Pamene zikuchitika, mwamuna amasiya chidaliro pakapita nthawi. Moyo wake wa kugonana sali wokondweretsa kwa iye, ndipo sangadabwe mkazi wake wokondedwa, popeza akudziwa kale. Ndipo pa nthawi ino akuyambitsa mbuye, ali bwino kwambiri, chifukwa amatha kumugonjetsa, kumusangalatsa, ndikungodzikonda yekha. Koma atangokwatirana, mbuyeyo amakhala kwa iye mkazi wosalira zambiri. Ndipo potsirizira pake, amaiponyera ndikuyamba banja latsopano, lolemera komanso lolimba.
Ngati mukufuna kumvetsa mwamuna wanu ndikuchigwira, kumbukirani, muyenera kumangodabwa nthawi zonse, khalani ndi chidwi ndi zomwe akuchita, kondwerani chifukwa cha iye, muyenera kuchita zonse kuti muthandizane. Koma ngati simungathe kuchita, musadabwe kuti anasankha wina.
Nthawi zina muyenera kuchitira nsanje mwamuna wanu. Pambuyo pa zonse, munthu atangowona pamapeto pa womutsutsa, akuyamba kukuwonetsani chidwi chake. Mukaona kuti pali chibwenzi, gwiritsani ntchito mphindi ino, ndipo mudzapindula. Pambuyo pake, anthu anali akadakalipo nthawi zisanayambe zaka zodziwika kuti ndi oyendetsa minda komanso osaka.
Kumbukirani ngati mukufuna kusunga mwamuna wanu wokondedwa komanso ngati ndinu wanzeru, simudzakhala pakhomo ndikupitiriza kumuphika. Koma mosiyana ndi zimenezo, mudzapita kwathunthu ndikusintha nokha makina kwa katswiri wamaphunziro. Choncho, mukhoza kusunga mwamuna wanu ndikubwezeretsa banja lanu chimwemwe.
Nanga n'chifukwa chiyani amuna amapita ndipo ndimamvetsa bwanji? Zambiri mwa kusinthazi ndi chifukwa chakuti amuna amafunika kudziwonetsera nokha.
Muyenera kumvetsa kuti mwamuna ayenera kupambana nthawi zonse, chonde, kuzindikira mkazi. Muyenera kukhalabe chinsinsi kwa iye nthawizonse. Khalani osiyana nthawi zonse, ndi kupotoza kwanu. Muyenera kukhala nyama yake, nyenyezi ndi nyenyezi yowala. Khalani achibadwa komanso mwachangu.
Komanso, mukhoza kukhala mwana wake, ndikupatseni ufulu wakusamalira, chifukwa munthu amakonda kumverera bwino.
Tikukhulupirira kuti mu nkhani ino tatiuza za khalidwe loyenera, momwe tingasunge munthu ndi kumumvetsa.