Ubale wa bwana ndi wogonjera

Nthawi zambiri kutsogolera udindo mu kampani iliyonse ndi amuna. Pachifukwa ichi, azimayi omwe ali pansi pano amakhala ndi mgwirizano waukulu pamaso pa antchito ena. Amuna kuti apitsidwe patsogolo ayenera kukhala ndi malonda abwino ndi kukhazikika kwa khalidwe. Azimayi pambali pa malingaliro ali ndi chida champhamvu kwambiri - kukakamiza kugonana, komwe kumathandiza kukwaniritsa cholinga chomwe mwasankha mwamsanga komanso popanda mavuto. Ubwenzi ndi abwana kuntchito ndizofala m'dziko lathu ndipo zingapezeke m'makampani ambiri akuluakulu.

Kodi amai amaganiza chiyani?

Mwachidziwikire, mkazi yekhayo ndi amene angagwiritse ntchito chithumwa chake kwa abwana, omwe sali olemedwa kwathunthu ndi nyumba ndi banja. Ayenera kukhala ndi chilakolako chokopa komanso kumusonyeza kugonana.

Inde, palibe chiwerengero cha boma pa chiyanjano pakati pa bwana ndi oyang'anira. Koma chifukwa cha kachitidwe kafukufuku oposa 70% a amayi ali okonzeka kuyamba mgwirizano kuntchito. Ndi 12% zokha zomwe zimatsutsana kwambiri ndi bwana ndipo palibe chomwe chingagwirizane pa etho. Malamulo ochokera kwa abwana amadziwa kuti ndi zovuta kwambiri ndipo nthawi zina amasankha kuchoka, kuti asapangitse mavuto. Koma pali olamulira ambiri okhudzidwa kwambiri. Nthawi zina amakanidwa, amasiya chidwi ndikusintha chinthu china. Koma ndi bwino kunena momveka bwino ayi. Amuna sakuzindikira kusamvetsetsana ndi mfundo. Mayi ayenera kumutsata kwambiri, kuti asakwiyitse kapena kumulimbikitsa bwanayo. Kulankhulana konse kuyenera kugwira ntchitoyo.

Koma monga momwe tingaonere kuchokera ku ziwerengero, akazi ambiri amalota kukondana ndi bwana, koma akhoza kuimitsidwa ndi mantha kuti mwamuna kapena mnzanu adziwe. Komanso, amayi ena amadziwa kuti ngati pangotsale chiyanjano akhoza kuchotsedwa.

Mzimayi yemwe akuyambe kukambirana naye ndi bwana amadzipangira yekha, amakonda mwamuna uyu ndipo ali wokonzeka kukhala ndi lone limodzi naye. Kuchokera pa izi, mauthenga awo akutali akutali.

Mu chibwenzi ndi bwana ali ndi zolakwa zawo. Mzimayi nthawi zonse amadzimva kuti ali pansi pake. Ngakhale kunja kwa ntchito, bwana adzakhala ndi udindo wapamwamba. Nthawi zina zidzasokoneza zosangalatsa komanso mwina kukambirana nthawi zonse zokhudzana ndi ntchitoyi. Ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti ngakhale bedi silingakhoze kupulumutsa mkazi kuchotsedwa ndi malipiro ochepa. Choncho, musaiwale kuti ndi zophweka kupeza bossmozhno mofulumira ndipo iye amatha ngakhale moto kuti sangakumbukire kenanso.

Ndikofunika kwambiri mu ubale umenewu kuti uchite ndi kunena zinthu zomwe abwana amakonda. Ubwenzi uliwonse ndi mabwana ndi chiopsezo chomwe chiyenera kutengedwa mosamala.

Gulu la ntchito liyenera kuzindikira kusintha kwa ubale wa bwanayo ndi wogonjera. Mosakayikira padzakhala nsanje, mkwiyo ndi kusakhutira kwa ogwira nawo ntchito. Mgululi padzakhala miseche nthawi zonse ndipo ziyenera kukhala zokonzeka kuti zikhale zochepa.

Mkaziyo, pokomana ndi bwana, amayamba kufanizira ndi theka lake lachiwiri. Kawirikawiri izi zimabweretsa kuwonongeka kwa mantha. Mtsogoleri wotetezedwa ndi wokongola kuposa munthu wamba komanso wobadwa. Nthawi zambiri zimapindulitsa, zogwira mtima komanso zosangalatsa. Ndikofunika kuti mutu wanu ukhale pamapewa anu komanso sitepe iliyonse iyenera kuganiziridwa mosamala. Nthawi zina munthu amayamba kuchita zinthu mwachifundo komanso moolowa manja, kenako anayamba kuwerenga chikho chilichonse. M'tsogolomu, akhoza kukhala wokonda kwambiri komanso mwina amakonda kwambiri. Kawirikawiri mkazi, panthawi yoyamba akuyesa zinthu zambiri, amakana kutsutsana ndi bwana, podziwa kuti izi sizidzapindulitsa kanthu.

Zimakhala zovuta kuti amayi aziphatikiza chikondi ndi ntchito. Kutsutsidwa kulikonse kapena ndemanga zomwe iye akuziwona ndizovuta kwambiri.

Koma buku lokhala ndi bwana, kuphatikizapo zochepetsera zambiri, lili ndi mabungwe omwe amatsutsana nawo. Azimayi ali achisoni, ndipo zosangalatsa za moyo wa banja zingamuvutitse. Amasiya kudzifufuza okha, zofuna zawo zimangoyamba kugwira ntchito, khitchini ndi banja. Amayi amasiya kusangalala ndikusangalala ndi moyo. Ubale watsopano ndi zojambula zimapereka mphamvu zamphamvu, vivacity ndi kudzidalira. Ntchito ikukula mwachisangalalo, izo zimabweretsa chisangalalo. Mzimayi amalingalira mosamala zovala zake ndikupanga tsiku lililonse. Nthawi zonse amayamba kudziyang'anira yekha, kudziyang'anira yekha ndi kuyendera salons. Zindikirani kuti akazi amakhala okongola komanso okongola.

Kawirikawiri, mafilimu achikondi kuntchito sakulengezedwa. Izi zimapangitsa chiyanjano kukhala piquancy yapadera. Kukhudza mwachidule ndi kumpsompsona kumafuna kukhumba.

Kawirikawiri, bwana wawo omwe amamukonda amalimbikitsa kwambiri ntchito, ndikuthandiza kuti apange ntchito. Mtsogoleri ndi mkaziyo adzakhala ndi nkhani zofanana. Ngati wogonjera ali wochuluka komanso akuwerengera, mukhoza kupeza zambiri kuchokera ku maubwenzi amenewa.

Vseromany ndi bwana angagawidwe m'magulu atatu omwe nthawi zambiri amakumana nawo:

1. Mzimayi amalota ndipo akuyembekeza kukwatira wamkulu. Malingana ndi ziwerengero, izi zimachitika kawirikawiri ndipo ndizopusa kwambiri kuyembekeza.
2. Ubale ukuyamba kutengeka ndikukweza malipiro. Koma ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti amuna ambiri ndi kshovinistam. Iwo amakhulupirira kuti mkazi yemwe analengedwa pofuna zosangalatsa sangathe komanso sayenera kukhala wophunzira. Komanso, udindo wapamwamba womwe umapezeka ndi chithandizo cha mabwanawo udzawonekeratu ndi anzako monga kusalungama kochuluka. Ndikoyenera kukonzekera kuti ayese njira iliyonse yomwe angakuvulazeni ndikulowa m'malo mwake. Koma ambiri ali opambana kuti apite patsogolo mu utumiki, kukhala ndi udindo wa bwana.
3. Kuchokera pa kusowa kwa malingaliro a mkazi, chidwi kuchokera kumbali ya mwamuna. Nthawi zina ndizotheka komanso chikondi, chomwe chimapita mu chikondi mwachidule. Ndi maubwenzi amenewa omwe angabweretse chisangalalo chachikulu ndikupanga anthu kukhala osangalala ndi olimba. Pankhaniyi, mkazi samatsata zolinga zonse ndipo sayembekezera zambiri kuchokera kwa bwana. Ngakhale mwachidule, chikondi chachikondi chimatha kusiya zinthu zosangalatsa, popanda kuwonetseredwa mu ntchitoyo.

Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti mkazi pa zifukwa zosiyanasiyana amafuna kukhala ndi bwana, koma samamuzindikira. Pali njira zingapo zosavuta kuti amvetsere. Musanayambe kuchita kanthu, mukufunikira kwambiri kuti muphunzire bwana wanu. Pachifukwa ichi, pali mwayi wambiri pantchito. Ndikofunika kuphunzira zinthu zazing'ono zokhudzana ndi zokoma komanso zofuna zandale.

Samalani nokha pogwiritsa ntchito luso lanu lakugwira ntchito. Mulimonsemo, nkofunikira kulemba zolemba zomwe ziyenera kugwirizana ndi maganizo a mfumu. Muyenera kukhala pang'ono a sycophant. Zofunikira mwachibadwa ndi maonekedwe, ndi zochepa zogonana. Ndikofunika kukhazikitsa maubwenzi ndi timu. Sikoyenera kuiwala kuti nthawi yambiri yogwiritsira ntchito ikugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi gulu. Ubwenzi wabwino udzapewa kusayera ndi kutseguka. Malo abwino kwambiri oti mutengepo zambiri ndizogwirizanitsa, zomwe ziri zofala kwambiri masiku ano.