Choyamba, tiyenera kukambirana zomwe zili m'nkhani ino zokhazo zomwe zakhala zikuphunziridwa, mayesero a nthawi, mayesero, ndi zina zotero, zimaganiziridwa, sizikugwera.
Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, izi sizikumveka ngati izo, koma anthu ali ndi maganizo kwambiri kuposa momwe mukuganizira. Maganizo awo samangokhalapo ndipo nthawi zambiri amasungidwa mkati. Kuti munthu atsegule munthu wina ndi zovuta (ndizovuta kuvomereza zofooka zake), choncho nthawi zina amachita zinthu mosavuta atagawanika. Tiyeni tione mitundu yambiri ya makhalidwe.
Mtundu woyamba wa khalidwe. Boomerang.
Monga akunena, nthawi zina amabwerera. Amuna ambiri ndi zolengedwa zosamvetsetseka ndipo nthawi zina amapitiriza kuyitanitsa chiyanjano ndikuyesa kuyambitsa maubwenzi atsopano, osayang'anitsitsa kusagwirizana kwathu, akupitiriza kulimbikira. Ndipo nthawi zina zimachitika, ngakhale nthawi yopuma itayambika yekha. Pachifukwa ichi, kupititsa patsogolo ubalewu kumadalira pa ife eni, ndipo tiyenera kutsatira malamulo athu.
Mtundu wachiwiri wa khalidwe. Sindikukufunani, ndapeza mosavuta malo.
Zomwe sizingatheke kuganiza, izi zimachitika pamene munthu wanu wakale "tsiku lotsatira" mutatha kugawanika akudziyesa bwenzi lachilendo (monga lamulo, zimakhala zoipitsitsa kuposa inu, monga akunena, zomwe zinasintha). Izi sizikutanthawuza kuti malingaliro anu kwa inu asokonekera kwa iye, panthawi imodzimodzi yomwe inu mwathyola, mwamuna yekha akusowa kutetezedwa, mukusowa kutsimikiziridwa kuti ali ngati mwamuna. Anangofuna munthu woti akhale pafupi. Choncho musafulumire kudziganizira nokha kuposa "nkhuku" imene iye adapeza, izi ndizowonetseratu zofooka.
Mtundu wachitatu wa khalidwe. Magpie anamubweretsa iye pamchira.
Monga ife tonse tikudziwira, amuna ndi amwano kwambiri kuposa akazi. Ndipo ngati inu ndi anzanu mumalowa mu bwalo limodzi lakulankhulana, ndiye kuti mutha kuzindikira mwadzidzidzi kuti wina akufalitsa zabodza zonyansa za inu. Ichi, ndithudi, ndi wanu wakale, ndipo ine ndiyenera kunena kuti izi ndi zonyansa kwambiri. Pankhaniyi, sikuti ndikuopa kutayika nkhope yanu ngati munthu (ngakhale kuti sali woyenera dzina limeneli), koma kuphatikizapo kubwezera pang'ono ndi chonyansa. Munthu akuyesera kukukhumudwitsani ndi kudziwonetsa nokha ngati wodwala.
Mtundu wachinayi wa khalidwe. Ulemu ndi bata.
Ponena za khalidwe ili la munthu mutatha kugawanika lingangokulolani, chabwino, kapena kukudani, ngati ili ndi lanu. Izi, monga akunena, "Anasiyanitsa anzanu", pakadali pano, mutatha, simunakhale mwamuna - ngati mnzanu mu chiyanjano, koma mnzako wamkulu adawonekera amene akumvetsa ndikukuthandizani. Ndipo nthawi zina zimakhala bwino kuposa chiyanjano. Kawirikawiri, izi zimakuwonetsani inu ndi kukula kwake. Chabwino, chinthu china ndikuti mwasiya ubwenzi wanu pa nthawi.
Mtundu wachisanu wa khalidwe. Anthu osadziwika.
Izi ndizochitika, mutatha kupatukana, mwadzidzidzi mukuzindikira kuti panalibe chofanana pakati panu ndi chiyanjano chanu, ndipo amamvetsetsanso izi. Ndiye amakhala ngati munthu wosadziwika bwino, palibe maitanidwe, palibe miseche, palibe ubale, kuyankhulana kumachepetsedwa. Pankhaniyi, mungangodandaula kuti muli ndi chibwenzi, chifukwa ndinu osiyana kwambiri ndipo mulibe kanthu kochita ndi moyo.
Zoonadi, izi sizili mitundu yonse ya khalidwe, chifukwa kwenikweni kupatukana kuli kosiyana. Izi ndi zitsanzo zowonongeka komanso zomwe zimachitika. Pano pano, zifukwa zolekanitsa sizikudziwikanso nkomwe, komanso zimakhudza kwambiri khalidwe la munthu mutatha.