Mmene mungakonzekerere madzulo kwa mnyamata

M'moyo wovuta tsiku ndi tsiku moyo wokonda chikondi pakati pa okonda pang'onopang'ono umatha. Mpaka posachedwa, inu munali okondedwa mumpsompsone m'makona onse, ndipo tsopano ubale wanu wakhala ngati chizoloƔezi.
Poyamba, mumakonda kuyenda mu paki, kupita ku mafilimu, ndipo tsopano maulendo ophatikizana ali ochepa kuti apite ku bizinesi. Banja lirilonse likufuna kubwezeretsa chikondi chawo. M'dziko lamakono, madzulo okondana amakonzedwa kuti azitengera zaka zambiri makamaka ndi amuna. Atsikana ambiri amafuna kudziwa momwe angakonzekerere mwamuna wamwamuna kuti aziwakonda kwa nthawi yaitali.

Poyamba, mwamuna ndi mkazi amaganiza mosiyana ndi madzulo. Kwa amayi, mwayi wovala chovala chamadzulo ndi chofunika kwambiri, pomwe amuna sali okondwa ndi suti zamatsenga, tuxedos, koma amasankha kachitidwe kowakomera kwambiri. Mtsikana akulota kukonzekera chakudya chamakono ndi zakudya zambiri zosiyana siyana ndi mayina okondweretsa, koma kwa mnyamata ndi okwanira kudya chamoyo ndi chokoma. Timakonda kumvetsera nyimbo zosavuta komanso nthawi zina kuvina, choncho, monga anyamata ambiri amasankha chakudya chamadzulo amangoti asangalale, atasiya zovuta za tsiku ndi tsiku poonera TV ndi botolo la mowa.

Atsikana, kunena "madzulo", amatanthawuza ndi malingaliro abwino okonda kumwa vinyo, champagne kapena zakumwa zozizwitsa, kutembenukira m'maseƔera ochepetsako komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Kwa anyamatawa, mawuwa amapereka chiyembekezo choposa usiku wamkuntho kusiyana ndi kukambirana moona mtima ndi chakudya chachilendo.
Ndikanati ndipereke malangizo othandizira kukondana ndi mnyamata, osati wokondedwa wanu. Choyamba, sikoyenera kuvala madzulo okongola kuvala kwa zidendene. Mukhoza kusankha malaya a siketi okongola omwe amamuuza mnyamata wanu za kupitirira kwachisangalalo cha chikondi chamadzulo. Komanso, malaya a munthu amawoneka okongola pamasewero okongola. Maonekedwe anu omasuka adzathandiza wokondedwa wanu kuti asawoneke zovala zopanda pakhomo m'malo mwa suti.

Chachiwiri, chakudya cha mnyamata wanu chiyenera kukhala chopatsa thanzi, chokoma komanso chofunika kwambiri, chodziwika ndi chokondedwa. Kwa iye, ndithudi. Ngakhale mutaphika nthunzi, French fries, olivier, nkhuku yokazinga ndi zakudya zina zolemetsa. Mwa njira, nyama iyenera kukhalapo pamadyerero achikondi. Kukhala ndi chakudya chamudya pa tebulo kudzakondweretsa wokondedwa wanu. Ndibwino kuti mupange chidutswa chachikulu cha nyama. Ndiye wokondedwa wanu "macho" amamva ngati munthu wokhutira, wokhutira ndipo adzasintha ndi "mawonekedwe" omwe mukufunikira - ndicho chimene tidafuna. Kumbukirani: kudya sikuyenera kukhala kochuluka. Kuchita zinthu mopitirira muyeso kumawopsya kuti mupumule mnyamata wanu kwambiri, ndipo iye amangogona pa bedi, chomwe sichiri chovomerezeka kwa ife.

Chachitatu, ndikofunika kusankha mowa woyenera, koma kwenikweni pang'onopang'ono. Vinyo wofiira ndi woyenera kwambiri nyama, ndipo nsomba imakhala bwino ndi vinyo woyera. Muyenera kusiya mowa ndi champagne kuti musasokoneze chikondi chamadzulo. Ngati mutatsatira malangizo onsewa, ndiye kuti munakhululukidwa makandulo, nyimbo zachikondi ndi maluwa okongola, komabe musamadalire kuvina. Atatha kudya, nthawi yomweyo muzipita kukaonera mafilimu okondana kwambiri (pambuyo pa chakudya chamakono, nthawi zambiri amatsutsa) komanso mafilimu osokoneza bongo (amakhalanso ndi chiyembekezo choti apitirize kuchita zachiwawa m'chipinda chogona!).

Gawo lomaliza la madzulo likutengerani kuchoka ku khitchini kupita ku chipinda chogona, koma muyenera kupanga zochepa zopangira zozizwitsa, zipatso ndi juzi. Mwadzidzidzi zothandiza ... Inde, ndi kupanga pulogalamu pasadakhale sizowonongeka. Atsikana a "mchere" amauzidwa kuti azivina kuvina kwa wokondedwa. Kuvina kosavuta mumdima munthu wanu amakumbukira kwa nthawi yaitali. Pachifukwa ichi, zidzakhala zodabwitsa ngati mutaphunzira chisangalalo, kuvina kosangalatsa kummawa. Mutha kudabwa ndi wosankhidwa wanu ndi kusintha kwanu, pulasitiki komanso luso lotha kusintha.

Ngati madzulo ano mumakhala osangalatsa kwambiri, okondweretsa, okongola, osakumbukira komanso okondana, ndiye kuti, nthawi ina mudzayembekezera ndi kukonzedwa bwino, komanso kuyendetsa masewera, ndi okonzeka onse kwa okondedwa anu monga kalonga kuchokera ku nthano.
Pomalizira, ndikufuna kunena kuti ndi bwino kukonza madzulo tsiku lina. Sungani chikondi chanu Lachisanu kapena Loweruka, kuti tsiku lotsatira lisakhale likugwira ntchito nonse awiri. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale osangalala pabedi, mmalo mwa kulumpha pa ola lalo kuti mugwire ntchito. Kuwukitsidwa kofulumira, kochirikizidwa ndi kumveka bwino kwa usiku wamkuntho, wodabwitsa, kudzakhazikitsa mkhalidwe wapadera womwewo monga usiku womaliza wa chikondi. Kawirikawiri, dare okondedwa akazi!