1. Kuteteza mwana. Mu ubale wa banja, amasankha udindo wa "mwana wamwamuna". Amadzipempha mofulumira "toyese akuluakulu", amaikidwa madzulo pa "masewera akuluakulu" kapena amadzikuza mwachangu kwa abwenzi ake (kawirikawiri) kupambana pachitetezo cha chikondi. Nthawi iliyonse pamene mayi akufuna kudikirira zochita kapena khalidwe lomwe likugwirizana ndi chikhalidwe chake, amayamba kutsutsa ngati mwana. Nthawi zina ndimakhala chete, ndikuganiza mmaganizo mwanga, monga "Ndingathe kuchita chirichonse!" "," Inde, ndine wokongola kwambiri! ", Ndipo nthawi zina - ndikuyesera kutsimikizira ukulu wake. Ndiye akhoza kuyamba zonse zovuta. Utsenga kwa munthu wotero ndi wosiyana ndi kusamvera, ndi njira yosonyezera kwa mkazi kuti iye samulamula. Inu simungathe kulamulira "wopanduka" chotero mwa zana limodzi. Poyesera kusintha, mumangotaya khama kwambiri, kumapweteketsa mitsempha yanu ndi kuchepetsa kudzidalira kwanu.
2. Otsatira okondwerera. Uyu ndi mwamuna yemwe anakwatira kwambiri mofulumira, osakhala nayo nthawi kuti "ayende". Pamsonkhano wokhala ndi mkazi wake wam'tsogolo, adakondwera kwambiri kuti msungwana wokongola uyu adagwirizana naye kuti adaganiza zokwatirana naye mwamsanga ndi mwamsanga, kuti asachoke naye kulikonse. Kwa zaka zambiri, pamene adakulira ndi kukula, adakhala wolimba komanso wolimba mtima, adafuna kuchita zomwe sankadziwa ali mnyamata. Amayamba kusamalira atsikana okongola kwambiri, kuti adziwonetse yekha kuti adakali wokhazikika, komanso kuti adziphunzire yekha, ngakhale atakalamba. Pa nthawi imodzimodziyo, amatha kumukonda ndi mtima wonse mkazi yemwe adakumana naye ndi kumanga banja. Amangofuna kumva zomwe zinalibe. Ndi kuleza mtima kotere ndi munthu wotero mungathe kukhala mosangalala.
3. Kukonda masewerawa ndi moto. Mwamuna wotereyu amadziwika ndi chikhumbo chowonjezeka cha chiopsezo. Nkhanza kwa iye imayikidwa ndi chilakolako chachinsinsi chogwidwa muzolakwa. Amatha kukondana ndi wachibale kapena wapamtima wa mkazi wake kapena, mwachitsanzo, ndi mkazi wa bwenzi lapamtima. Amapeza zambiri kuchokera kumverera kuti akuchita chinachake choletsedwa ndi choopsa. Munthu wotero samadziwa mantha, ndizosathandiza kuti akangane naye, musayembekezere kuti akumva chisoni. Ngati mungathe kumupatsa chibwenzi chokwanira - mukhoza kuchita chinachake.
4. Mzati waufulu. Iye ali otsimikiza mwamtheradi kuti mwamuna ndi mulungu ndi mfumu, ndipo pachiyambi sayenera ndipo sangakhoze kudalira pa mkazi mu chirichonse. Ngakhale chikwati cha boma, mukumvetsetsa kwake, sichimamasula ufulu wake mwa njira iliyonse. M'malo mwake, sitampu mu pasipoti ndi umboni wakuti mkazi ndiye chuma chake, ndipo amatha kumuchitira momwe amachitira. Iye samayesanso kubisachinyengo chake, kuphatikizapo, nthawi zambiri amawawonetsera mwadala. Amadyetsa kudzikuza kwake, amawona kugwirizana kwake monga umboni wa umunthu wake. Iye wagwidwa ndi chikumbumtima ndi kulemekeza mkazi wake, chifukwa mwa kumvetsa kwake iye samachita cholakwika chirichonse. Kukhala ndi munthu wotereyo kungakhale kosungunuka kwambiri, wodalira ndalama kapenanso mkazi wongokhala wopanda nzeru. Wina aliyense sangalekerere chithandizo chotero kwa tsiku limodzi.
5. Kuwerengera. Moyo wa banja ndi chiyanjano cha munthu uyu wakhala nthawi yayitali kukhala chitsanzo cha chinthu chokongola. Chilakolako chakhala chikumusiya, samatsutsana ndi mkazi wake yemwe kale anali wokonda, koma iye mwini sangathe kusankhapo kanthu. Amamvetsa kuti mkazi wake adzachita zonse kuwononga moyo wake wam'tsogolo. Ndipo nthawi zina mwamuna amakhala wodalirika ndi mkazi wake, podziwa kuti pamene asudzulana adzalandira zambiri. Choncho, zimapindulitsa kwambiri kuti apitirize kukhala m'banja, ndikukulitsa kukhala ndi udindo mwa iyemwini. Pankhaniyi, mwamuna amapeza ambuye, osakhala ndi mlandu uliwonse, chifukwa kumvetsetsa kwake kwaukwati kwatha nthawi yaitali. Kuwerengera uku ndi kopindulitsa kwa mwamuna, ngakhale mpaka mkazi ataphunzira za kugwirizana kwa mbaliyo.
6. Hunter kwa mitima. Amuna awa ndi amodzi. Munthu uyu akhoza kukopeka kwambiri ndi njira yothetsera chibwenzi kwa mkazi, kugonjetsa kwake, osati zotsatira zake. Iye adzachita zonse zomwe zingatheke kuti apereke kugonjetsedwa kwa chiwonongeko chake ndi chikhalidwe chake. Mwamsanga pamene "migodi" ikapezeka, imagwa kwathunthu, iye samukondanso. Ndi chizindikiro choti ndi nthawi yoti mupite kukasaka. Kuchokera kwa munthu woteroyo sikoyenera kuyembekeza kukhulupirika. Iye amadziwa njira zonse za mayesero, amadziwa zofuna zonse za akazi. Chifukwa chake, mkazi ayesedwa ndi iye, ali wokonzeka kupemphera kwa iye ndi kumukhululukira machimo onse. Iye samakayikira nkomwe kuti amangotsegula mwayi woti iye apambane kupambana kwatsopano pa kutsogolo kwa chikondi.
7. Wosintha. M'lingaliro la munthu yemwe amasuntha mivi kwa wina, pofuna kupeĊµa "ntchito yopanda pfumbi." M'chiyanjano cha banja, munthu uyu si woyipa kuti awapasule, koma si abwino kuti aziwasunga. Koma ngati munthu wotereyo atsimikiza kuswa, amamva kuti ali ndi mlandu waukulu pa izi. Choncho, akuganiza kuti asinthe hafu yake poyera, akuyembekeza kuti adziwe ndipo adzasankha kuthetsa ubale wawo. Ndiye zidzakhala zosavuta kwa iye, chisankho chidzapangidwa palokha. Awa ndi amuna ofooka, omwe munthu sayenera kuyembekezera kupanga zosankha zoyenera. Kusunga ukwati ndi iwo sikofunikira.
8. Amuna ogonana. Mkazi wa munthu woteroyo amagwiritsira ntchito kugonana kwachinsinsi monga njira yochitira mwamuna. Mwamuna wake atangoyamba kuchita "cholakwika", amangomusiya kugonana. Pamapeto pake, alibe chilichonse choyenera kuchita koma kuti akwaniritse zosowa zake pambali. Kupandukira kwake si chizindikiro cha chiwonetsero, osati kuyesera kuti atsimikizire wina. Amasintha kokha chifukwa akufunikira kuzindikira mphamvu zake zogonana, kumupatsa njira yotulukira.