Anthu ambiri wamba, akudziyesa okha, amadzifunsa okha zachuma chawo, kusoweka, chifukwa chake wina amakhala wosayenerera pamoyo wawo, pomwe ena, omwe alibe luso komanso omwe amatha kukwera kavalo nthawi zonse. Kodi chikhalidwe ndi chiyani, anthu osauka samachita khama, kukhala ndi zochuluka kuchokera kwa makolo olemera, kapena kutsegula bizinesi yawo, akugwira ntchito yawo okha. Zimakhala zokhumudwitsa nthawi zina mukawona munthu wabizinesi wopambana yemwe poyamba, pokhala naye m'kalasi, amaphunzira masamu, adalemba masamu kuchokera kwa inu, sanamvetse kalikonse mu chemistry. Ndipo tsopano iye ndi wamalonda! Ndipo anthu onga inu, ogwira ntchito mwakhama, amagwira ntchito mwakhama kuti apindule. Kuchita zinthu mopanda chilungamo, kumachititsa kunyada, kaduka kwambiri ndi mkwiyo.
Tsiku lina pamene mudakali wamng'ono munalota za moyo wokongola, mumaganiza kuti zonse zidzakhala zosiyana, mwinamwake, mudzapeza moyo wokongola, kutsegula bizinesi yanu, kapena kupeza ntchito. Koma chifukwa cha izi ndikofunikira kugwira ntchito mwakhama, kuphunzira, kukhala ndi maphunziro abwino. Ndicho chifukwa chake iwo ankakhala molimba kwambiri ku sukulu, pa zokambirana pa sukuluyi, iwo ankakanikizira nkhaniyi asanayese mayeso, kunyalanyaza mpumulo ndikuyenda ndi abwenzi, adasinthira miyoyo yawo "panthawi ina" pamene zonse zinali zabwino, ndi zina zotero. Inu nokha munasintha pang'ono, simunaganizirepo mphindi imodzi yosavuta. Taganizirani, mwinamwake wina adakuwonerani moyo wanu? Pambuyo pake, mwinamwake izi sindizo kusankha kwanu, koma kodi kusankha makolo anu kapena anthu omwe mukukhalamo? Monga lamulo, ntchitoyi yapatsidwa kwa makolo, kusamalira kwambiri za tsogolo la mwana wawo. Chowonadi, ichi si choipa, koma ngati muyang'ana zochita zawo kuchokera kumbali inayo, anthu omwe amakukondani komanso akufunira zabwino, akhoza kukuwonongani inu nokha, osadziŵa.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti makolo anu kapena anthu ena omwe akuthandizira pa kulera kwanu sanakhale olemera ngakhale anthu olemera koma, komabe, kukuphunzitsani inu, iwo anakupatsani inu malangizo momwe angakhalire bwino. Munthu wanjala, monga mukudziwa, sali mzanga wa nthawi zonse, koma munthu wosauka, sangathe kuphunzitsa kukhala wolemera! Chowonadi chophweka ichi nthawizonse chimakhala chofunikira nthawi zonse, ndipo icho chimakhala chomwecho mpaka pano. Kwa zaka zambiri kusukulu iwe unaphunzitsidwa kuti ndikofunika kuphunzira bwino, ndipo kenako udzakhala bwino. Koma moyo ndiuma, ndikupitiriza kutsimikizira kwa alendo onse kuti izi siziri choncho! Maphunziro a masiku ano, ochokera ku sukulu kupita ku yunivesite, sakhala atalengedwa konse kuti aphunzitse, kuphunzitsa ma ward awo momwe angamasulire, momwe angapezere chuma ndi kukhala ndi ulemu. M'malo mwake, mabungwe onse a maphunziro ndi "mafakitale" omwe amaphunzitsa anthu ogwira ntchito, ndikukugwiritsani ntchito payekha. Inde, palibe yemwe amalankhula za izi, koma ndi zokwanira kuti ziphatikize mfundo ndi nzeru, ndipo zonse zidzatha. Zomvetsa chisoni ngati zikumveka, koma simungakwanitse kukwaniritsa zotsatira zake, simungathe kumasula bizinesi yanu, kukhala munthu womasuka ndi wodziimira payekha, motsogoleredwa ndi malingaliro, zochitika zomwe mumapatsidwa ndi malo anu. Mwina anthu opambana sangathe kufotokozera chinsinsi cha kupambana kwawo, chifukwa njirayi ikupindulitsa. Munthu wodalirika, osadziŵa bwino chifukwa chake akuchita izi, osasamala, sakuyenda muzitseko, koma pazowonjezereka, pang'onopang'ono pang'onopang'ono, kumakhala pali chiyambi cha chitukuko, kupita patsogolo momwe akuyendera. Mosiyana ndi anthu odzichepetsa kwambiri, omwe ali ndi khalidwe labwino komanso lamaphunziro omwe amatsatira mwatsatanetsatane malangizo omwe apatsidwa kuyambira ali aang'ono, anthu opambana sadzidodometsa ndi zoletsa zosafunikira ndi makhalidwe abwino.
Kodi mukukumbukira zimene makolo anu anakupatsani? Ndithudi iwo anali ngati: "Kuti ukhale bwino iwe uyenera kugwira ntchito mwakhama", "Ndi owopsa kuti akhale wolemera, ali ndi moyo wopanda pake", "Usayesere kuonekera kwa ena, mwina sungakonde wina", "Ndakhala moyo wanga wonse Anagwira ntchito ku fakitale, ndipo tsopano ndi nthawi yopangira ndalama "," Munthu wopanda maphunziro sangathe kukhala ndi moyo wabwino ", ndi zina zotero. Inde, makolowo sanafune kukuvulazani, pokhapokha mwa umbuli wawo wopereka chitsanzo cha moyo wofanana ndi wawo, chifukwa sakudziwa za mitundu ina ya moyo. Komanso, n'zovuta kutsutsana ndi makolo, popeza kuti kulimbikitsidwa kulikonse kumene akuchokera kumapangitsa kuti azichita zachiwawa. Kufuna mwana wawo zabwino zokhazokha, makolo amawongolera maganizo awo, osawona njira ina iliyonse kusiyana ndi omwe amasankhidwa ndi iwo, olondola kwambiri kuchokera kumalo awo.
Momwe mungakhalire mumkhalidwe umenewu? Sewani nokha, mwaukali komanso mosadzikonda mukusemphana ndi "abwino otsutsa", ndikulowa mosatsimikizika, kapena mukugonjera ndi kuvomereza ndondomeko ya moyo? Chinthu chachikulu ndikumvetsetsa mfundo zonse zomwe zimachitika. Chifukwa cha zolephera zonse zimayikidwa mu malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro osamvetsetseka, kuchepetsa zochita. Kuletsa kulankhulana ndi "otaika", ambiri mwa malo anu, komanso poyankhulana ndi anthu opambana, mumasintha maganizo anu ndi maganizo anu kuti mukhale ndi mwayi komanso mwayi. Ili ndi ntchito yovuta kwambiri, chifukwa mwakhala motalika kwambiri ndipo mumaphunzitsidwa kuti mukhale "kapolo", phokoso losavomerezeka, kukondwera ndi udindo wa munthu wogwira ntchito, kugwira ntchito mopanda tsankho chifukwa cha ndalama, ndikukumana ndi chimwemwe chenicheni.
Tsoka, zikhale momwe zingathere, mamiliyoni ndi amalonda onse sangathe kukhala, koma kukhala ndi ufulu kuchokera ku zovuta za anthu ena ndi zolakwika chifukwa chazomwe zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri!