Musapange zolakwika m'malemba
Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri pachiyambi cha kulankhulana. Simudziwa mwamuna, koma kodi mukufuna kuti akhale munthu wololera m'lingaliro lililonse? Ndiye, inunso, tengani vuto kuti musapangitse zolakwika za grammatical mu mauthenga anu. Kumbukirani, izi zopusa zopanda nzeru ziribe kanthu ndi mafashoni pa Intaneti slang. Simungathe kubisala "LOYO" kwa anthu omwe amamvetsetseka masiku ano "Othandizidwa." Ngati munthu alemba ndi kuphunzitsidwa, adzakukhalitsani. Tsono ndi bwino kusiya uthenga wanu m'Mawu oyamba ndikusindikiza kafukufuku woperekera.
Inde, simungathe "kusamba". Koma musadabwe kuti anu atsopano sobesednikokazhaetsya zovuta hamovatoy "nkhumba." Munthu ataimirira adzasangalala kukambirana ndi mtsikana wodalirika. Zoona, kalembedwe ka kulembedwa sikali koyenera, ngati sichikuwonekera. Koma osachepera zolakwika za banal mu kuperekera angapewe ndipo nkofunikira.
Musachedwetse chinsinsi
Mu network obschenisteitsya zosavuta kusiyana ndi maso ndi maso. Ngakhalenso kamera yamakono yathandiza, kusagwira ntchito kumatayika nthawi yomweyo. Kotero polemba ndi zophweka ndi zophweka kulankhula, ndikuyankha mafunso aliwonse, ndipo dzifunseni nokha popanda malire. Mmenemo muli ubwino wa zokambirana zosasinthika zoterezi. Koma ndizoopsa. Musathamangire ndi mavumbulutso tsiku loyamba lolankhulana. Kumbukirani, mbali ya thukuta ya pulogalamuyi, akadali munthu wamba. Simungatsegule munthu woyamba, musatambasule zinsinsi zanu, mavuto anu ndi mantha. Kuyankhulana kwa pakompyuta kumabisa misonkhanoyi, zikuwoneka kuti wogwirizanitsa ndi chinthu chosokoneza, chifukwa sichiwoneka ndipo sichimveka. Koma kumverera uku kuli kolakwika.
Zochita zomwezo ndi mavumbulutso apamtima. Chabwino, ngati wothandizana nawo akukhala ngati mnyamata wosavulaza-"botanist" yemwe amangokuwopsani inu basi ndipo amasiya kulankhulana. Ndipo zikhoza kukhala kuti kumbali ina ya pulogalamuyi mudzayembekezeredwa ndi vuto lenileni monga mawonekedwe achikulire achikulire. Idzakwiyitsa vumbulutso ndi cholinga chimodzi chokha: kutsogolo mtsogolomu masewera apamtima awa ndi eni enieni. Ndipo izi sizikutanthauza nthawi zonse kuvomereza kwanu. Munthu wamba wokhala ndi chikhumbo chenicheni chokhala ndi chibwenzi chokha sungapitirize kulankhula ndi inu ngati muli ndi mawu oti "kugonana", "bedi", "pose" ndi ufulu wina kudzera m'mawu anu.
Musakhale anzeru, musamatsutse
Musayese kuoneka ngati anzeru kwambiri pachiyambi cha chibwenzi. Kwa inu, chinthu chachikulu sichiwopseza munthu wabwino. Mwadzidzidzi, iye akuganiza kuti iye akuyesera kudziwana ndi ena osungulumwa, aphunzitsi a Internet omwe amamasuka maganizo. Ayi, chifukwa palibe cholakwika ndi aphunzitsi. Amuna okha sali lyubyatumnichayuschih kwambiri (omwe ndi anzeru - osakhala anzeru!) Akazi omwe mukufunikira kusankha mawu, kuganiziranso malingaliro awo pa moyo, kusintha zizoloŵezi. Kawirikawiri, mwamunayo akuyenera kukutsogolerani kukambirana. Ngati mulidi anzeru, ndiye kuti mumupatsa mwayi umenewu.
Khalani osamala komanso ndi kutsutsa. Simudziwa munthu uyu, zolakwitsa zake, mafano ake ndi zida zake. Kukambirana nkhani zosakhwima, monga mafashoni, zosangalatsa kapena maganizo ake pa moyo, mungathe kukhumudwitsa mwachangu wogwirizanitsa. Nthawi zonse ndi koyenera kuyamba kulankhula mofatsa: kufufuza nthaka mwaukhondo, popanda kufalitsa makadi, mwachitsanzo, patebulo.
Yang'anani chifukwa chake
Pa maziko a bungwe ili ndi mwambo wokonza zokambirana zonse. Wothandizana nawo ayenera kuona kuti mumamuzindikira, kuti mumamukonda, ndipo musaphonye kutuluka kwa mawu m'makutu (mu nkhaniyi - kudutsa maso). Ngati amayankha moona mtima mafunso anu, ndiye kuti simumasewera nthabwala nthawi zonse. Ngati ostabeste sakukondwera, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuseka kangapo, koma osati nthawi zonse. Mayankho ayenera kukhala, mwinamwake izo zikanakhala zopweteka kuti munthu aziwona nthawizonse zotupa kapena chinachake chonga "hee-hee" m'malo mwake. Izi sizikuyankhulana, koma kusefukira kwa madzi, komwe kumadzaza maofesi a intaneti, ndipo palibe chimene chimayima.
Amakhudzidwanso nkhani zake - aziwamvetsera kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, ngati dzulo adanena kuti akuthamanga ku phunziro madzulo, ndipo m'mawa mudzafunsa kuti: "Kodi mwachita chiyani dzulo, ndikusangalala bwanji?" - izi zingamukhumudwitse. Adzadziwa kuti zinthu zake ndi "kumbali yanu", kuti musakumbukire zomwe adanena za iye mwini, kuti simukukondwera nazo zonsezi. Ilion adzasankha kuti mukumufufuza, akunena kuti, "amenya" kapena ayi? N'zotheka kuti mogotobidet - chifukwa simunafikepo. Kawirikawiri, mvetserani zinthu zazing'ono za moyo wake, ngati mukufuna kupitiriza kulankhulana ndikumasulira mu njira yaikulu.
Yapangidwa ndi chikondi
Ngati mutengedwera, ndipo kuchokera mwa inu mawu okondana amamveka kuchokera kwa inu ndi monologue imodzi, mukudziwa momwe mungadzichepetse nokha. Munthu sangakulepheretseni kuyenda kwa manja ake, iwo amayang'ana chinthu china. Ngakhale munthu wovuta kwambiri komanso wachikondi - osati psychopathologist, osati chovala cha misonzi. Inu kulibwino mumumvere iye. Mulole iye awulule zinsinsi zake kwa iyemwini, iye adzawona mwa inu wothandizana naye, yemwe amamumvetsa bwino iye kuposa wina aliyense.
Ndizo zonse zokhudza kuyamba kwa chiyanjano. Mukadziwana kale bwino, ndiye kuti zitha kuwonjezera chikondi, kutsutsa, ndi kuvomereza. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukonza kukhudzana kotereku. Zonsezi ndi bwino kuti mudziwe za wina ndi mzake misonkhano yabwino. Inde, iwo angalowe m'malo mwa intaneti pafupipafupi, kamera ya ukonde, maikolofoni okhala ndi matelofoni apadera. Mukhoza kukonza msonkhano womvetsera, kuwonetserana kwa mafilimu ndi zokambirana zotsatizana, kugawana nawo makadi a makadi ndi zithunzi zawo. Koma palibe chomwe chidzalowe m'malo weniweni obscheniya.Da ndi ofesi yolembera yolembera siinayambe.