Mwamuna ndi mkazi akakhala ndi bizinesi ya banja limodzi kapena amagwira ntchito limodzi, nthawi zambiri amatsutsana. Kugwirizana pakati pa ogwira nawo ntchito kuntchito kwakhala kukuonongeka, koma bwanji ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi akugwira ntchito pamodzi? Kodi banja lanu lidzakhala lamphamvu chifukwa mulibe tsiku lonse, kapena mosiyana, lidzakhala mayesero aakulu? Palibe yankho lachidziwitso, ngakhale kuli koyenera kulingalira mbali zonse zabwino ndi zoipa.
Zochita za ntchito ndi mnzanuyo
Kotero, pa malo opikisana kwambiri a ogwira ntchito kuntchito, mwamuna ndi mkazi ogwira ntchito nthawi zonse adzakhala ndi odalirika kumbuyo, ogwira nawo ntchito omwe sadzayesera kupulumuka, kunyenga, koma mosiyana adzathandiza pa zovuta ndipo sadzachotsa mgwirizano umene wakhala ukudikira kwa nthaŵi yaitali.
Banja limagwirira ntchito pamodzi, ngati njira imodzi, kumene amamvetsetsana ndi kuthandizana. Choncho, mudzakhala otsimikiza kwambiri kuntchito, ngakhale mutakhala atsopano.
Popeza banja ndi gulu limodzi, ndilofala mu timu kuti tigaŵane zambiri, kuphatikizapo chidziwitso, ndipo ngati zili bwino, mungapeze madalitso ochuluka. Nthawi yamasana, simungokondwera pokha pokhapokha, komanso mumasinthanitsa uthenga omwe anzanu ambiri samagawana nawo. Izi zikhoza kukhala nkhani za mgwirizano wokonzekera kapena za kuchepetsa antchito. Koma ngakhale chizoloŵezi chodziŵika cha nthawi yoti apereke malipiro kapena momwe zilili lero lino akuluakulu angakhalenso othandiza.
Mavuto ogwirira ntchito pamodzi ndi njira zothetsera mavuto
Vuto likhoza kukhala kuti okwatirana omwe amakhala pamodzi ndikugwirira ntchito mogwirizana amatha kuzindikira ngati zonsezi.Zomwe kupambana kwa mnzanuyo kumayamba kutchulidwa ndi mitsempha, ndiye izi ndi chinthu chimodzi, koma chochita ndi cholakwika ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi achita kulakwitsa. Pambuyo pa zonsezi, zonsezi ziyenera kugawidwa pakati. Ndipo ngati mnzanu wodalirika sangakhale mabwenzi anu, ndiye kuti omenyana naye angayese kukubwezerani. Mavuto oterewa amalepheretsa ntchitoyi ndipo amatha kugwirizana. Pofuna kupewa izi, muyenera kuwonetsa timu kuti inu, ngakhale banja, komabe muli anthu awiri osiyana okha. Tsegulani pamzere wanu womasuka bwino, ndipo pangani oyanjana ndi anzanu.
Mavuto ambiri, ngati banjali likugwira ntchito pamodzi, lingabweretse chizoloŵezi cha anthu kukambirana anzawo ndi ukapolo. Ndizosangalatsa kumvetsera miseche za mwamuna wake kuchokera ku zilankhulo zoyipa kuntchito ndipo ngakhale zowonjezera sizowona, zikhoza vseravno kukhala chiyeso chenicheni chokhulupirirana wina ndi mzake.
Koma ngati simungathe kumvetsera miseche, ndiye kuti zolakwitsa za mnzanuyo, ngakhale zazing'ono, m'ntchito yogwirizana ndizovuta kuziiwala. Ndipo sizimangokhala zokhazokha. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti anthu amakopeka ndi kugonana ndi mnzawo wapamtima, ndipo atangokhalira kugonana, chilakolakocho chimatha. Mwamtheradi mosamvetsetsa, ife, pokhala pamalo amodzi, tikuyamba kufufuza kupambana ndi kugonjetsedwa kwa theka lathu lachiwiri. Ndipo ngati mwamuna ali ndi ntchito yowonongeka, ingachepetse kukongola kwake kwa kugonana ndikupangitsa kusagwirizana mumoyo wapamtima pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Komabe, okwatirana omwe amachita gawo limodzi la aphunzitsi angatengedwe kwambiri, kuti apambane bwino ndipo padzakhala mpikisano waukulu pakati pawo, zomwe zingawononge moyo wapamwamba kwa banja limodzi.
Komano, moyo wa banja sungasokoneze katswiri. Ngati muli pa loggerheads ndi mnzanu, ndiye kuti kuntchito kubisa mkwiyo wanu ndi mkwiyo zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri. Sikutchulidwa kuti mupitiliza kufotokozera mgwirizano pakati pa malo ogwira ntchito kapena zoipira, mudzakhumudwitsa mnzanu. Makhalidwe oipawa sangathe kungovulaza maganizo, koma kuchepetsa mphamvu.
Ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi amagwira ntchito pamodzi, amaika "ntchito yobwerera kunyumba", ndiko kuti, kubwerera kunyumba, kupitiliza kulingalira ndi kukambirana wina ndi mzake yekha ndi nkhani kuntchito.
Pofuna kuthana ndi zotsatira zolakwika za ntchito pamlengalenga m'banja mwanu, muyenera kusiyanitsa momveka bwino pakati pa moyo ndi umoyo. Pamene zitseko zaofesi zikukutsatirani, yesetsani kuchotsa "katswiri" m'mutu mwanu ndikusiya kuyang'ana munthu amene mumamubwerera kunyumba ngati mnzanu yemwe sanakupatseni lipoti lina. Lankhulani naye pazinthu zosamvetsetseka - nyengo, ndale, kutentha kwa dziko, ngati sikungakhudze ntchito. Pitani ku sitolo pamodzi ndikukambirana zolinganiza za madzulo. Ndipo bwino - nthawi zina kupita kunyumba. Lolani kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yanu yopuma ndikulankhulana ndi anzanu mosiyana. Osati moyipa, ngati pa nthawi ya maholide iwe masiku osachepera angayambe. Pambuyo pake, patapita kanthawi kochepa mukulankhulana, kubwerera kunyumba pamodzi, kawiri ndi yosangalatsa kwambiri.