Nchifukwa chiyani mukudikirira mkazi kuchokera kwa munthu wachiwawa?

Ambiri mwa malingaliro okondana a kugonana kwa munthu wachiwawa weniweni ndi wopotoka, ndipo amuna ambiri amayesera, mwa kukhoza kwawo, kuti awoneke ngati achiwawa. Koma, monga lamulo, sikuti amayi onse amatha kupeza munthu woteroyo, ndipo sikuti aliyense amayesetsa kukhala amodzi. Ndiponsotu, mu chifanizo chachiwawa, makhalidwe monga chiyeso cha umunthu, mphamvu yamuna, ndi kusagwirizana kulikonse. Ndipo, ndithudi, chofunikira kwambiri, makhalidwe onsewa ndi ofanana ndi nkhanza. Ndicho chifukwa chake, pambuyo pa zonse, pokhala ndi anthu oterewa a "midzi yoopsa", amayi ambiri amayamba kudzizunza okha ndikumangoganiza za momwe angakhalire ndi iye komanso zomwe angayembekezere kuchokera kwa wachikhwima woopsa yemwe nthawizonse amanyamula chigoba chokhala wosasamala komanso osayanjanitsika?

Kotero, anyamata achiwawa, ngati sangatilepheretse kwathunthu, amachititsa kuti ifeyo tikhale ndi chidwi chachikulu ndi chikhumbo chofikira kudziko lawo la pansi, ndikudzutsa kukhumudwa. Koma nthawi zambiri anthu ena amawoneka ngati akuzunza koyamba. Ndipotu akungoyesera pa izi, tikhoza kunena, chifaniziro chovuta cha munthu osati kungoganiza, komanso njira ya moyo. Tingawasiyanitse motani, mwachidziwitso cha mawu awa, oimira nkhanza za kugonana kolimba kwa otsevdobrutality?

Pseudobrutality: kutsanzira zotsatira zonse

Mayi aliyense ayenera kukumbukira kuti sitiyenera kusewera maudindo osiyanasiyana - amuna amakhalanso ndi luso losiyana pa nkhaniyi. Chifukwa chaichi, nkhanza zikhoza kungowonongeka. Tiyeni tiyese kuyika mzere pakati pa mfundo ziwirizi. Poyambirira, nkofunikira kudziwa tanthauzo la munthu wachiwawa, kutanthauza kudziwa chifukwa chake amatchedwa. Mwachidziwikire, lingaliro limeneli likufanana ndi mwano ndi nkhanza, koma ndilo lonse la tanthawuzo la mawuwo, wotsirizirayo amatha nthawi yomweyo. Wamphamvu, wolimba mtima, wolimba mtima, sikuti ndi wankhanza! Kuphatikiza pa china chirichonse, munthu wotereyu amakhala ndi chidziwitso cha chinsinsi komanso chinsinsi. Amuna awa ali ndi mfundo 100 za luso la kugonjetsa mitima ya amayi.

Chikondi ndi kulephera ndi chinthu choipa kwambiri cha anthu oipa. Kuchokera kapena kubisa munthu wotere ndi kovuta kwambiri, koma kumuuza "ayi!" Ndizovuta kwambiri. Ngakhale kuyambira pachiyambi cha kulankhulana kotereku kumapweteketsa ndi kunyalanyaza kwake, kenaka patapita kanthawi maganizo ake amasintha kwambiri ndikupita kumalo osangalatsa kwambiri. Nkhanza zonse zowoneka zimayamba kukhala ndi maonekedwe ndi chikhulupiliro.

Ubwino ndi maudindo a nkhonya zaukali

Amuna amenewa ndi odalirika kwambiri (mungathe kunena mosapita m'mbali). Pokhala pafupi ndi munthu wotero, mayiyo amamva ngati khoma lamwala. Nthawi zambiri anthu oterewa amatha kugwidwa chifundo ndi ena, makamaka makolo a mtsikanayo. Zake, pakuyang'ana, kunyenga ndi nkhanza zimayankha.Anyamata ena amayamba kubisa mkwiyo ndi nsanje, chifukwa alibe mwayi woterewu kuti amuna okonda nkhanza amakhala ndi zoposa. Achinyamata samavomereza izi pa dziko lapansi, akutsutsana ndi khalidwe lawo podandaula za momwe akumvera ndi chitetezo cha mtsikanayo, chifukwa pafupi ndi iwo amene, ngakhale kutali, samafanane ndi fano la kalonga pa kavalo woyera kapena ngakhale njonda.

Vulgarity game

Amuna achibwibwi samasonyezera kumanzere ndi kutsogolera zonyansa ndi nkhanza. Amabisala pa diso lakazi. Kuwonetsera kwa makhalidwe oipa ndi kosiyana kwambiri ndi kuganiza kwaukali. Kavalo wosasunthika komanso wachiwawa amafika mosiyana kwambiri ndi kavalo wake wokhazikika ndikuyesera kunyoza ndi kuchititsa manyazi, ndipo amachita nthawi zambiri mothandizidwa ndi nthabwala zopanda tsankho ndi mauthenga a munthu wina. Koposa zonse, izo zimakhala zooneka, pamene mnyamata atalowa mu kampani ya amuna ena. Ndipo ngati ena onse ali achichepere kapena ali otsika, amakhulupirira kuti munthuyu amayamba kumva kuti ali ndi ulamuliro weniweni. Koma ngati wina wachinyamatayo akuyamba kukayikira kapena kuzindikira kuti kampaniyo yamuukira, nthawi yomweyo "amachepetsa mahatchi" ndipo amatenga nkhope yake yeniyeni, kukhala munthu woyenerera, wokwanira. Mwa njira, monga momwe chiwonetsero chimawonetseratu, achinyamata oterewa amathamangira kuthamanga ngati akuganiza kuti sizikuwoneka bwino.

Zimanyozedwa

Pseudobrotal ikhoza kupita pafupifupi pafupifupi zonsezi, kprimeru, ngakhale kuzimitsa diso kuti akhumudwitse mkazi kapena, poipabebe, kukweza dzanja lachikunja. Kotero iwo amasonyeza kunyenga kwawo ndi nkhanza. Kuwonjezera apo iwo amayesa kupeza chifukwa cha zochita zawo ndi anthu omwe akusokoneza ndi kupambana chisamaliro chosatsutsika pa mbali yawo. Anyamata okwanira, monga lamulo, musamamvere amuna oterewa kapena chifukwa cha chidwi chomwe akuyesera kuti awabweretsere madzi oyera. Eya, atsikana omwe ali pamkhalidwe umenewu akhoza kudzitsogolera mosiyana. Pali amayi otere omwe amapita mofulumira ku ntchitoyi, yomwe posachedwa imatsogolera ku zowawa zopanda nzeru.

Amuna achibwibwi, omwe alibe maonekedwe ndi zonyansa

Kudikira mkazi kuchokera kwa munthu wachiwawa, yemwe angamuukitse kwa wosakhala wokongola, sikuli koyenera, chifukwa iye sadzachita konse. Mnyamata wotereyu nthawi zonse amadzidziwa kuti ndi wofunika komanso ali ndi vuto lililonse, ndi chifukwa chake sangathe kumukakamiza mwanayo. Munthu wachiwawa nthawi zonse amachita monga momwe alili womasuka komanso womasuka, osasintha chitsanzo cha khalidwe lake la tsiku ndi tsiku. Chimake cha maso opweteka nthawizonse sichisonyeza kokha mwa njira yake yolankhulirana, koma komanso wovala zovala kuti adzikhala yekha ndi nthawi iliyonse. Chilichonse chiri mmenemo chiri chogwirizana komanso chogwirizana. Mwa njira, ambiri akulakwitsa kukhulupirira kuti muzhiks zachiwawa nthawizonse amayesa kudziwonetsera okha ngati anthu oipa - ndipotu izi ndizolakwika. Cholinga chawo ndi chizoloŵezi cha moyo ndikuti iwo samvetsera maganizo ndipo nthawi zonse amachita zomwe akufunikira. Oimira omwe ali ndi mphamvu zogonana sangachitepo kanthu kuti atsimikizire kuti ali ndi mphamvu komanso kuti ali ndi mphamvu, chifukwa moyo wawo ndiwo momwe amachitira, pakuti munthu wachiwawa ali wokhulupirika ku zikhulupiliro zake ndi malingaliro ake!