Kuyambitsa ubale ndi mnyamata, mtsikana aliyense amafuna kuti zonse zikhale zosalala, zokongola komanso zachikondi. Koma, mwatsoka, sikuti aliyense amadziwa momwe angamange ubale molondola, chifukwa samangomvetsa maganizo a amuna. Ndipotu, palibe chovuta kutero. Ndikofunika kuti tizindikire ndikuzindikira kuti amayi ndi abambo amasiyana mozindikira ndi momwe amaonera. Ndi munthu, simungayesere kumanga maubwenzi molingana ndi chitsanzo chomwecho ndi oimira za amuna anu. Kuti muyankhe funsoli: momwe mungamangire bwino maubwenzi ndi munthu, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti nthawi zina n'zosavuta kumvetsa.
Musakhale bukhu lowerengedwa
Kotero kuti, kuti tidziwe momwe tingamangire bwino maubwenzi ndi amuna, tiyeni tiwone chomwe mnyamatayo ali. Choyamba, munthu ndi msaki ndi wogonjetsa. Inde, m'dziko lamakono muli anthu ambiri, koma ndikuyembekeza kuti mupitiriza kumanga ubale ndi munthu weniweni wa kugonana kolimba. Choncho, poyambitsa chiyanjano ndi mwamuna, wina safunikira kuululira zonsezi kwa iye. Izo zatsimikiziridwa kwa nthawi milioni kuti akazi, omwe nthawi yomweyo amamuuza chirichonse kwa anyamata ndi kumachita ngati kuti ali okonzeka kudzipereka ku ukapolo, mofulumira kwambiri amanjenjemera. Komabe, simuyenera kunyalanyaza ndi chinsinsi. Ngati nthawi zonse muyankha mafunso onse a mnyamatayo ndi puzzles ndi chete, ayamba kukayikira kuti pali chinachake cholakwika kapena sangakupezeni mokwanira. Ntchito yanu yaikulu ndikutha kusiya zosavuta kuti musakhale buku lowerengedwa kwa iye ndipo ngati zidzakhalire, mutha kukhala ndi moyo, osati kumutsatira ndi mthunzi.
Chidaliro ndi chitsimikizo cha chiyanjano chabwino
Komanso, munthu ayenera kumvetsetsedwa molondola. Anyamata samakonda kulankhula zonyansa. Kwenikweni, akunena zomwe akuganiza. Choncho, wina sayenera kuyang'ana malemba atatu omwe amatanthauzira ndi obisika m'mawu ake. Atsikana ambiri amasokoneza maubwenzi chifukwa chakuti ali ndi mawu alionse omwe sakonda, amayamba kufunafuna tanthauzo lachinsinsi. Ndipotu, sizingatheke. Choncho, ngati mnyamatayo sakufuna kuti awonane lero, chifukwa watopa ndipo akufuna kukhala pa kompyuta, ndi choncho. Iye sapita kwa mbuye wake, sanakhumudwe ndi inu ndipo sanadwale matenda oopsa. Amangofuna kukhala pakhomo.
Kuti mupange ubale weniweni, muyenera kusiya nthawi kuti mupange malo. Mnyamata wanu akhoza kukhala ndi malingaliro ake, zinsinsi zake ndi zinsinsi. Sasowa kukuwonetsani ma sms aliyense ndikuwerenga uthenga uliwonse umene umabwera ku Skype kapena mawebusaiti. Ndipo sikuti iye amabisa asanu akukuvutitsani. Ndizoti munthu aliyense ali ndi zinthu zomwe angathe kukambirana ndi munthu mmodzi ndipo safuna kulankhula ndi wina. Choncho, kumbukirani nthawi zonse kuti maubwenzi amamangidwa pa chidaliro. Ngati simungathe kukhulupilira, zikutanthauza kuti mwina mumabwera ndi inu nokha, kapena mnyamatayo amadzimvera kwenikweni kuti sikutheka nsanje. Pachifukwa chotsatira, muyenera kungoganizira ngati zingatheke kuti mukhale ndi chiyanjano choyenera.
Lemezani zokondweretsa ndi chikhumbo
Kuwonjezera apo, kumbukirani kuti amuna ali ndi zofanana ndi zilakolako ndi zilakolako za amuna, monga inu. Inu mumakonda kupita kukagula, ndipo amayang'ana mpira, mukufuna kukonzekera madyerero a nkhuku, ndipo amafunika kukhala ndi anzanu komanso kumwa mowa. Amatha kutenga nawo mbali masewera a pakompyuta ndipo palibe chodandaula ngati zosangalatsa zake sizingasokoneze. Choncho, simukusowa kuuza munthu kuti sakukukondani, zomwe adasinthana ndi anzanu komanso makompyuta. Choncho, mumuchotsa payekha malo omwe akufunikira kwa munthu aliyense. Kumbukirani kuti inu kapena mnyamata wanu mulibe ufulu wotsutsa kulankhulana ndi anthu omwe ali okondedwa kwa inu kapena kwa iye, kapena kupereka gawo lina la nthawi yanu kuzinthu zomwe mumakonda.
Ngati mukufuna kuti ubalewu ukhale wamphamvu komanso wokondwa, yesetsani kupeza zomwe mukugwirizana ndikuyesetsana kumvetsetsana. Ngakhale iwo akunena kuti akazi ali ochokera ku Venus, ndipo amuna achokera ku Mars, mwinamwake, tikhoza kumagwirizana bwino ngati tiphunzira kumvetsera ndi kumvetsa bwino.