Misozi yamkazi ngati chida champhamvu, chitani pa amuna. Amachititsa chisoni ndi kukhumudwa. Ndipo amachita bwanji ndi amai - misonzi ya amuna? Nthawi zina amai amaiwala kuti anthu ndi anthu omwe ali ndi moyo ndi mtima. Amuna amakhalanso ndi chidziwitso komanso amafuna chikondi ndi chikondi.
Nchifukwa chiyani amuna akulira. Pali zifukwa zingapo zomwe zimapweteketsa misozi, kapena misonzi yowawa. Ngati munthu agwetsa misozi iyi, ndiye kuti sakhala "chiwombankhanga", sangathe kukhala nacho mwa iye yekha mkwiyo wonse ku zomwe zikuchitika. Ndipo munthu wamphamvu kwambiri akhoza kusonyeza mmene amamvera. Ndipo ofooka adzaopa kunyodola kwakukulu.
Choopsya choopsa kwambiri chimene chingamve munthu kulira ndi imfa ya wina pafupi ndi achibale: abwenzi. Ngakhale m'nthaŵi yovutayi ya moyo, iye ayenera kukhalabe wogwirizana ndi moyo. Pezani nokha mavuto onse a manda. Iyi ndi ndondomeko yovuta kwambiri, imakhala yofuna yapadera. Koma, panthawi yomwe zonse zokonzekera maliro zatha, mwamunayo amatsitsimula ndipo apa ndikutuluka mwa iye, kaya nyama ikubangula, chiyembekezo chimenecho, kapena tsaya lomwe lingagule misozi.
Amuna ambiri samatha kubweza misonzi posiyana ndi mkazi wokondedwa. Iwo alibe mphamvu kuti amenyane, kuti abwerere wokondedwayo. Kuchokera pa zonse zomwe zikuchitika, amayamba kusungunuka, ndipo amatha, ngati akazi, amalowa mumtsamiro. Koma idzakhala mphindi imodzi yokha ya misonzi yomwe palibe amene adzaiwona.
Pa misonkhano ya tchalitchi, amuna amasonyezanso misonzi. Koma, kale kale, ndi Mulungu alowa mu moyo wawo, ndikuwulula zonse zobisika za moyo. Panthawi ino munthu amakhala yekha, ndipo sasonyeza mphamvu zake ndi chikhalidwe chake. Iye amakhala mwana chabe, woyera ndi wotseguka.
Akazi amaganiza kuti ndi okhawo omwe angathe kuchitapo kanthu mwakhama matenda a ana. Ndizo zokha zomwe amatha kumvetsetsa ndi ena. Mwamuna womvetsetsa mkazi, kawirikawiri amakhala ndi zovuta zomwe sungakhoze kusonyeza momwe akumvera mulimonsemo.
Ngati akazi okha ankadziwa. Chimachitika mu mtima wa munthu pa nthawi ino. Zimamupweteka ndi kusungulumwa pa nthawi izi. Iye sangakhoze kulira monga mkazi, iye sangakhoze kuwaitana abwenzi ake ndi kulira mu chovala chake. Chifukwa chakuti apangidwa kuchokera ku "mayesero" ena, amatalika kwambiri kuposa mkazi.
Simunadabwepo chifukwa chake anthu amamwalira nthawi zambiri akakula msinkhu. Chifukwa chakuti sangathe kusonyeza chisoni chawo, misonzi yawo. Zonsezi zimakhala mkati mwawo, ndipo zimaphwanya mtima pang'onopang'ono kukhala zidutswa zing'onozing'ono. Idya moyo. Zimatenthedwa ndi moto m'kati mwa thupi. Koma sangathe kuwonetsa izi, chifukwa amaganiza kuti zili pansi pa ulemu wawo.
Koma kodi amawatsanulira kuti? Iwo amapeza njira yina yotulukira, kumamwa, kumwa ndi kumwa. Zikuwoneka kwa iwo kuti mowa ndi njira yokha yochotsera malo onse. Pofuna kuti amuna asakhale okhaokha, sankamwa mowa, ife-akazi tiwathandize. Ife ndife oyamba amayi omwe ayenera komanso akuyenera kumverera ana awo, amuna awo, abale. Akazi ali olimba kwambiri mwamakhalidwe kuposa amuna.
Simungamunyozetse munthu ngati adalira kale pamaso panu. Misozi ya amuna ndi yosiyana ndi misonzi ya akazi. Azimayi akulira ndi popanda. Munthu akhoza kulira panthawi ina, pamene moyo wake uli wodzazidwa ndi maganizo. Mwamuna amatanthauza misozi - imatanthauza zambiri, zikutanthauza kuti mwamuna yemwe ali ndi inu ndi woona mtima ndipo adziwonetsa yekha kwa inu popanda chipolopolo chake chovuta.
Akazi amasamalira amuna, palibe ambiri mwa iwo padziko lino lapansi. Alole iwo azikhala pakhomo, amve ndi kulira, ndipo mumangomvetsera kulira kwa moyo wawo. Musakumbukire konse, musakumbukire konse kuseka kwa misozi.