Zina zazingaliro.
Nthawi yotsatira yomwe akukuitanani, nenani kuti mukuganizira za iye, kapena mukamuitana. Ndipo, ziri zoona, kapena ayi, ziribe kanthu. Chinthu chachikulu ndikumudziwitsa munthuyo kuti muli ndi chiyanjano chachinsinsi ndi iye. Anthu ambiri, kuphatikizapo amuna, amakhulupirira zamatsenga ndikukhulupirira zizindikiro zosiyanasiyana, zinsinsi komanso zina "mdima" mbali za moyo wathu. Choncho, chifukwa cha "zochitika zina", wosankhidwa wanu akhoza kukhala ndi chidaliro kuti muli ndi malumikizano apadera, amalingaliro.
Lankhulani monga momwe amachitira!
Kodi mumagwira naye ntchito kuntchito yomwe mumagwira naye ntchito, mumakonda nyimbo zomwezo, koma zokambirana zanu sizikhala zoposa mphindi khumi? N'chifukwa chiyani zili choncho? Chinthu chachikulu si chimene mukukamba, koma momwe mumachitira. Kulankhulana kawirikawiri sikugwira ntchito kwa anthu omwe ali ndi mayendedwe osiyana. Lingaliro ili linabwera kwa ife kuchokera ku mapulogalamu a ubongo. Pali mitundu itatu ya iwo: kukondana, kuyang'ana ndi kuyang'ana. Kuti mukhale interlocutor wokondweretsa komanso wokondweretsa, ndikofunika kumvetsetsa mtundu wa mkhalidwe wamunthu. Nthawi zambiri Vizuals amagwiritsa ntchito mawu-zithunzi ("onani zomwe zimachitika") pokambirana. Munthu wokhudzana ndi omvetsera amalankhula zomwe amva ("kumveka zachilendo, koma"). Mankhwala amatha ntchito ndi mphamvu zawo, mudzamva kuchokera kwa iwo: "Ndinamva nthawi yomweyo." Posakhalitsa, zimakhala zomveka bwino kwa inu kuti mutumiki wanu ndi wotani, mudzatha kusintha, ndipo zokambirana zanu zidzatha kwa maola ambiri. Mudzakhala wosangalatsa kwa mwamuna.
Mwayamba kale!
Yambani kugwiritsa ntchito mukulankhulana kwanu mawu akuti "ife", "ife". Pokhala mu bar, funsani iye: "Kodi tingakonzebe vinyo?". Kuyika lingaliro ili pamutu wa mwamuna, mumalenga kuchokera kwa iye fano lakuti ndinu banja. Ichi ndi sitepe yoyamba yokonzekera mwamuna kukhala pachibwenzi. Komabe, musapitirire ndi kuchuluka kwa "ife", kumbukirani, zonse ziyenera kukhala zochepa. Mawu oti "zomwe tidzachite pa tchuti" mu mwezi woyamba wa chiyanjano chanu akhoza kuwopseza munthu.
Adrenaline!
Khalani kwa iye chiyanjano ndi chowala ndi champhamvu, ndi adrenaline. Mugule tikiti yopita ku kanema ya gulu lanu lokonda, kuchokera kwa nyimbo zomwe okondedwa anu amatha kuthamanga, perekani kuti muthamange ndi parachute. M'mawu ake, pangani mikhalidwe yomwe mtima wa munthu wanu udzamenyana nawo movutikira, iye adzamva zowawa komanso zowawa. Kumbukirani kuti kukakamiza kwakukulu ndi kugonana ndi kofanana kwambiri: mtima umagunda mofulumira, komanso kupuma kwapakatikati, maonekedwe omveka bwino komanso zosangalatsa. Mukamuyitana kukhala ndi mgwirizano wolimba ndi zovuta kwambiri, mumamuphatikiza ndikumverera kokondweretsa.
Mtundu.
Mtundu wambiri umatanthauza bwanji kugonana. Sizongopanda kanthu kuti mtundu wofiira ndi mtundu wa kugonana ndi kugonana. Kodi ndi liti pamene munkavala zofiira, zofiira, olemera ndi zakuya? Pa tsiku lotsatira, onetsetsani kuti muvala kuvala kofiira kapena skirt. Buluu ndi zobiriwira, mosiyana, zimakhala ndi zotsatira zokhumudwitsa. Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi madzulo osangalatsa, valani maluwa awa.
Mirror.
Maganizo, pamene titsanzira kayendedwe ka interlocutor, timakhala pafupi naye, monga iye. Mwachidziwitso, izi zikuwoneka ngati ubale. Lembani khalidwe ndi kusuntha kwa mwamuna wanu, mwachitsanzo, ngati aika phazi lake pamtendo, achite chimodzimodzi. Izi zidzakupangitsani kuyandikana naye.
Dzina loyamba.
Kwa mwamuna, dzina lake limatanthauza zambiri. Itanani munthu nthawi zambiri ndi dzina lake. Pamene mumatchula makalata a dzina lake, mumakhala pafupi naye. Mumapanga mgwirizano wapamtima. Chinthu chachikulu sikuti chikhale choposa. Kwa theka la ola lakulankhulana kwanu ndi kokwanira kumutchula katatu ndi dzina, ngati mutachita izi mobwerezabwereza, ndiye mukhoza kukhumudwitsa.
Gwirani
Zomwe zimagwira ntchito nthawi zonse zimakhala zosangalatsa. Tikamakhudza mwamuna, amazitenga bwino. Dzanja lopanda paphewa kapena kugwira mwangozi kungakufikitseni inu ndi bamboyo pafupi.