Kulankhulana ndi gawo loyenera, lomwe tsogolo lanu likudalira, ndipo limakhudza ntchito yanu. Zambiri zimadalira zotsatira za kuyankhulana, ndipo simumenya bwanji nkhope yanu mudope? Pano, kanthu kakang'ono kalikonse kangathe kusewera kapena kwa inu. Mwachitsanzo, abwana akhoza kukukonzerani kuti muwone momwe mukukonzekera kuti musamapanikizidwe kapena kuwona luso lanu.
Inde, n'zosatheka kukonzekera zochitika zonse, momwe zochitika zonse zidzakhalira, sangathe kuona chilichonse. Mwachibadwa, chinachake sichidzapita molingana ndi dongosolo. Koma ndizotheka kuti inu muwonetsere zizindikiro zina, momwe mungakhalire molondola pa zokambirana.
Malangizo a momwe mungakhalire mu zokambirana
1. Musachedwe, yesetsani kuchoka panyumbamo pasanapite nthawi. Kuchedwa kwa msonkhano woyamba sikudzakukondani.
2. Muyenera kudziwa bwino zomwe kampaniyi imachita. Musanayambe kuyankhulana, tenga nthawi kuti mudziwe zambiri, ndiye panthawi yolankhuliranayo mumakhala omasuka.
3. Mukugwira ntchito ndipo muyenera kuvala, monga momwe ziyenera kukhalira. Choyamba, chiyero ndi kulondola ndizofunikira kwambiri maonekedwe anu.
4. Foni ya m'manja iyenera kutsegulidwa. Posachedwapa, cholinga chanu ndi kukambirana ndi kupeza ntchito, ndipo mukupemphani kuti musasokonezedwe.
5. Manyazi anu sangakhale owonjezera. Muyenera kusonyeza mphamvu ndi changu, wokonzeka kupita nthawi yomweyo kukagwira ntchito, koma panthawi yomweyi mukhale osamala ngati n'kotheka. Nthawi zina, onetsani chidwi pazochitikazo, yesetsani kutenga zoyamba mwapadera. Koma musapite patali, musakhale odetsedwa kapena odzikuza.
6. Fotokozani mbali zanu zolimba komanso zofooka momveka bwino. Muyenera kuimira malo omwe mukufuna, ndipo motero, mogwirizana ndi izi, muyenera kumanga njira ya khalidwe lanu.
7. Musalankhule zoipa za mabwana akale. Muyenera kumvetsetsa zomwe mawuwa angapangitse.
8. Palibe chifukwa chogonera poyankha, chifukwa posachedwa udzawululidwa, koma sikungakhale zosangalatsa.
9. Pakufunsana koyamba, ndiyambe kumayambiriro kuti afunse za phukusi la anthu komanso ndalama zambiri. Mudzakhala ndi mwayi wina wokambirana majukutuwa ngati mutapereka mayankho.
Tsopano ife tikudziwa momwe, mothandizidwa ndi malangizo awa, kuti azichita molondola mu kuyankhulana. Tsatirani malangizo awa osavuta. Mukhoza kuyankha mafunso alionse mu masewera okondweretsa, omwe mungachoke kuti mupambane.