" Komabe, kuti mupeze malire omveka bwino, zomwe zingatheke ndi zomwe siziloledwa kwa ogonjera.
Pomwe ndikuphunzitsa , nthawi zonse ndimalankhula kuti amayi amamalonda ndi akazi amakono amawauza kuti mabungwe awo atsopano azikhala oyenerera kugawidwa kwa magulu oyenerera. Ndipo ine, atsikana, ndikuyesa ntchito yanu pazomwezo. " Wotsogolera mutuyo ayenera kudziwa zomwe aliyense ayenera kutsatira: ntchito, nthawi, kudalirika, kukakamizidwa komanso palibe "zizolowezi za akazi", kutanthauza, miseche, kukambirana ndi malemba. Chachiwiri: ayenera kufulumira kukakamiza anzake osati "ku", koma "kuchokera": kuchenjeza zomwe sakufuna mu gulu lake. Ndipo chachitatu, kuti mtsogoleri wamkulu ayenera kunena pa msonkhano wake woyamba: "Ndine wokonzeka kukhala mnzanu. Koma tiyeni tigwirizane nanu: Ndikhoza komanso kulimbikitsa izi, koma sindimvetsera ngakhale zinthu zanga ku ofesi yanga, chifukwa zimavulaza bizinesi yathu. " Chokondweretsa kwambiri ndi chakuti ambiri mwa "Lady Boss" atsopano amatha kusonkhana, koma si onse omwe amatsatira kutsatira mfundozi. Ndiponso chifukwa cha chikhalidwe cha akazi.
Mkhalidwe wachiwiri : "nyenyezi ya alendo". Mu kasamalidwe amakono, iwo akuthawa kale kuchitidwe kwa atsogoleri oitanira "kuchokera kunja." Zimakhulupirira kuti ndi zopindulitsa kwambiri kuti ukhale akatswiri mu timu. Mfundo ndi yakuti ngakhale munthu ali ndi phindu lanji, adzafunika zaka chimodzi ndi theka kuti amvetse ntchito ya kampaniyo. Chifukwa chake mavuto awiri a mtsogoleri watsopano "woitanidwa": kukhazikitsa udindo quo ngati katswiri yemwe amathera ndalama zake, kuphatikizapo kugwirizanitsa timu kuti tiwone ngati membala wa timu. Pano mukuyenera kukumbukira kuti tsache lililonse limamvetsa nthambi. Mkazi wamalonda ndi bwana wamakono wamakono akuyenera kukomana ndi membala aliyense wa gululo, kuyankhulana naye, kupeza zolinga zomwe amadzikonzera yekha mu kampaniyo, fufuzani zakukhosi kwake.
Kodi ndikumvetsa kovuta kwa mtsogoleri wotere? Kampaniyo mwina inali ndi mapulogalamu pa malo awa. Chomwecho, chinthu choyamba kuchita ndi kuchita chivomerezo ndikupeza kuti anthu awa ndi ndani. "Ngati ine ndikanakhala mfumukazi, ndikawaitanira ku ofesi yanga ndikumanena kuti:" Atsikana (kapena anyamata), izo zinachitika ... Sindinadutse aliyense, chinali chizindikiro cha utsogoleri wapamwamba. Koma ndikufuna ndikukutsimikizireni kuti ndidzachita zonse zomwe ndingathe kuti mukhale omasuka ndi ine. Ngati munadziwona nokha, ndiye kuti mukuyenera. " Ndiyeno olembapo apampando wanu ayenera kupatsidwa zokonda, mapulojekiti ena enieni, kuti athe kudziwonetsera okha.
Tsindikani pamisonkhano ndi akatswiri olemekezeka otani. Ndicho chinthu choyamba kuchita ndi kuwathandiza. Koma ngati simukuwona yankho, mutha kumvetsa kuti mfumu ili maliseche, yesani mothandizidwa ndi gulu (osati enieni) kutsogolera aliyense kumapeto kuti anthu awa akukoka kampaniyo ndi zochita zawo.
Mkhalidwe wachitatu: mwiniwake wa bizinesi, Ndikofunika kukumbutsanso kachiwiri za "dzanja lachitsulo mumaguluvesi a velvet", komanso za kulamulira maganizo, komanso zachisomo cha ubale. Kungowonjezerani ndi zomwe zimatchulidwa kuti ndi gawo lachigawo - munthu monga chilengedwe nthawi zonse amatetezera gawo lake.
Chifukwa chake, mu bizinesi, simuyenera kutengera pa abale ndi abwenzi. Ili ndi kulakwa kwakukulu komwe kumawononga kwambiri kwa ambiri. Ndipotu, woyang'anira wabwino ndi mmodzi yemwe amachokera kwa osadziwa amapanga gulu la anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo ofanana. Mtsogoleri wapakati amayesera kuwombetsa timuyo kuchokera kwa okondedwa ake ndipo potsiriza amasokoneza maubwenzi awiri ndi abwenzi.
Pomalizira, sizodabwitsa kunena za njira "yopanda malire" kwa oyang'anira. Pali nthano kuti n'zovuta kuti mkazi atsogolere amuna. Ndipotu, amayi ambiri amanena kuti ndizosiyana kwambiri. Amuna angathe ngakhale kukhululukira abwana ena zofooka zazimayi ndikuwazindikira ngati mtundu wa chithumwa. Chinthu chokhacho, mtsogoleri wotere ayenera nthawi yomweyo kuti adziwe momwe aliri mu gulu, ndiyeno amuna achimuna adzayamba kuzindikira kuti ali mtsogoleri. Pa abambo ogwira ntchito zamalonda ndi akazi amakono "kukakamiza ulamuliro" ndi kovuta kwambiri, kugonana kofooka sikulemekezedwa ndi mpando, koma ndi makhalidwe a bwana. Choncho, ndi amayi onse ayenera kumanga maubwenzi awo. Kwenikweni, pangani nkhani iliyonse yamaganizo ndipo mu utsogoleri mumagwiritsa ntchito zolimbikitsa zawo: chokhumba - kukweza udindo wokhudzana ndi mavuto azachuma - kupereka mwayi wowonjezerapo ndalama. Chinthu chachikulu mu gulu la amai ndikupanga chikhulupiliro ndi kumvetsetsa. Ndiyeno mungathe kuyembekezera kuti wogwira ntchito aliyense "ndipo hatchiyo imayima, ndipo mulowetse nyumba yotentha."