Kwa zaka zambiri zakhala zikudziwika kuti malingaliro anzeru amadza m'maganizo pambuyo pake. Mwachitsanzo, aliyense amawoneka kuti amadziwa mwambi "Ubwenzi ndiubwenzi, ndipo utumiki ndi utumiki," koma pafupifupi tonsefe tinkayesedwa kuti tibweretse munthu wina kugwira ntchito ngati watsopano. Kapena, m'malo mwake, pitani kukagwira ntchito ku kampani komwe mnzanu kapena achibale amayamba kale kugwira ntchito. Ndipo nthawi iliyonse yomwe timaganizira mozama lingaliro limeneli, m'malo mosiya nthawi yomweyo ...
MUZIKHALA ZAMADZI
Tiyeni tiganizire, nchifukwa ninji lingaliro la mgwirizano ndi anthu ozoloŵera lingabwere m'maganizo? Mwinamwake chifukwa chithunzi choterocho chikuwoneka chikulamuliridwa ndi chodziwiratu. Chikhalidwe cha munthu, maluso ake amadziwika ndipo timakhutitsidwa, zikutanthauza kuti zidzakhala zosavuta kugwira naye ntchito. Tsoka, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosiyana kwambiri.
* Ngati sitinagwire ntchito limodzi ndi bwenzi lathu, kotero timadziwa za luso lake la kulenga ndi luso la akatswiri, osati onse. Pambuyo pake, malingaliro athu ponena za iye amapangidwa makamaka kuchokera ku zokambirana ndi munthu uyu. Koma anthu sakhala otha kudzipereka okha. Winawake amadzitamandira yekha, akuyesera kudzionjezera kudzidalira ndi (kapena) "mphamvu yake yeniyeni" pamaso pa ena. Ndipo wina amachepetsa luso lawo, chifukwa amamva zovuta. Inde, ndipo ife eni, titakhala pansi pa chithumwa cha umunthu wokondwa, nthawizina ife tiri o, ngati osakondera.
* Makhalidwe onse omwe "mudakumana nawo" pakuyankhulana (udindo, chipiriro, ntchito, etc.), poyamba, sichikayikira. Koma, poyamba, munthu yemweyo kuntchito ndi kunja kwa ntchito akhoza kuchita mosiyana kwathunthu, makamaka munthu. Chachiwiri, poyerekeza ndi inu mnzanu akhoza kudziwonetsa bwino osati chifukwa chakuti ndi munthu wa golidi, koma chifukwa inu mumamukonda. Kapena muli ndi maunansi apamtima, koma ochepa ... Mwachidule, ndi anthu ozoloŵera ndi osadziwika, pafupifupi tonsefe timachita mosiyana. Zobwenzi zobwenzi.
Chifukwa chake makhalidwe: ndizotheka kuti akuluakulu anu kapena anzanu sagwirizana nawo malingaliro a umunthu mwakumudziwa. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mumayesa kuwononga maubwenzi anu ndi udindo wanu. Ndipotu, kuyang'aniridwa kulikonse kwa wogwira ntchito watsopano yemwe mumamutchula kumakhala kolakwa. Inu munabweretsa chinachake, inu mumayankha. Awa ndi lamulo losayimika, koma anthu ambiri amaganiza mosadziwa.
PAMODZI NDIPONSO KUDZIWA
Kuphatikizana ndi kusagwirizana kwa malingaliro a maphwando onse omwe akukhudzidwa ndi vutolo, palinso vuto lina lomwe limakhala podikira iwo omwe asankha "kukondweretsa munthu wamba".
* Pobweretsa bwenzi ku kampani kapena kampani yanu, timataya ufulu wathu, kupatula ngati, chilengedwe chakupatsani 100% pofigism. Osati kokha kuti poyamba, kuwonjezera pa ntchito zanu zapamwamba, muyenera kugwira ntchito monga "kutsogolera" - kuwonetsa munthu watsopano kwa anthu onse oyenera ndi malo, muyenera kupanga zosankha maminiti onse: ndi ndani omwe mupite kukamwa khofi kapena kudya, monga ndi Mungathe kuyankhula. Ndipotu, ngati mnzanu ndi bwenzi lanu, muyenera kusamala kuti zinsinsi za banja lanu "zisasokoneze" muutumiki, ndi ofesi - panyumba.
* Ngati wina wa anzako panthaŵi yomwe wogwira ntchito watsopanoyo akufika adagwiritsira ntchito malo anu apadera, ndiye kuti kusamuka kwa "nsanje" n'kotheka, kumayesetsa kuti mukhale ndi chidwi pakati pa abwenzi awiri - "aborigine" ndi "akulembera".
* Konzani kuti mukuyenera kutulutsa "masamba a biography" ndi makhalidwe achidule kwa ena ngati mbali imodzi, ndi ina. Ndipo, ngati simusankha mawu aliwonse mwaulere, akhoza kutero - mwinamwake - "kusambira" muzitsulo zosayenera.
Sitikutha kunena kuti nthawi zonse zowoneka pamwambazi sizingagonjetsedwe. Inu mukhoza, ndithudi, monga chirichonse mu moyo wathu. Komabe, ziganizo zomwe zingapangitse kuti zikhalepo pakakhala mgwirizano ndi anzanu kapena achibale, ziwoneke mochulukirapo kusiyana ndi zina.
MABWENZI AMAFUNA KUSANKHA KWAMBIRI ...
Koma, mwinamwake, kutaya kovuta kwambiri komwe kungakhale kodikira pa njira iyi ndiko kutayika kwa bwenzi. Zitha kuchitika m'njira zambiri.
* Nthawi zina, maubwenzi abwino amatha pang'ono pang'onopang'ono komanso osazindikira. Kufika pazifukwa zomwe kulankhulana sikuchitika mwachindunji, koma kumachepetsedwa ndi malire ena - malingaliro a kampani (omwe sangagwirizane ndi enieni), makhalidwe abwino, ndi zina zotero - onse awiri omwe kale anali abwenzi amakhala ndi zifukwa zong'ono ndi zopweteketsana wina ndi mzake kwa mnzanu. Kenaka mmodzi wa iwo sankagwirizana pazoguduli kuchokera kwa akuluakulu a boma, ndiye wina adanena za mavuto a banja la wina ndi mawu ena theka kuposa momwe tingafunire. Ndiponso wapita. Ndipo anapita ... Pang'onopang'ono ubale umayamba kuzizira ndipo kuchokera ku chikondi choyambirira chauzimu palibe chotsatira. Ndi ubwenzi ndifunikira kuchoka.
* Chidziwitso chachiwiri chotheka ndicho kudziwika kosadziwika kwa makhalidwe osadziwika a munthu wodziwika kale. Mwadzidzidzi, mnzanu wina mwadzidzidzi adagonjetsa chilakolako chofuna kukondwera ndi akuluakulu ake, kukwera mmwamba, kupeza ndalama zambiri, ndi zina zotero. Ndipo amayamba kuchita zosafunika za ubwenzi wauzimu ndi bwenzi la dzulo. N'zachidziwikire kuti aliyense ayenera kusamalira moyo wake wokha. Koma ndi chinthu chimodzi ngati mutapikisana ndi anthu omwe sali pafupi kwambiri, omwe ali ndi inu pansi pa zofanana. Ndipo palinso chinthu china, pamene mumapikisana ndi mnzanu wapamtima, msuweni wachiwiri kapena mnzanga, amene anapanga kulichiki pamodzi m'bokosi la mchenga ...
* Mng'alu wachitatu ulipo pamene abwenzi ali pa masitepe osiyanasiyana, otchedwa "utumiki" - poyamba kapena nthawi. Zopeka, chirichonse chiri chosavuta: kuntchito ndiwe bwana ndi wogonjera, kunyumba - abwenzi. Ndipo kupulumuka kukaponyera kotereku sikungatheke. Ubwenzi ndi mnzanu wakale umakhudzidwa ndi kaduka, kukwera mu mtima ndi madzi ozizira, ndi mkwiyo pawekha. Wina amakwiya kuti malipiro achiwiri ndi apamwamba ndipo ntchitoyo ndi yoyera, yachiwiri ikukwiyitsa kuti choyamba chimafuna kuti adziwe kuti ali ndi mwayi wapadera komanso kukhala ndi chidwi kwambiri.
M'mawu ake, kuitana mnzanu kwa anzako, chimodzi kapena chimzake chidzabweretsa zotayika. Ndipo kaŵirikaŵiri imfa zimenezi zimakhala zopanda chilungamo. Choncho, ndibwino kuti tipewe mayesero. Ndi bwino kumupatsa ndalama ngongole kapena malangizo abwino, kumene mungayang'anire ntchito yatsopano! Ndiyeno ubwenzi ndi ubwenzi, ndipo utumiki ku utumiki sungakhale chotchinga.