M'dziko lamakono, chibwenzi sichimangokhala mumsewu, m'mafilimu, m'ma tepi ndi ma discos. Tsopano anthu ambiri amapezeka kuti ali ndi zibwenzi pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ndi chifukwa chake asungwana akudzifunsa momwe angakonde mnyamatayo ndi makalata. Ndipotu, pamene sakukuwonani ndipo sangathe kuyankhula nanu, amangokhala kuti afotokoze maganizo awo bwino.
Palibe chifukwa chonama
Momwe mungakonde mnyamata ndi makalata, choyenera ndi zomwe musachite? Kuyamba, mwinamwake, kumachokera ku zofunikira kwambiri - ngati mukufuna kupitiriza kukhala ndi moyo weniweni, musamunamize mnyamata ndipo mumaganizira zachinyengo. Inde, mtsikana aliyense amafuna kuti azikonda mnyamata, nthawi zambiri amayamba kukokomeza makhalidwe awo abwino. Izi siziyenera kuchitika. Muyenera kudziwa za ubwino wanu ndi zovuta zanu, kuti inu mu makalata muli osiyana ndi inu kwenikweni. Mwachibadwa, mayi aliyense amabisa mfundo zina ndikuwonjezera zinthu zing'onozing'ono kwa mnyamatayo. Koma kumbukirani kuti ziyenera kukhala zabwino. Sikoyenera kunena kuti ndinu dokotala wa sayansi, ngati mukuphunzira pa chaka chachiwiri cha yunivesite. Ndipo palibe chifukwa choti muyese kujambula zithunzi za anthu ena. Inde, sizowona kuti mnyamatayo sanafike pamtima ndikuchita chinthu chomwecho. Komabe, ngati pamsonkhano mukudikirira zokhumudwitsa komanso mwina osati chifukwa cha mawonekedwe, koma chifukwa cha banal ili.
Lembani molondola
Mukamayankhula ndi makalata, chithunzithunzi chanu ndi chisangalalo zimadalira zomwe mumalemba ndi momwe mungayankhire. Simukusowa kulemba munthu mumayendedwe akuti "chmaftalaftya, how delifki?". Zimapangidwira m'magulu a achinyamata, koma munthu wamkulu amatha kusamvetsetsa bwino chinenerocho. Mwa njira, pamene mutayankhulana ndi anthu mwa makalata, musaiwale kuti mukhoza kuweruzidwa ndi kuwerenga. Inde, palibe amene angatsimikize aliyense, koma ngati muli ndi zolakwika zoyambirira pamenepo, simungathe kusewera phindu lanu.
Musakhale abstruse kwambiri.
Kulankhulana ndi achinyamata mwa makalata, atsikana ambiri amalakwitsa poyesera kuoneka ngati anzeru kwambiri ndikuwerenga bwino. Amagwiritsa ntchito maulendo ovuta kumveka, ayambe kufotokozera zamatsenga. Inde, zambiri zoti mudziwe komanso m'njira zambiri kumvetsetsa - ndi zabwino kwambiri. Koma nkofunika kugwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso chimenechi kumalo. Ngati mukulankhulana ndi munthu mwachindunji, muyenera kumlembera momwe mumalankhulira pamoyo wanu.
Kulakwitsa kwina kwa amayi okondeka pa kuyankhulana ndiko kuyesa nthawi zonse kupeza mitu yapadera yokambirana. Lankhulani ndi mnyamata yemwe ayenera kuchitidwa momasuka. Ngati anthu ali okondana wina ndi mzake ndipo ali ndi chinachake choti akambirane, ndiye kuti nkhani zonse zokambirana zimadzuka mwaokha. Musamafunike "kufunsa" chinachake kuchokera ku Google ndi kuswa Wikipedia kuti mubwere ndi mutu wina. Ngati muwona kuti zokambiranazo sizomwe zikugwiritsidwa ntchito, simungakhale ndi zofanana ndi munthu uyu ndipo simukusowa kulankhula. Mu ichi palibe chodandaula.
Musalumbire
Mukamayankhula, yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito makapu ndipo simuyenera kupereka mauthenga anu ndi chida chambiri. Mnyamata wamba samasowa mtsikana amene amalumbirira ngati wamsasa. Choncho, ngakhale mutakhala ndi chizoloŵezi cholumbira, yesetsani kudziletsa nokha. Ndipo izi ziyenera kuchitika pamisonkhano yotsatira ndi mnyamata weniweni. M'madera amasiku ano, amayi ambiri amayamba kuiwala momwe angachitire, zomwe zimachititsa kuti amuna asiye kuwachitira ngati amayi ndikuyamba kuwaona monga muzhiks. Ndipo ngati mukufunadi kukondweretsa mnyamata, ndiye kuti sangathe kuloledwa.
Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti kulankhulana kulikonse sikungamangirire ndi chirichonse ndipo sikutha ndi chirichonse chovuta. Komabe, pali zochitika zambiri zomwe anthu amapanga mabanja atakumana nawo mu dziko lonse lapansi. Ngati mukufuna chiyanjano ndi mnyamata kuthetsa chonchi, nthawi zonse khalani nokha ndipo musawerenge. Ndipo musaiwale kuti amuna ngati atsikana okondwa, amatsenga komanso abwino kwambiri polankhulana.