Pali anthu omwe samadyetsa mkate, koma amapereka mwayi wokambirana za moyo wa ena. Tsoka ilo, pafupifupi pafupifupi aliyense ali ndi munthu wotere. Kaŵirikaŵiri ndi dona, ngakhale kuti miseche ingakhale munthu. Koma kaya ndi munthu wotani, funso limachitika nthawi zonse: chochita ndi momwe mungadzitetezere ku zokambirana nthawi zonse?
Kuchepetsa
Kuti ateteze zinsinsi zawo, ndibwino kuti asawaulule onse. Inde, nthawi zina mumafuna kugawana chimwemwe chanu kapena mavuto anu, koma ngati mudziwa kuti pali miseche mu timu, ndibwino kuti musachite. Ngakhale pamene mumalankhulana ndi mnzako-anzako, musaiwale kuti zokambirana zanu zingamveke kapena mnzanuyo amangozisiya. Mphuno ili ndi chinthu chodabwitsa, mungathe kunena kuti n'zotheka: amadziwa momwe angadziwonetsere okha, kumene amalankhula za chinachake chatsopano ndi kumva zonse zomwe antchito awo akukambirana. Anthu amadabwa ndi momwe ming'onong'o amadziwira za chirichonse. Pali zowona kuti ali ndi zipangizo zonse zoyendetsa ntchito ku ofesi. Ngakhale kuti izi siziri choncho. Mwachidule, munthu aliyense amakhala ndi zolinga zenizeni ndikupita kwa iwo. Cholinga chachikulu cha miseche ndicho kupeza zambiri, kotero kuti pambuyo pake tikambirane ndi anthu ena. Kotero, amayi a mtundu uwu wa malingaliro amachita zonse kuti azisunga zochitika zonse zomwe zikuchitika kuzungulira iwo. Kuchokera ku miseche, ndizosatheka kubisa chinachake. Nthawi zonse amadziŵa chirichonse, ndipo ngati sakudziwa, amalingalira ndikupereka mobwerezabwereza kuti zidzakhala zovuta kuti anthu asakayike. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kufotokozera nkhani zanu, kambiranani ndi anthu omwe sagwiritseni ntchito, osati ku ofesi, koma kwinakwake kumalo kumene kulibe makutu a miseche sangakufikireni.
Musaphimbe mkwiyo wanu.
Anthu ambiri amalakwitsa kwambiri - samauza anthu akunja kuti sakukondwera ndi khalidwe lawo. Chomwecho ndikuti amayi oterewa sazindikira ngakhale kuti amachita zosayenera. Ndi zachilengedwe kuti akambirane ena pamene akupuma. Choncho, kufalitsa miseche yotsatira, akaziwa saganiza kuti amakhumudwitsa khalidwe lawo, amawononga moyo wawo ndi zina zotero. Choncho, ngati gulu lanu liri osasangalala ndi khalidwe la miseche, ndi bwino kulankhula naye. Ndipo chitani zonse palimodzi, kuti donayo asaganize, ngati kusakhutira ndi khalidwe lake ndi lingaliro la munthu mmodzi yekha. Choncho, ngati mwaganiza kuthetsa miseche, tasonkhanitsani magulu onse kuti apite. Konzekerani kuti miseche sikumvetsa chomwe vuto liri. Iye saliwona chirichonse cholakwika pa zochita zake. Choncho, muyenera kumudziwa kwa nthawi yayitali ndi kufotokozera za vutoli. Mwa njira, ndibwino kuti tisapfuule ndi kutemberera. Kumbukirani kuti simuyenera kukhumudwitsa, koma fotokozani kuti khalidwe lake silovomerezeka. Ngati mupita ku kulira ndi kuopseza, zingatheke kuti mayiyo akwiya. Ndipo ngati msungwanayo akukwiyitsa antchito ake, ndiye kuti aliyense angathe kuvutika. Iye amatsutsa umboni kwa aliyense ndipo ngati akufuna kuti athe kusokoneza maubwenzi ndi anthu ena onse. Choncho, samalani ndi kulingalira ndi anthu oterewa. Musayese kudya kapena kubwezera ndi ndalama zomwezo. Ingolankhulani ndi iye za kuti aliyense alibe nkhawa pamene moyo wawo umakambirane mobwerezabwereza. Choncho, antchito akupempha kuti asakhale ndi chidwi ndi maubwenzi awo, mavuto awo, ndi njira zawo mwakhama. Iwo okha amafuna kumvetsa zochitika zawo, ndipo ngati akusowa thandizo, iwo adzatembenukira kwa icho. Ndipotu, miseche ndi yovuta kumvetsetsa, zomwe zikukambidwa, koma ngati munthu amene amafalitsa mphekesera, ndi munthu wabwino ndipo sadziwa zomwe akuchita, ndiye amamvera zofuna za ena ndikuyesera kuti asatero .
Akuwombera
Mwamwayi, pali miseche yomwe ndi zokambirana zomwe sizipereka zotsatira. Amangomva ngati akuchita mofananamo kutchula makhalidwe awo, iwo sapita. Pankhaniyi, mungagwiritse ntchito chida chomwe timachidziwa kuchokera kusukulu - kukwatulidwa. Ambiri angapeze kuti ali achibwana, komabe, anyamata amachitira miseche. Chinthuchi ndi chakuti anthu oterowo amafunika kulankhulana nthawi zonse. Ayenera kuwuza winawake chinachake, mwinamwake amangoyamba kufota. Ndipo ngati anthu omwe samvetsera kwa iwo amamvetsera ndi kuyankhula nawo, ndiye khalidwe ili kwa mkazi wa mtundu uwu ndiwopseza kwenikweni. Iwo samangokhala ndi chidwi chobwera kuntchito, chifukwa sakufunikira kumeneko. Kukhala chete ndi kunyalanyaza kwathunthu munthu woteroyo kudzakhala chilango chake chabwino. Nthawi zonse konzekerani miseche kuti ayese kuti mutulutse. Tiyenera kugonjetsa gulu lonse ndipo tisamamvetsere zomwe akunena. Mungavomereze ndi antchito kuti ngati wina akumva chinachake chomwe chimamamatira, ndibwino kuti mum'fikire munthu yemwe amamunamizira amamuuza za vutoli. Kokha mulimonsemo musalole kuti mukhale ndi chidziwitso cha dzina lanu. Ngati munthu mmodzi amatha kutaya, chibwenzi sichidzapambana, chifukwa miseche idzamva mphamvu yake ndipo idzapeza njira yosangolankhulana aliyense, komanso kukangana wina ndi mnzake. Choncho khalani chete ndipo musawononge mawu ake. Pambuyo pake munthu woteroyo sangokhala ndi moyo. Wina akhoza kusiya kusonkhana, wina amayesera kulankhula za wina kuti amunamize, ndipo ena amatha kumvetsa ndi kuvomereza zolakwa zawo. Mulimonsemo, ngati mungathe kukhala ndi miseche, mpweya wanu mu timu yanu idzapita patsogolo kwambiri.
Miseche ndi vuto la pafupifupi timu iliyonse. Anthu oterewa amachititsa kusamvana pakati pa anzako, kukhumudwa kuntchito komanso kawirikawiri. Choncho, ngati mupeza kuti pali miseche kapena miseche mu gulu lanu, onetsetsani kuti mukuchita mwanjira iliyonse. Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito pamwambapa kapena kubwera ndi chinachake nokha. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kugwira ntchito ndi gulu lonse ndikusiya zochitikazo. Khalani otsimikiza, mukamalola kuti miseche ikuchiteni, zomwe ikufuna, kuwononga maubwenzi anu ndi antchito ndi ntchitoyo.